So many brothers have told me that the ladies they go out with have said the above or a variation thereof.

I have experienced the same...

In the Nigerian context, what do our ladies define as stress? And for our guys, what did you do that made her make such a remark?

And why do they hate it so much when in marriage one cannot escape stress?

Is this a sort of secret code for us guys to separate those who can stand the heat in marriage and those who cannot?

A financially struggling marriage or relationship is stress

I guy who is always calling...she feels smoothered..... like she has no space to breath

Deepfeel:
A financially struggling marriage or relationship is stress

o.p this is your answer..

look no further.

She wants you to kip providing her comfort on a steady basis .