Magnoliaa:
*Yawns*..........

Calapar:


Dude, I get your point. But that's not the case. I don bleep babes on first date times without number. Ask a girl where she wants for a date, she'd tell you a restaurant... . It bothers me and I'm beginning to think there's something wrong.

ImaIma1:
Why invite a lady who is clearly not into you on a date? She is not responding well to chats but you still invite her. Why?

It is a personal thing. It doesn't apply to all ladies. Talking on various topics is one of my strengths. Don't generalize it

distributeinc:
From experience, the poor ones are always after food and money, anything other than that don't interest them, but the ones that are bouyant are happier,.more engaging...that is why I can't be with a poor minded girl. Boring.

vivalavida:
Sorry fr your experience.
For it to have happened on more than one occasion is quite worrisome. U have to take a huge part of the blame for that. You are inexperienced at handling a Convo with a babe and u ain't witty. There is no babe I can't unlock on a date no matter who she is. You must laugh like mumu there. So nigger,up your game

asalimpo:

this isnt true. I've noticed d same issue. If u r smart or cerebral, u'll find ur choice of suitable dates shrinks terribly. Most nigerian women r so hollow nd empty tht a non-shallow conversation throws them off. They'll hate u for d experience of trying to get them to use their minds. I've known many women in real life,whom conversation dries up after d empty pleasantries.

asalimpo:

this isnt true. I've noticed d same issue. If u r smart or cerebral, u'll find ur choice of suitable dates shrinks terribly. Most nigerian women r so hollow nd empty tht a non-shallow conversation throws them off. They'll hate u for d experience of trying to get them to use their minds. I've known many women in real life,whom conversation dries up after d empty pleasantries.

asalimpo:

this isnt true. I've noticed d same issue. If u r smart or cerebral, u'll find ur choice of suitable dates shrinks terribly. Most nigerian women r so hollow nd empty tht a non-shallow conversation throws them off. They'll hate u for d experience of trying to get them to use their minds. I've known many women in real life,whom conversation dries up after d empty pleasantries.

davillian:
Took a girl out she ordered sprite
I was shocked
I ordered my own food and drink.
After we finished talking I persuaded her to order her own food and get it packed for her to take home.

ImaIma1:


If she had ordered food, maybe you would have said she is a hungry Nigerian girl

KristaPretty:
It has to do with an Individual. Some MEN suck at dates too!

One date I went on, the guy was gisting me about his ex girlfriend who always urinate on the bed {for over 2hours he was just talking trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh }... like wtf

davillian:

We know how hungry lions make their orders and behave.

davillian:
Took a girl out she ordered sprite
I was shocked
I ordered my own food and drink.
After we finished talking I persuaded her to order her own food and get it packed for her to take home.

lefulefu:
some ladies dont get freaked out over food.i have come across a number of such..though on nairaland following some other guy's experience u might be thinking most nigerian gehls are gluttons wen it comes to food but this not always d case.

ImaIma1:


It's easy to see through such ladies. But the guys seem to shut down their senses and ignore the signs.

KristaPretty:



hahahahahha ya mad

davillian:
Took a girl out she ordered sprite
I was shocked
I ordered my own food and drink.
After we finished talking I persuaded her to order her own food and get it packed for her to take home.

KristaPretty:
It has to do with an Individual. Some MEN suck at dates too!

One date I went on, the guy was gisting me about his ex girlfriend who always urinate on the bed {for over 2hours he was just talking trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh }... like wtf

dingbang:
oh so this is the reason why you no wan go on date withe me

KristaPretty:


You again Hahahhahahaha.
Abeg limme o

FiringSquad:
I asked this girl that we go out, she agreed and we fixed a date, thats the next 3 days, this girl didn't even call within the days and on the D day, yo she flashed me, , I swear I didn't call back and she didn't either, I later sent the money I'd have wasted on her to my younger brother in school. That day my wisdom was top notch

Calapar:


She tried. I'd one stupid instance. We arranged to meet. Immediately she came, she went straight on the counter to buy all sorts including cake. When it was time to pay she sat down. I checked her takeaway and saw cake. I asked if the day was her birthday she said no. I removed all unnecessary stuffs and paid for the rest. Then told her she should take her leave.

lefulefu:
some ladies dont get freaked out over food.i have come across a number of such..though on nairaland following some other guy's experience u might be thinking most nigerian gehls are gluttons wen it comes to food but this not always d case.

Calapar:
Dear Nairalanders

I beg for the pardon of women in the house.

Please why is it that most Nigerian women just want food when you want to have date with them? And they don't interact intelligently but just focus on the food. When they're done, that's when they'd remember they've to go home. They would chat you well on social media and agree to have a date.

Why can't we have a date over drinks? Henceforth, I'd categorically be telling women we're having a date over drinks even when we go somewhere superb I'd ask them not to serve us food! When we align we can have countless dinners home and abroad.

davillian:

I'm glad you used the word some.
Anyways I've not met any
Before I even decide to fix a date
I must have known you to some extent by chat and phone calls.