some persons believes its LOVE!
while some others argue that MONEY! establish's LOVE!
so what's your take in this...


for me..i think MONEY has a role it plays but LOVE is bedrock of all successful relationship/marriage

I will just go with three words love, commitment and trust.

From d things way i don see na good sex & money

Kids

Na God
You can have the money but not the man
You can have the man but not the money
You can have both romance and finance yet empty
So, only God can keep a marriage

i just dey look u!

Pusyiter:
Na God
You can have the money but not the man
You can have the man but not the money
You can have both romance and finance yet empty
So, only God can keep a marriage

Coming from you?

Wetin I do you na
Why yo like to dey tackle me

czarina:
Coming from you?

Pusyiter:
Wetin I do you na
Why yo like to dey tackle me

Just hailings. Didn't expect that comment from you.

Pusyiter:
Wetin I do you na
Why yo like to dey tackle me

lol...

Lloydthesaint:
Kids

i just dey look u, adult

Chai, na so my market bad for your side
Czarina the Ballerina
Give me one more nite....(in Mr. P's voice)

czarina:
Just hailings. Didn't expect that comment from you.

The word "Love" is a general term, the two things I know that can sustain relationship and marriage is Truthfulness and Respect.

I'll say patience and understanding each other

Food
Submission
Neatness
Honesty
&
Finally, Confirmed Sex.
Give him those listed above, you've just hold his master key.

I stand to be correct anyway.
#gbam

Pusyiter:
Chai, na so my market bad for your side
Czarina the Ballerina
Give me one more nite....(in Mr. P's voice)

Ok...I hear you.




@op, sorry for derailing. Great topic

Number one is character. Without the partners having characters that complements them and makes them compatible, no amount of money can make it work.

Number two is love.

Number three is money.

Oluwadamilare118:
Food
Submission
Neatness
Honesty
&
Finally, Confirmed Sex.
Give him those listed above, you've just hold his master key.

I stand to be correct anyway.
#gbam

lol...las las, u no dey joke with food oh!

Compatibility. Once you can tolerate each other's excesses then your relationship will work. Compliment each other and have a common goal. Be each other's support system

Communication. You can never sustain a relationship with a boring dull woman

LilMissFavvy:
Number one is character. Without the partners having characters that complements them and makes them compatible, no amount of money can make it work.

Number two is love.

Number three is money.

I guess this your third point is what this present generation of ladies based theirs on. But it was never like that with our mothers in the 80s. May God help us...

Mutual goodness, because it breeds understanding and oneness. This mutual goodness here is about; love from the man (special emphasis on the attributes/values, thoughtfulness, tactfulness and conscientiousness) and submissiveness from the woman (special emphasis on the attributes/values, selflessness, meekness and conscientiousness).

Money will always remain a means to an end but never an end itself. All things being equal, it's easy to make it, just as it's easy to lose it too.
So, sane people who're of the school of thought above will definitely have money or will be able to make money under normal circumstances, while and where inadequate/lack of it because of any unforseen circumstances, can't cause them separation/be the cause they'll separate.

My submission is specifically about a healthy relationship or marriage - where understanding and oneness are assured - peace of mind is priceless. Meanwhile, any other kind of relationship or marriage can equally be sustained based on what tickle the fancy of the parties involved.

Character

What can sustain a marriage differs to different couples, it can be love for some, trust for others compatibility, money e.t.c.

Good character.

The man should take his headship or leadership position very seriously.

The woman should take her submissiveness to the headship of the man very seriously.

I once read online how a married woman started having peace at home only when she started smoking weed with her husband

Every relationship has its own terms

However for a healthy relationship between two or more people to blossom, one needs the right does of

Trust
Commitment
Mutual respect
And understanding .

Whether, it be husband and wife , parent and child , pastor and church member or between two friends.

Estate360:
lol...las las, u no dey joke with food oh!

Smile... Don't mind me... Naso life be.
Thump �

God
Compassion
Communication
Money
Kids
Loyalty
Care

That's for me.

Not necessarily love. I don't believe in love but the rest up there? Yes.

nonen:
The man should take his headship or leadership position very seriously.

The woman should take her submissiveness to the headship of the man very seriously.

You are from the east?

generationz:
I once read online how a married woman started having peace at home only when she started smoking weed with her husband

Every relationship has its own terms

However for a healthy relationship between two or more people to blossom, one needs the right does of

Trust
Commitment
Mutual respect
And understanding .

Whether, it be husband and wife , parent and child , pastor and church member or between two friends.

They the talk about romance relationships this one the mention pastor, parents and kids. You sure say you get boyfriend or husband.

LilMissFavvy:
Number one is character. Without the partners having characters that complements them and makes them compatible, no amount of money can make it work.

Number two is love.

Number three is money.