| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by femi4: 6:16am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.
I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.
Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.
I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.
Pls I need hints! The earlier the better, make your intention known to her but quickly add that you ll give her time to think about it. Don't be desperate, maintain your friendship level and after a month you ll know whether its going to be a YES or NO 1 Like |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by jesmond3945: 7:48am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Thats what these campus fellowships are all about, opportunities for boys and girls to fornicate in the name of brother-sister. Thats why during my youthful days I never attended any because they all lost focus. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by misreal(m): 8:07am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.
I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.
Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.
I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.
Pls I need hints! pray about it first.then tell her you think she is the one,and that she should take sometime to pray about it. It works sir |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by frozen70(f): 10:12am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.
I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.
Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.
I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.
Pls I need hints! It's good you have spotted a wife to be There are ways of winning a woman's heart without Overy labouring yourself Start by getting her number Call her and say hello to her and you are just checking on her During the day send an sms asking her how she is doing and if she has gotten something for lunch At night, send messages to her and wish her a good night sleep Once in a while, visit her or stay close to her to understand her kind of person Women love gifts, any thing can be gift, even gala or bread and butter, just anything that will serve as meal for her Don't disclose your intentions yet but keep observing her characters and attitudes, that's the most important aspect of a woman's life not beauty or physics With time other guys who sees you with her will distance themselves thinking you are the guy there As time goes on the relationship will grow big and develops to what plans you guys might have for each other Love and marriage is sweeter when it starts with friendship |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Swizbank: 7:41am On Jun 14, 2019 |
frozen70:
It's good you have spotted a wife to be
There are ways of winning a woman's heart without Overy labouring yourself
Start by getting her number
Call her and say hello to her and you are just checking on her
During the day send an sms asking her how she is doing and if she has gotten something for lunch
At night, send messages to her and wish her a good night sleep
Once in a while, visit her or stay close to her to understand her kind of person
Women love gifts, any thing can be gift, even gala or bread and butter, just anything that will serve as meal for her
Don't disclose your intentions yet but keep observing her characters and attitudes, that's the most important aspect of a woman's life not beauty or physics
With time other guys who sees you with her will distance themselves thinking you are the guy there
As time goes on the relationship will grow big and develops to what plans you guys might have for each other
Love and marriage is sweeter when it starts with friendship Thank you. I have her num already. We talk every night.but remember am the leader in the house, how doni explain to other members that my intentions are pure when they see me always hanging around with her. Don't u think it might trigger jealousy and bring division?? |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Swizbank: 7:45am On Jun 14, 2019 |
misreal:
pray about it first.then tell her you think she is the one,and that she should take sometime to pray about it.
It works sir
OK sir. How do I tell her, based on her age, so that she understands. Can u construct a sample msg pls |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by frozen70(f): 7:46am On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
Thank you. I have her num already. We talk every night.but remember am the leader in the house, how doni explain to other members that my intentions are pure when they see me always hanging around with her. Don't u think it might trigger jealousy and bring division?? Forget about what people will say, let your mind and conscience do that for you You can still respect yourself while everything is going on just because you are there leader Know your limits to avoid embarrassing situations 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Swizbank: 8:00am On Jun 14, 2019 |
frozen70:
Forget about what people will say, let your mind and conscience do that for you
You can still respect yourself while everything is going on just because you are there leader
Know your limits to avoid embarrassing situations OK thanks. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by misreal(m): 8:05am On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
OK sir. How do I tell her, based on her age, so that she understands. Can u construct a sample msg pls She is not too young sir.. Just call her aside, and tell her you think she is the right one for you. Tell her to pray about it and you pray about it first.. Please don't go telling her a lot of romantic jargon oh. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by misreal(m): 8:07am On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
Thank you. I have her num already. We talk every night.but remember am the leader in the house, how doni explain to other members that my intentions are pure when they see me always hanging around with her. Don't u think it might trigger jealousy and bring division?? It won't cause jealousy sir. I am using myself as a case study... Just make sure that you don't do anything suspicious.that will be the only time,your members will not trust you. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Nobody: 8:17am On Jun 14, 2019 |
frozen70:
It's good you have spotted a wife to be
There are ways of winning a woman's heart without Overy labouring yourself
Start by getting her number
Call her and say hello to her and you are just checking on her
During the day send an sms asking her how she is doing and if she has gotten something for lunch
At night, send messages to her and wish her a good night sleep
Once in a while, visit her or stay close to her to understand her kind of person
Women love gifts, any thing can be gift, even gala or bread and butter, just anything that will serve as meal for her
Don't disclose your intentions yet but keep observing her characters and attitudes, that's the most important aspect of a woman's life not beauty or physics
With time other guys who sees you with her will distance themselves thinking you are the guy there
As time goes on the relationship will grow big and develops to what plans you guys might have for each other
Love and marriage is sweeter when it starts with friendship OMG! this is the best advice here! A bottle of cold pepsi for you ma  |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Swizbank: 8:19am On Jun 14, 2019 |
misreal:
It won't cause jealousy sir.
