I have this girl who dealt with my heart like a devil
We where still dating and she got deflowered by another guy
She did not tell me until probably when the order guy stopped showing interest in her.
I did a lot for this girl and she treated me like a slave.

ALL THIS HAPPEN 2009 and I ended the relationship

By 2010, I had started putting my life together and one day
I was just thinking back when the whole scene came back. I felt bad that I had to curse her via text message and ever since , she has wanted us to continue without apologizing for her action.

At one point she said she wants to have s3x with badly on phone
She even wanted to see me again because she has not seen me since 2009

She has been acting as if she regretted what she did even if she never mention it.
I know she is ready to do anything now but here is the problem,

I am a kind of person that if you distort the reputation I have for you,I mean the respect I have for you, It is gone for life,

I have never found it had to forgive people, but this girl,mmba , it is not working that way. Though I feel bad about this but the thing has really been uncontrollable for me. I just cant forgive her so easily,

This was a girl I planned to marry even though I had not yet the reached the age,but closed to it. I dont flirt though I grew up see most of my relatives doing it. I am a real getto boy but my personality does not reveal it

Even though she wants us to continue, THE THOUGHT OF THE FACT THAT GIRLS DON'T FORGET THE GUY THAT DEFLOWERED HER IS THE BIGGEST ROADBLOCK. BECAUSE I WOULD ALWAYS FEEL THAT SHE IS STILL IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER GUY

And I also feel I am the available who is not desirable, she is just want to hang out with me because she has got no choice

OR MY PEOPLE, AM I LYING?

[size=13pt]how many times are u gonna complain abt ur ex

BTW aren't u too childish 2 start placin a curse on someone,

Goosh,,too much Yoruba local home movies has corrupted your thinking

and it has beclouded your sense of reasoning that u wanna apply it into your relationship~[/size]

shut up, 190!
The only thing you ever know how to do is make stupid comment on every thread you read. you know what? That is the most damn thing I ever noticed about this retarded baboon called 190, and the most common thing about you is that you like criticizing people here and as if you have never made a mistake in your relationship once. even when there is a popular saying that goes thus: no man is infallible, yet 190 claims otherwise, what a pervert hiding under a false personality

You keep making comments here and there as if you immune to making mistakes,
190. guys on NL it is not as if I am being hash on the alien who mistakenly got hook on NL like some guy get hooked on dope, but quick head over to the search bar on this forum and type 190, the result that would be return would amaze because you will be given access to all the comment this he has made so far. Then you can judge.

Mr. I-too-Know (hiss)

190.190,1990,1790,
grand slowpoke!

^^
Sighs

If you can't get pass your past then please my brother move on!!!!!!!!! If she did it once she will continue move on I beg before she show you more pepper.

2sexy, 190 has a gd point.

Poster,

Guy, how u sef go dey rain CURSE on a girl thru text msg na, thats too lame na woman suppose dey do dat na shows u no be hard guy at all. Since wey don chop ur virgin-ex remain 4u, u sef no do like say e too pain u na just follow chop ur own inside her punanie like 5 times or so make u dump the girls for another guy since she wey she don become left-over 4 you.

Look, wahala no dey church o! na "sé adurá ki n sé amí" na im dey o!

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