If she is only your girlfriend, you don’t own her. So stop claiming her.

I mean you have a girlfriend who has agreed to go out with you and she can also change her mind at any time she decides or wishes. You should not behave like she is your private property, because she is not. If she decides to stop dating you, PLEASE LET HER BE and DON’T BULLY HER. She has the freedom to choose whoever she prefers to date or mate with. If you think she is making a bad choice, give her your good advice and let her decide to accept or reject your advice. If she returns to you, accept her or reject her, but if she does not return, let her be. Life goes on.

I told a young lady that she must not let anyone bluff her. And she actually did as I advised her. Guess what? She started with me first. I pretended to be furious, but I was really impressed.

A young woman of 22 told me how her boyfriend who is 35 actually bullied her until she agreed to go out with him. This is a cult guy whose only qualification is the membership of a cult. So, she would rather give in than risk being brultalized. Report to the police? Not in Nigeria, where the police cannot respond to any SOS from anyone in distress. No wonder crimes are daily occurrences in the country. So, you have to date a bigger boy or stronger man to escape from bullies on and off campus who need to have sexual intercourse to get high as they take hard drugs.

If you overhear these guys boasting of how and when they had sexual intercourse with their girlfriends you would be wiser. Their so called girlfriends are actually their victims used to prove their manhood to their peers. When will these boys grow up?

Girls really need to separate the boys from the men.
Men can pay the bills, but boys need to either borrow, steal or ask seniors for pocket money.

It is really pathetic to see how helpless and defenceless Nigerian girls are.

They are sexually harassed and they have to struggle for their survival and welfare using their guts and wits.

you shuld be telling them

60% of the post make sense shaa, But what's up with the pic?

daft thread

senseless

you make sense sha

Trub talk, its just that men use their strength to bully the women.

Once you are not married yet, both of you are only contract staff, anyone can decide to end the contract anyday. Till the register is signed she is an ad hoc staff.

Hmmmmm! What happens to being faithful in a relationship? Do we throw it into the bin cos it's a 50-5
contract and the girls can walk-out as they deem it fit? Nice post reality anyway! But,

That's the reality.I always tell my girlfriend that she's free to chose another guy if she likes.

That's the reality.I always tell my  girlfriend that she's free to chose another guy if she likes.

First she is not your property

then next thing is secret cult

The whole post makes sense

but i dont understand the relationship between having a girl and letting her go cos

you havent paid dowry and the secret cult thang!

@poster, you are right.

Life indeed does go on.

This thing goes both ways, there are girls that expect their guys to be their husband when he is just only a boyfriend. They claim right over their boyfriend like he is a paycheck. Although I think bragging about anything is just not right but girls are also allowed to go conquer and brag about their conquest the their pals - We are in the equal right era.

I think boyfriends and girlfriends should be allowed to date as many and marry the highest bidder then we will not have all this I own you till the marriage level

Makes a whole lot of sense!

Inked_Nerd:


I beg to differ MrPrsdent. I actually like what he wrote.


Orikinla, as young woman I'd like to thank you very much much for posting this.

ThoniaSlim:

Makes a whole lot of sense!

Okay na. Try doing strong-head for your boxer boyfriends. Na broom and parker dem go carry park una!

Orikinla, I agree with you completely. The eediot only has a shareholder status-even then, he has no share certificate