I am using myself as a case study...
Just make sure that you don't do anything suspicious.that will be the only time,your members will not trust you. OK. Thank you very much sir. How I wish I can hear a bit of your case, and how it went |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by frozen70(f): 8:53am On Jun 14, 2019 |
tohyorsih2:
OMG! this is the best advice here!
A bottle of cold pepsi for you ma Lol |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by misreal(m): 9:55am On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
OK. Thank you very much sir. How I wish I can hear a bit of your case, and how it went I will post a bit of it here when I am free. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by ecstasy357(m): 10:22am On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.
I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.
Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.
I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.
Pls I need hints! Don't tell her anything about feelings yet. Do this... 1. Get to know her beyond her physical attributes. 2. Your conversations with her should not be only about church. Talk about life, plans and goals. 3. Bros, pls don't be a stalker. You must not stop her every time after service to talk to her. 4. Do well to complement her. Try not to over do this. Also, if there's anything u notice about her, good or bad, point it out to her. 5. Let her know u like her without telling her (send signals). Signals will keep u in her mind, wondering if u like her or not. NB: DON'T ASK FOR HER NUMBER YET. THERE SHOULD BE A REASON TO GET HER NUMBER OTHER THAN FEELINGS. THIS WILL HELP YOU IN TERMS OF CONVERSATION. YOU DONT WANT HER TO IGNORE YOUR BORING CALLS, "HOW R U? HOW was YA DAY?" |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by ecstasy357(m): 10:30am On Jun 14, 2019 |
frozen70:
It's good you have spotted a wife to be
There are ways of winning a woman's heart without Overy labouring yourself
Start by getting her number
Call her and say hello to her and you are just checking on her
During the day send an sms asking her how she is doing and if she has gotten something for lunch
At night, send messages to her and wish her a good night sleep
Once in a while, visit her or stay close to her to understand her kind of person
Women love gifts, any thing can be gift, even gala or bread and butter, just anything that will serve as meal for her
Don't disclose your intentions yet but keep observing her characters and attitudes, that's the most important aspect of a woman's life not beauty or physics
With time other guys who sees you with her will distance themselves thinking you are the guy there
As time goes on the relationship will grow big and develops to what plans you guys might have for each other
Love and marriage is sweeter when it starts with friendship This is d worst advice ever. Do this and you will surely lose the girl. Be sending messages day and night and you will appear jobless or like a stalker. Buy her lunch and u don turn to her lunch ticket. Understanding her kinda person is a good advice. Don't buy gifts oooo Think about it...how many guys do u think are trying to impress her by buying her gifts? Don't be d next ATM. There's a rule about buying gifts. You don't jes go around buying gifts for every girl u like....who does that? |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by frozen70(f): 3:43pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
ecstasy357:
This is d worst advice ever.
Do this and you will surely lose the girl.
Be sending messages day and night and you will appear jobless or like a stalker.
Buy her lunch and u don turn to her lunch ticket.
Understanding her kinda person is a good advice.
Don't buy gifts oooo
Think about it...how many guys do u think are trying to impress her by buying her gifts? Don't be d next ATM.
There's a rule about buying gifts. You don't jes go around buying gifts for every girl u like....who does that? Don't you think yours is the worst advice ❓ |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by ecstasy357(m): 6:50pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
frozen70:
Don't you think yours is the worst advice ❓ Nope. Mine has worked so many a time. Yours I have seen fail. You do not buy a girl neither do u stalk her day and night. If they've started dating, then it's OK. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.
I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.
Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.
I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.
Pls I need hints! See ur self.They finally have u where they want u..... Lost  |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Draken(m): 8:02pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.
I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.
Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.
I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.
Pls I need hints! Whatever we tell you to do you won't listen. You clearly are in love with a her so just follow your heart. Come report back to us next year. |
| Re: Pls Help, How Do I Go About This? by Daniwak: 9:24pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
This is a simple issue.. U said u want her 4 marriage? U ursrlf are u ready & ripe 4 marriage? Do u have a job or business that can take care of u, ur wife & kids? If yes , if u have a senior pastor in ur church, tell ur parents to talk to the pastor about it.. And let the pastor tell the gals parents about it.. If u use ur mouth run m, she go fall ur hand i de tell u.. |
