I don't have any words to add

you better take the advice of dumping her

how do you guys date students that are in the hoe phase btw?

I thought it stopped 2011?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Beating?

Not what I would normally recommend, but then, if you are in love with someone else you should say so and let the Doctor go his way, not leading him on and keep cashing his money. It a very bad behaviour. Alot of guys still don't know that money alone can't keep a gal, my point in the previous post.

Apeshy101:

See what English caused!
You just changed the meaning of what you intended.
The power of one letter

Hahaha. You spoke my mind. One cold bottle of Orijin for you.

jackals:


No johr. Let him spend some more...

I could remember I've once discarded a guy using the strategy this girl is using here...., I'm nolonger intersted but i didnt know how to tell him. The dude got frustrated by my actions and demanded we call it quit. I didnt beg.

Y'all ain't following us Heaven. Hahaha

livebyday:


This comment confused me as I couldn't deduce any rationale behind it sir .

Are you saying that rather than sit think deeply , introspect on how best you fix your situation you would rather live in delusion and pray for someone to fix your broken life?

I am trying to make sense.of this comment

Am I right ?

even me, am cofused thats why i pray for wisdom to confuse foolishness... You get what i mean?

skywalker240:

even me, am cofused thats why i pray for wisdom to confuse foolishness... You get what i mean?

I got you sir

Thanks for the clarification

Cheers

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

have a heart to heart talk with her also cancel the wedding. U should also ask for space from each other.to rediscover your feelings.but to me she will be the one to end things with u wen u ask for space

livebyday:

I got you sir
Thanks for the clarification
Cheers

ONE LOVE.

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

to solve this issue, I would teach you hw to clone her WhatsApp for free so dat you wld monitor their chats. If you r serious let me knw

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

Lolzz Alhaji bring bring... Another man is chopping where ur sowing. U better run very far from that snake u call ur girlfriend....

According to Fela : Overtake done overtake overtake

shege45:
to solve this issue, I would teach you hw to clone her WhatsApp for free so dat you wld monitor their chats. If you r serious let me knw

Is there any need for that.. Its already obvious what's going on in the relationship na except u want to add health issues to the guys problems

lilmax:
I don't have any words to add

you better take the advice of dumping her

how do you guys date students that are in the hoe phase btw?

I thought it stopped 2011?

I still wonder why guys do that shiit

shege45:
to solve this issue, I would teach you hw to clone her WhatsApp for free so dat you wld monitor their chats. If you r serious let me knw

Abeg teach me

ikemeze:


Abeg teach me

pm me

Are you kidneying me?

blacq2009:

Y'all ain't following us Heaven. Hahaha

I have repented

lilmax:
how do you guys date students that are in the hoe phase btw?

What if one marries a student?

charlsecy:
What if one marries a student?

how do you DATE and MARRY a student still going through the HOE phase?

Do what your heart tells you. If you feel she is cheating, she most likely is.

For advise, take a six-month break from the relationship. Examine things logically with your head and you'd see that this is not the girl for you. It seems that you and her (and she thinks so) are in a peripheral state of courtship (a wise man once said this).

lilmax:
how do you DATE and MARRY a student still going through the HOE phase?

Must everyone be promiscuous?

jackals:

I have repented

OK. But "we" the will think of it.

Phenomenal16:
........ Guy u try

My alternate ...

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

Nigerian women perpetrate this scam daily and somehow you guys haven't learn. A whole doctor fa, you that can point and kill any toto, yet you allow some trifling asshole to take you for a smooth ride.

Michelle55:
The moment you start suspecting your partner, the bond between you two has been broken.. For you to check her phone(you already knew what awaits you) so asking us now is like seeking for validation on what to do next

sorry o I don't understand.. Are you saying it's wrong to check one's gfs phone?

DieselGen:



So, your point is no need checking out on your fiancee's phone, because there'll always be poo to see.
It indicates infidelity is a norm now.
Wrong people everywhere...

bro I tell you

Dear doc,my humble advice is for you to ditch the girl,the signs are there already,is so clear and any lady advising you to give the relationship wisdom is wicked.Am talking out of experience,my ex did such similar act to to me and trust me,you will be broken when wen you realize that she has been cheating all these time,the truth i realized about commitment is that once a lady or man starts giving the opposite sex attention while in a serious relationship,deception and distractions are bound to take place.From what u saying,she is distracted already and u can’t get her back.Am really sorry that the four years have wasted,kindly move on cos if u don’t,that lady will make a devil and a trust issue someone out of u.You got a good life ahead of u,you got a good career already,you don’t need someone who is promiscuous to come and manipulate you to believe she loves you and would want you forever.There are a lot of good women out there,please I beg you have sense and walk out of the relationship regardless of what u have spent or th feelings you still have for her.She is a cheat.However,break up in peace and move on cos if u continue and get married to her,she will be cheating on u unaware.Please have sense,some of these girls don’t know what they want and am sorry u actually wasted your time with such but learnt something.Wishing you the best in life.

Dear OP,is just sad u have also been cheating also.To be honest,the relationship is really toxic for the both of you.You can’t eat your cake and have someone else.Two hoes can’t make a relationship,never seen where that happens and if such relationship gives birth to a child,in few years to come,the home will be broken.So stay off from each other.TWO HORS CANT MAKE A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP!,I REPEAT!!!.