YorubaMuslims:
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kaen1317:
Tell Buhari Mr Integrity to take you there.

Palehair:

Sure, let's go back to the days where religion controlled everyone's lives and the concept of freewill and basic human rights were swept under, the days where society dictates it's laws to tell you who you are even if you aren't hurting no one, the days where women couldn't choose what to do with their bodies but the choices were left to men, the days we were told the TV is the devil's box, yea, that's rich, I'm so looking forward to going back to primitive times

safarigirl:



Society is still dictating to people and telling them who they are, society has just changed requirements and widened the scope of judges.

Today, society is dictating that virginity is outdated and acceptance is only based on your willingness to have sex out of wedlock. Society is telling you if you aren't clubbing and smoking, then you aren't living life. Society is telling you that being a babymama is fine, and people should not be held accountable for their actions.

Today, society is glorifiying criminality because the government and politicians have made things 'difficult'. Today, society is telling women the skimpier the clothes and the lighter their shades, then the easier they can be accepted. Society is telling women that theie bodies are ugly and they need to constantly change it for the approval of men, society is spreading the belief that old age is unnatural, that every sign of aging is like a disease that must be cured by surgery or 'skin care'. Society is telling women that their vaginas are more important than their brains, and telling men that you don't need to be a human being, as long as you have money.


Society is selling depression in large doses.People are feeling sad, people feel unwanted, people feel pressured to be who they are not, to please people who don't care about them. Yes, this generation is having such a great time with civilization. Peep the suicide figures for a greater appreciation of modernity

Palehair:

Sure, let's go back to the days where religion controlled everyone's lives and the concept of freewill and basic human rights were swept under, the days where society dictates it's laws to tell you who you are even if you aren't hurting no one, the days where women couldn't choose what to do with their bodies but the choices were left to men, the days we were told the TV is the devil's box, yea, that's rich, I'm so looking forward to going back to primitive times

safarigirl:



Society is still dictating to people and telling them who they are, society has just changed requirements and widened the scope of judges.

Today, society is dictating that virginity is outdated and acceptance is only based on your willingness to have sex out of wedlock. Society is telling you if you aren't clubbing and smoking, then you aren't living life. Society is telling you that being a babymama is fine, and people should not be held accountable for their actions.

Today, society is glorifiying criminality because the government and politicians have made things 'difficult'. Today, society is telling women the skimpier the clothes and the lighter their shades, then the easier they can be accepted. Society is telling women that theie bodies are ugly and they need to constantly change it for the approval of men, society is spreading the belief that old age is unnatural, that every sign of aging is like a disease that must be cured by surgery or 'skin care'. Society is telling women that their vaginas are more important than their brains, and telling men that you don't need to be a human being, as long as you have money.


Society is selling depression in large doses.People are feeling sad, people feel unwanted, people feel pressured to be who they are not, to please people who don't care about them. Yes, this generation is having such a great time with civilization. Peep the suicide figures for a greater appreciation of modernity

safarigirl:



Society is still dictating to people and telling them who they are, society has just changed requirements and widened the scope of judges.

Today, society is dictating that virginity is outdated and acceptance is only based on your willingness to have sex out of wedlock. Society is telling you if you aren't clubbing and smoking, then you aren't living life. Society is telling you that being a babymama is fine, and people should not be held accountable for their actions.

Today, society is glorifiying criminality because the government and politicians have made things 'difficult'. Today, society is telling women the skimpier the clothes and the lighter their shades, then the easier they can be accepted. Society is telling women that theie bodies are ugly and they need to constantly change it for the approval of men, society is spreading the belief that old age is unnatural, that every sign of aging is like a disease that must be cured by surgery or 'skin care'. Society is telling women that their vaginas are more important than their brains, and telling men that you don't need to be a human being, as long as you have money.


Society is selling depression in large doses.People are feeling sad, people feel unwanted, people feel pressured to be who they are not, to please people who don't care about them. Yes, this generation is having such a great time with civilization. Peep the suicide figures for a greater appreciation of modernity

Ugosample:


These days, we have FREE WILL And the CHOICE

that is the difference

you will not know the value of those two until its taken away from you (Ask the Saudi's)

These days you can CHOOSE to be whatever you want to be..

you know right and wrong and you can CHOOSE to do right for your own happiness

These days you can CHOOSE to be a Virgin to be at peace with your God and to keep away from STD and to be away from emotional entanglements; not because you want to please one Man, or seem "valuable" to a man

You can CHOOSE not to go clubbing because you have better things to do wity your time, and you don't want the health risk of smoking anyhow or excessive alcoholism


Choices and Freewill are the greatest gifts of the 21st century
those who choose to go the other way accept the consequence of such acts.

Society will always set standards
the difference is that today we have choices

DasAll

Elvis778:
Those days when women were properties rather than wives,
those days when women and young folks has no say,
those days when our elders wud sell us to the white men as slaves in exchange of foreign ammunition,
those days our lives were under the mercy of dictators and nothing like free will,
those days when we will be killed and persecuted for accepting that the earth is spherical and not flat,
those days when we were dumb and only knew how to farm and fish............

ThankGod you said "take me"
cuz me i no follow you at all

safarigirl:




Am I really choosing, if my choice is made under duress? Am I really choosing, if my choice is borne out of a need to be accepted by people? Is that free will?

Do you know how many womem have been pressured into losing their virginities because all their friends are doing it? Do you know how many people feel disgusted with themselves for giving themselves away like that?

What is your definition of free will? Because a lot of you do not understand the psychological undertones in these things. When your mind has been enslaved, you do not have free will. Free will is a farce in today's world.

OkaNaUbe:
Sadly, you can be good in an evil world. Those days will come when Jesus rules the earth with the saints in it.

Ugosample:



I don't understand the psychological undertones to these things? Lolol Lmao

There is a reason why you came to this world with parents and you are from a family

They have been here before you, and they are to GUIDE you for the first few years of your existence towards what is good and what is bad, and the consequences of each action

When you have been properly guided AND FULLY understand the consequences of each action, you are less likely to "make decisions under duress"

Nigeria for example is a failed, finished country; and what contributed to its failed and finished state is the FAILURE of the parents to raise BALANCED individuals the PROPER way...
what they did instead was to raise docile subservient punks.

That is why you hear most of this duress thing

For example, a daughter who was raised well by her father, and given a healthy dose of self esteem will be less likely to "give herself up" let me use your words under duress....

she values herself so much, and would rather enter into sexual relationships when she is ready for it (not necessarily when she gets married)

A man who was raised properly by his own father and is balanced is less likely to seek validation elsewhere
He got that at home already, from people that really love him.

why do these black boys in America try to seek validation by joining gangs and all that?
most if the time, there is that hole in their lives that their fathers did not fill, and they go out there to fill it....

My point is that with proper parenting and a good family structure, in the era of free will and choices, one is more inclined to make better choices

Then being forced blindly to do things


PARENTS have a huge role to play in the 21st century
you may not like the world the way it is
but you can't change it...
but then
you have to raise your kids right

And BTW it's father's day

happy father's day to all father's out there
Please let us continue to play our God given role in raising BALANCED kids.


God bless you all this Sunday every one here