thesicilian:
That's the way to go. Before you go and marry someone that has damaged her womb from multiple abortions

thesicilian:
That's the way to go. Before you go and marry someone that has damaged her womb from multiple abortions

ojun50:

na only woman thy damaged womb, man no dey get damage sperm

thesicilian:
That's the way to go. Before you go and marry someone that has damaged her womb from multiple abortions

ojun50:

na only woman thy damaged womb, man no dey get damage sperm

alBHAGDADI:

This is what happens when people no longer get rely on God for anything. What if after you get married be ause she got pregnant, the pregnancy now gets damaged to the point that that her womb damages too? Is the man then going to run away and marry someone else?

If you trust God, you won't start trying to peep into the future. We walk by faith not by sight. Once you have faith in God that you will have children as married couples, you won't need to start taking shortcut by being dicey.

Your sister's husband doesn't believe in God. Also, there's nothing wrong in adopting a baby. [s]We are just too local and foolish in this country to believe you must produce your own child or you are cursed.[/s]

bluetopaz:
My immediate elder sister is in a dilemma right now. She has been engaged to her fiance for about a year now and she confided in I and my mum that the marriage plans are not being made because her fiance said she should get pregnant before starting. He said if he can't confirm to his family that she is pregnant, they won't follow him for the traditional marriage.
Me Sha, I've told her to close his chapter but my sister says where will she start from again, they have dated for 3 years and she isn't getting younger according to her.
And yes, she says they have been sexually active, pregnancy just hasn't happened and she can't explain why.
I told her oga is hiding something or what do you guys think?

ojun50:

na only woman thy damaged womb, man no dey get damage sperm

alBHAGDADI:

This is what happens when people no longer get rely on God for anything. What if after you get married be ause she got pregnant, the pregnancy now gets damaged to the point that that her womb damages too? Is the man then going to run away and marry someone else?

If you trust God, you won't start trying to peep into the future. We walk by faith not by sight. Once you have faith in God that you will have children as married couples, you won't need to start taking shortcut by being dicey.

Your sister's husband doesn't believe in God. Also, there's nothing wrong in adopting a baby. We are just too local and foolish in this country to believe you must produce your own child or you are cursed.

Kendumazy:
Please, ask your sister to go the hospital with the guy. Let them both do fertility test together to know if anything is wrong with anybody. Some men can be very wicked. Know of someone that the guy had low sperm count and never told the lady, told her pregnancy before marriage first as well. Turns out nigga wasn't even serious about settling down but just deceiving the lady using the lady to pass time. How did she know? She met someone who knew the guy and the guy ex and told her it's the same condition that made the lady left. That's where the lady realizing that something is wrong somewhere, recalled he always beat her up few times she brought up the idea of going for fertility test. The girl reported the issue to her father, her father is a prophet in a celestial church. Her father was mad about such condition but just had to keep calm to see to the root of the issue who knows something might be wrong with her daughter or its just an issue of waiting for God's appointed time. Her father called the guy and ask him to go do fertility test together. The guy refused stating the man has no power to dictate to him on how to go about his relationship with her daughter. The father now asked the guy to go that he will ask his daughter to go do her own and if it turns out that nothing is wrong with her daughter, that means someone is cheating someone and he will call on God to deal with the person. That's how nigga mellowed and agreed to the fertility test. Test done and it's there that nigga had low sperm count. The girl was sad that the nigga used her. She said most times, Nigga will fvck her 4 to 5 good rounds even when she wasn't in the mood or not feeling it as she was desperate to be pregnant.

bluetopaz:
My dear brother, you must be a prophet. Do you know that my sister just said his past girlfriend left him after 4 years together, still same condition he gave her. She is now married and has just welcomed her second child. I asked her how she knew this and she said she private chatted her on Facebook and the girl told her she is sure the man has issues.
My question now is why would someone be this wicked. Are you a devil that you want to waste someone's life till she gets to menopause then what...some men no just dey try.

dominique:


Similar thing with one of my in-laws. The man she was dating gave her same condition but she couldn't conceive and had to end the relationship when she was approaching 30 and started dating someone else. She went on to welcome her first child within her first year of marriage.

I read a rather pathetic story on Facebook where a lady was given same condition and she came to seek advice. She recently started a high praying job that mandated female employees not to get pregnant within one year of employment. We all chorused the same advice "DON'T TRY IT!" A man that truly loves you will never give you such condition and put your career at risk. She eventually succumbed to the pressure from the man and his family and got pregnant. Unfortunately for her the pregnancy was a very difficult one and she was sick a lot, she ended up losing the job. When she told him that she has lost her job, he told her point blank that she's of no use to him anymore and he can't afford to feed two extra mouths without income coming from her. She called his mother who appeared sympathetic at first but after some time, the mum stopped picking her calls. As at the time she came back to the page to give feedback and ask for advice again, she was almost due, no job, no money, no husband.

I hope your sister doesn't learn the hard way that succumbing to ridiculous condition by a fiancee does not guarantee marriage or a happy one for that matter

thesicilian:
That's the way to go. Before you go and marry someone that has damaged her womb from multiple abortions

dominique:
So if she doesn't get pregnant, it is automatically assumed that she has damaged her womb with multiple abortions? Nigerians and ignorance

A number of factors can lead to a couple's inability to conceive; hormonal imbalance, fibroids, ovarian cysts, low/zero sperm count, low/zero sperm motility etc. It's totally unfair to heap the blame of infertility on one person especially when you've not carried out any test.