sherylbakky:
Just go to the nearest police station n tell them everything u just wrote here.

sherylbakky:
Just go to the nearest police station n tell them everything u just wrote here.

MJBOLT:

you dont want to be blamed for what exactly? she's manipulating you,if she succeeds she will cheat again and this time rub it in your face.let the b*tch kill herself so we can type RIP for her on nairaland

ebuka10box:
Thought of that but a friend persuaded me not to. He told me not to quit just like that, he said I should act like we r still dating but show less attention . She is gonna get tired with time.

Preshy561:
Be like seh na besties deh enjoy pass bf/gf.

SmellySperm:
I pity guys that fall in love with naija babes...bro still act normal with benefits, that's all

CAPSLOCKED:
YOUNG MEN OF NAIRALAND THIS THREAD IS TO REMIND YOU THAT THERE'S NOTHING LIKE GENUINE "BESTIE" RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A WOMAN AND A MAN.

IF YOUR LADY HAS A BESTIE THAT IS MALE, OR KEEPS A LOT OF MALE FRIENDS CLOSELY, THEN I'M SORRY FOR YOU.

SmellySperm:
I pity guys that fall in love with naija babes...bro still act normal with benefits, that's all

SmellySperm:
you know the drill

ebuka10box:
I have been dating this girl for about 4months,sincerely she has been good and she doesn't demand much. I have been loyal for these past months cause I decided to take her serious and shun flirting. I noticed she has been so occupied 3weeks back cause she is always on the phone either chatting or on calls even as late as 12am. I confronted her to tell me the truth if she is having sex outside our relationship , she wanted to deny it but I pressed on. She told me she had a fling with her bestie 2weeks ago in her house. I didn't feel bad cause she cheated on me but the idea of a bestie having sex with her in her house got me upset and she hasn't visited the guy from what she told me. She said that was the only time she cheated in me. I told her its over and since then she has been crying and begging me to come back. Couple of days back I learnt she tried committing suicide and the text messages I have been receiving from her makes me afraid. I don't want her to harm herself or commit suicide neither do I want to go back to the relationship. Please nairalanders,how do I go about this!!!!! I don't want to be blamed after everything when I didn't have bad motives.

if you hadn't found out or pressed on when she foolishly denied it, you would never ever have found out cos she'll never have told you and it seem she enjoyed the guys dick than yours, even when you Bleep her, don't be surprised she calls out the guy's name... I'm doing male bestie with Nigerian bitvhes too bro and I can tell you, they are easy prey when it comes to pant shifting... I can advice for Africa

Jayslicky:
I advise you don't pretend that you are still in the relationship, it will do you and her a lot of good, if you deceive her it may later lead to something bad, she may just kill you for that since she has the courage to try suicide, she may just kill you and kill herself. She has obssessive love for you.

Tell her that you guyz should take a break in your relationship and let you clear your head, put her in this condition for at least six months, you will notice her affection for you would reduce drastically. That girl has not yet discovered herself hence the reason she is trying to commit suicide for boyfriend not even husband.

ebuka10box:
I have been dating this girl for about 4months,sincerely she has been good and she doesn't demand much. I have been loyal for these past months cause I decided to take her serious and shun flirting. I noticed she has been so occupied 3weeks back cause she is always on the phone either chatting or on calls even as late as 12am. I confronted her to tell me the truth if she is having sex outside our relationship , she wanted to deny it but I pressed on. She told me she had a fling with her bestie 2weeks ago in her house. I didn't feel bad cause she cheated on me but the idea of a bestie having sex with her in her house got me upset and she hasn't visited the guy from what she told me. She said that was the only time she cheated in me. I told her its over and since then she has been crying and begging me to come back. Couple of days back I learnt she tried committing suicide and the text messages I have been receiving from her makes me afraid. I don't want her to harm herself or commit suicide neither do I want to go back to the relationship. Please nairalanders,how do I go about this!!!!! I don't want to be blamed after everything when I didn't have bad motives.

ebuka10box:
Thought of that but a friend persuaded me not to. He told me not to quit just like that, he said I should act like we r still dating but show less attention . She is gonna get tired with time.

ebuka10box:
I have been dating this girl for about 4months,sincerely she has been good and she doesn't demand much. I have been loyal for these past months cause I decided to take her serious and shun flirting. I noticed she has been so occupied 3weeks back cause she is always on the phone either chatting or on calls even as late as 12am. I confronted her to tell me the truth if she is having sex outside our relationship , she wanted to deny it but I pressed on. She told me she had a fling with her bestie 2weeks ago in her house. I didn't feel bad cause she cheated on me but the idea of a bestie having sex with her in her house got me upset and she hasn't visited the guy from what she told me. She said that was the only time she cheated in me. I told her its over and since then she has been crying and begging me to come back. Couple of days back I learnt she tried committing suicide and the text messages I have been receiving from her makes me afraid. I don't want her to harm herself or commit suicide neither do I want to go back to the relationship. Please nairalanders,how do I go about this!!!!! I don't want to be blamed after everything when I didn't have bad motives.