generationz:
I once read online how a married woman started having peace at home only when she started smoking weed with her husband

Every relationship has its own terms

However for a healthy relationship between two or more people to blossom, one needs the right does of

Trust
Commitment
Mutual respect
And understanding .

Whether, it be husband and wife , parent and child , pastor and church member or between two friends.

LilMissFavvy:
Number one is character. Without the partners having characters that complements them and makes them compatible, no amount of money can make it work.

Number two is love.

Number three is money.

victorian:







You are from the east?

LordKO:



You for no say things like "Trust, Commitment, Mutual respect And understanding" na end product them be, they no be raw materials (values/attributes) - na raw materials the breed product nah. lol.

ImaIma1:


LordKO speaking pidgin

Oma307:

that number one is the most important thing.

LilMissFavvy:
Exactly!

LordKO:



You for know say things like "Trust, Commitment, Mutual respect And understanding" na end product them be, they no be raw materials (values/attributes) - na raw materials the breed product nah. lol.

LordKO:


lol, she yabbed me somewhere so I say make I use this opportunity tell am say I sabi pidgin.

generationz:



The question was what I think "sustains" a relationship

Tell me how you think a marriage can thrive without all I wrote up there

They might seem simple because I stated them in one word but they are not

Trust alone takes years to build and can be destroyed in a few seconds.

I got two mentions from guys. I'm sure you men were expecting me to yap on about submissiveness.

Im sure the pastor has nicely tucked that into Sunday's service.

I'll rather stick to mutual respect.

LordKO:



SMH. So this whole brashness is because I banteringly quoted you today. Come on, look for your ilk elsewhere; "Trust, Commitment, Mutual respect And understanding" are not attributes - they cannot breed something literally. They hold no values on their own and cannot be the base words/mechanisms that sustain a relationship or anything instead they can act as bond, either individually or collectively.

Bye.

victorian:








You are from the east?

tommyken:
The word "Love" is a general term, the two things I know that can sustain relationship and marriage is Truthfulness and Respect.

nonen:


I’m not sure why this inquiry is needed.
However, you’re right. I’m from the East

Estate360:
some persons believes its LOVE!
while some others argue that MONEY! establish's LOVE!
so what's your take in this...

for me..i think MONEY has a role it plays but LOVE is bedrock of all successful relationship/marriage

Magnoliaa:
Knowledge?

tommyken:
The word "Love" is a general term, the two things I know that can sustain relationship and marriage is Truthfulness and Respect.

Magnoliaa:
And if the person doesn't value you or if your personalities just doesn't click?

Truthfulness too... can that still prevent bitterness and all other ills from coming up?

generationz:
I once read online how a married woman started having peace at home only when she started smoking weed with her husband

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