Timekeeper:
I would love to know the best ladies prefers.
Who would you choose between?

A guys that loves you, cares for you, adores you and treat you as if you are the only lady in this world but you don't really love him like that

Or

A guy that doesn't really love you, he is just your close frnd but you love him. You care for him but he doesn't really love you. And he is probably the reason you don't love the guy that cares 4u genuinely


If you are told to settle down with one, who would you choose between the two?

Cc:
Saff
Pocohantas
Mannabbqgirlls
Queenice
Onyi22
MissRaine
Makydebbie
PrimadonnaO
ImaIma1 (my married nairaland crush)
MissSweet
mercy0008
Funmisticqueen
chiommy123
zinnyzee
QueenSekxy
Daeylar
sochey
MissSweet
ibkayee

Timekeeper:
I would love to know the best ladies prefers.
Who would you choose between?

A guys that loves you, cares for you, adores you and treat you as if you are the only lady in this world but you don't really love him like that

Or

A guy that doesn't really love you, he is just your close frnd but you love him. You care for him but he doesn't really love you. And he is probably the reason you don't love the guy that cares 4u genuinely


If you are told to settle down with one, who would you choose between the two?

Cc:
Saff
Pocohantas
Mannabbqgirlls
Queenice
Onyi22
MissRaine
Makydebbie
PrimadonnaO
ImaIma1 (my married nairaland crush)
MissSweet
mercy0008
Funmisticqueen
chiommy123
zinnyzee
QueenSekxy
Daeylar
sochey
MissSweet
ibkayee

AmazonTopaz:
Love alone would not do it for me in a marriage or relationship.
I need the one that would understand me.I don't even know how to love so it is better the guy has the upperhand in that area(love or understanding)
To me understanding summarises love
Just understand me

LordKO:



Understanding is it. It should always be the bond, if it's dating - with something bigger "oneness" as the target if it's marriage because it's the zenith of understanding. Feeling may be mutual, but love will always remain a man's forte while submissiveness a woman's forte .

A rational you like this will always be a better you.

AmazonTopaz:

The bold is not for me sir.

LordKO:


lol. How can you achieve understanding if love doesn't agree/meet submissiveness (not servility)?

MJBOLT:

all this girls up there telling lies,they will go after the guy that does not love them and use the guy that loves them to pass away time

AmazonTopaz:

Commissioner for women affairs na so dem to tell you
You are in no position to speak for all women

MJBOLT:

i have seen it happen many times,the guy that care,adore,loves,treat a lady well always end up in the friendzone while the other guy will get all the love,care and attention from the girl

MJBOLT:

Biglittlelois,wake up sleepy sleepy

AmazonTopaz:

Who said they had to meet each other. There is no manual for relationships.love and submission is not the only thing that matters in a relationship or marriage and there are other factors and to me understanding is of high importance it summarises both(love and submission and whatever you might add) and understanding matters to both parties.
I believe in mutuality so if it has to be submissiveness(I am not a submissive person by nature and I don't plan on being one now) and love and whatever factors I expect it to be mutual not just from me but both of us with that we can reach understanding.

LordKO:



Love and submissiveness are compound products of goodness - unfortunately goodness (or an entity) changes its form when talking about mutuality.

Variance doesn't automatically mean negative - at least not in this case - submissiveness will always remain a variant of love, just like a woman is a different form of another human being, man. Difference doesn't mean inequality.

Biglittlelois:


The Bible says "husband love your wife, wife submit to your husband" that is my stand on that, sorry M.J I had to go religious

MJBOLT:

Biglittlelois,wake up sleepy sleepy

Timekeeper:
I would love to know the best ladies prefers.
Who would you choose between?

A guys that loves you, cares for you, adores you and treat you as if you are the only lady in this world but you don't really love him like that

Or

A guy that doesn't really love you, he is just your close frnd but you love him. You care for him but he doesn't really love you. And he is probably the reason you don't love the guy that cares 4u genuinely



If you are told to settle down with one, who would you choose between the two?

Cc:
Saff
Pocohantas
Mannabbqgirlls
Queenice
Onyi22
MissRaine
Makydebbie
PrimadonnaO
ImaIma1 (my married nairaland crush)
MissSweet
mercy0008
Funmisticqueen
chiommy123
zinnyzee
QueenSekxy
Daeylar
sochey
MissSweet
ibkayee

MJBOLT:

i talk am,las las you will friendzone the guy that treats you well.

Fountainofyouth:
Lol

Biglittlelois:



What is your ish please.

Biglittlelois:



And you know that how

MJBOLT:

all ladies are the same in that regard,ignore and friendzone the caring guy but give attention and care to the non caring guy