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Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
GUYS BEWARE. Never Marry out of pity. When a LADY is JOBLESS in marriage, it’s no News.. The MOMENT the same MAN that MARRIED that Lady with his hard earned wealth goes JOBLESS while his Wife is still employed, all Hell is let loose immediately. Just 3MONTHS into supporting her FAMILY she starts NAGGING...!! She starts seeing FAULTS in everything her HUSBAND does 2 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by DWJOBScom(m): 1:35pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
post=79477680: That’s the mistake they all make They feel Europe/US/anywhere not Nigeria is so good that you just pick money off the street. He’s truly lazy 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by BluntBoy(m): 1:35pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
If you can't hustle in Nigeria, what makes you think you can hustle anywhere else? With 120k you can get a bike and use it as okada. Even if you can't ride, you can learn. You can become a home tutor. You can start a small church for a start. Hustle is hustle. The man may not be lazy, he may be one of those guys that select work. And because his wife footed the bills, he was further encouraged to be selective. If his wife was unemployed and hunger wired him, no one would teach him before he goes out to hustle. That is why I like myself. I have a job but I am not comfortable because there is no job security. There is nothing I cannot drive (keke napep, okada, trailer,). If worse comes to worst, I will buy keke and go and register at that garage around Airport Road in Lagos. 6 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Desperation for marriage can make some ladies do silly things. Use ur 20s do shakara. At 33 u go later marry one broke man or office assistant 1 Like |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Chukalemon(m): 1:36pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
I don't really know why women are indeed heartless must she take him to court because he's jobless and idle. 2 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by adioolayi(m): 1:37pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Eleribu personified |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by delishpot: 1:38pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
toogbasky: Even women are fighting to be gainfully employed these days. I have seen cases where husbands stop wives from working and those wives ain't happy. Housewives are doing Avon or greenlife herbal from home. He should step up. 4 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by AMI3(m): 1:40pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
We should not complain here. The question I ask is who marry who? Who paid the woman dowry? I guess the man. When u met him, was he working? How is his spiritual life? Who are is friends? Then if u have given him 120000 to start business what kind of business did he willingly told u he wants to do? HE NAY NEED YOUR MORAL SUPPORT U MAY NEVER KNOW. THERE IS NO MAN THAT ENJOY SITTING AT HOME IDLE. EXCEPT A DRUNK. EVEN IF HE IS A DRUNKARD WHY DON'T U ALLOW HIM TO BE JOINING IN YOUR BUSINESS WITH STRICK MONITORING. 1 Like |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Thalinzrcng: 1:41pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
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Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
EVILFOREST: A jobless man is as useless as the p in psychology. They don't cook, Don't wash, Don't sweep, Can't be submissive. Just sit at home with their big prick, claiming head of house, while the innocent wife walks on eggshells trying not to hurt his broke ego. A broke man is VERY USELESS. 16 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Mrjo(m): 1:46pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
ImaIma1:it's would have been to hear from the Man because I am not sure if it's the woman that brought him to Lagos, or if the woman married herself on behalf of the man because it still a minstry to me how a married man become lazy all of a sudden 1 Like |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by frozen70(f): 1:47pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Good judgement, women should know when to speak out Don't die in silence, he will go ahead and marry another woman 5 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
She was giving him money to do something and he did nothing. She tried by putting up with the couch potato for 4-years. Nonsense. Chukalemon:Where was she supposed to take him? The amusement park? 11 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
how can a full able bodied man prefer to be house husband. Na waoh and he says he wants to hustle abroad. If u lazy in nigeria then u wont be able to hustle if u travel out. 3 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 1:58pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Mrjo: It happens. I know of one. His wife is a nanny and pregnant with their 4th child. He just sits at home. When the kids are home and hungry, he will send the children to meet the mother at her place of work to collect money for food. He said he wants to go back to a country he was deported from years ago to go and hustle. 2 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by toluwa1(f): 2:13pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
House husband...lol |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by PHIPEX(m): 2:27pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Laziness is a sin but not enough to nolify a marriage. Was he lazy when they wedded, if yes she has no excuse to complain. If No, then she is too impatient. Many women have been housing wives for decades and no one hears of it she could have simply stopped feeding him, better than divorce.. |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by desvi: 2:28pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: among the useless, some are more useless than others 2 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Mummymahdi(f): 2:31pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Fisiryorh: That's the real truth, huzling is from the mind ,for a man to stay at home totally leaving a woman with all responsibilities is not a real man that's worth living with not to talk of bringing kids under his name just to suffer. No 3 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by extremelygolden: 2:52pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Badooguy: 2 Thessalonians 3:10: For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat. 3 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Beninwitch: 2:54pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
NOC1: Lol. Where is the court located? I woukd love to visit and hear proceedings. Is it at the Igando local government secretariat? 1 Like |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Reference(m): 2:56pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
post=79477680: Indeed. Location is overrated. 1 Like |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by DarkJeddi(m): 2:56pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
lilmax:Which kind of bullshit thing is he going through? He's a lazy bum who would rather sit on his arse doing nothing than hustle like every other responsibly married man.. Four years and he refused to do any work.. If he's depressed and suicidal,let him refuse eating and other niceties of life the wife is slaving to provide,since they are not worth enjoying.. Lazy arse Muthaforker.. 6 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by twerkjack: 3:37pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
lilmax: Will u Shut up your mouth What a load of horse shit 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by revolt(m): 3:46pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
But if it were the other way round and he divorced her based on being a house wife you'll see all these nonsense girls screaming blue murder. When a woman says hes lazy ask the guy...its not true. He may just be looking for a job but shes grown impatient. For her to file for divorce means shes def playing away runs with a new guy that's promised to marry her. 2 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by revolt(m): 3:49pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Mrjo:exactly my point. That's what these women usually say once the money stops rolling in. He wasn't lazy before but became lazy all of a sudden. |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by MeeLan: 3:52pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
as stupid as that man, if u hear his side of the story, u go hail. |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by Desric(m): 4:01pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
People talk bullshit here always to the extent one wonders how old they are. "If you can't hustle here in Nigeria, you can't hustle abroad", who told you that? people make 3rd class and passes in school here only to go abroad and become the best in their classes, how many persons have being labeled dull and lazy brains only to travel out and become mega successful. The people talking here sound like some miserable fellows who will always want to drag everybody who does not live like them as " never do wells". Tomorrow now, when the same "househusband" becomes successful, same woman will not allow the airwaves to have peace with stories of "he abandoned his child". Rudeboy.....Reason with me, Davido....Fia 1 Like |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:13pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
House husband that’s doesn’t do the work of a house wife is that one house husband? I’m sure he was sitting there expecting the wife to do the work at home and still provide for the family. A Nigerian man that claims he wants to be a house husband is usually a scam. He’s probably looking for someone to do everything for him. If he’s a real house husband, he will cook and clean and go to the market for the family, take care of the children, do laundry for his wife , make sure her food is ready when she comes home from work etc. Show me a Nigerian man that will do all that while the wife provides for the family without feeling like he’s become emasculated. Nothing wrong with that arrangement if both agree to it but it’s statistically hard to see such an arrangement between Nigerians where the woman ain’t putting in 80% of the total work. Scam 8 Likes |
Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:16pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
While he’s being a house husband, is he making sure he’s meeting the needs of his wife like she would be meeting his if he was providing? Does he cook and serve her, wash her clothes, take care of the children and all what not so that she can have time to provide for the family? If it was the other way round, people would understand that the wife will be playing her part in contributing to the home front. It’s highly unlikely that he was in this case. revolt: 7 Likes |
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