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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by NkayStory(f): 1:13pm On Jul 12|
I am talking facts,you are talking fiction dude....Your brothers are presently protesting at the Nigerian embassy in Malaysia because you claim you are being harassed daily..
The only info the average American knows about Nigeria are your scams and criminal tendencies..
You lots are killed like chickens in SA, and jailed all over Europe and America..Naija women are not the cause of your lot in life..
Go to any internatiinal on-line store and see what happens when you type Nigeria as your location...You mistaken a roll-in-the sack by curious Whitewomen as having a 'thing for you'?..i am sorry for you.
Get yourselves and your country fixed and stop pouring your frustrations on ladies on Social Media..,especially when Whitewomen reject you.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by spiritedtete: 1:15pm On Jul 12|
My brotherrrr, they will now be forming competition o.. like the phrase "no man can ride me". And thus make relationship or marriage like war room.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 1:22pm On Jul 12|
spiritedtete:Also over time, in men's bid to meet up and satisfy their insatiable greed and selfish entitlement alone they turned to illegal engagements until it became a norm.
Most of the guys labouring away througn legal and illegal means are doing that with the ultimate quest to come home and pick one of these local men bashing bitches as wife. A thing many of them are regretting as the bitches unleash their wild selfish ways once married and abroad.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by spiritedtete: 1:44pm On Jul 12|
Dear lady... i can vividly tell you I am well traveled and been to at least every part of the continent (note, not countries) aside from artantica lol.
I am married to beautiful Nigerian woman for the past 8 years.. who I adore so much. We started a journey and we are somewhere today.. she built herself and have her presence even on wiki. Why I love it when my woman shines.. (I dont mind being in the background) and she is sort for by alot foreign firms and presently working as an expat.
She didn't school abroad no traveled to look for a greener pasture .. she own her success to discipline, hardwork and honesty. With God pouring out his favour on her.
She doesn't claim boss lady nor have army of friends .. even in her simplicity every female that have come in contact with her still take a bow.
Haven't said this... I have witnessed and seen marriages, relationships go to war.. just because the woman doesn't know what she want and even if she knows she sees her husband as no1 obstacle who doesn't want to give her a way...
Now to Nigerians image problem in south Africa, Ghana.. this is due to jealousy from their host.. because whatever a Nigeria man touches turns Gold. Which their host didn't see in the first place... thereby overriding Nigerian man's image with the few who engaged in vices.
Their women.. treat us well and respect us take care of us... at the hearing that he is a Nigeria every woman fall to our feets 100%.
For Malaysia the exodus of Nigerian immigrants over there are cultists more like a cult guy invites his fellow to come and settle.. thereby pave way to many. Even at that you need to see their hustle.. honest hustle. And they still married their host.
The ratio of a Nigerian man with genuine hustle outside the shores still far at weighed the ratio of the Nigerian man engaging in Damaging vices.
Hence our respect all over.
Also kudos to our footballers....(Nigeria men). They made it easy for our host in Europe to love us.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Hintona(m): 12:54am On Jul 15|
franchasng:No no they will never accept your baby as white except if you want to bleach her/his skin and relax her/his hair
maybe you could do racial filtering I.e all your mullatos/mullatas must marry white people then your generation will be free from the "curse"
maybe you'll be doing your generation a "big favour"
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Amujale(m): 3:39pm On Jul 15|
I appreciate the right for any people to progress in the world, the West included, yet, the irony of your negative mindset is that these are the same reasons that i love my African heritage.
Apart from the "wheel", kindly list a few of these intoxicating innovative and technological wisdoms that you're on about?
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Amujale(m): 3:50pm On Jul 15|
I appreciate the right for people to marry whoever they may wish.
For me, marrying outside of ones comfort zone is neither a good nor bad idea. Its always meant to be a kind of new experience.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Amujale(m): 3:51pm On Jul 15|
Humanity began in Africa and then our ancestors went on to populate the rest of the world.
Africans are the first people to explore and populate all the other 'continents.
Africans invented paper and they invented the ink pen.
Africans discovered the concepts of literacy.
Africans discovered the concepts of numeracy.
Civilization began in Africa and then it proceeded to trickle out to the rest of the world.
Everyone currently living on planet Earth all descend from African ethnicities.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by nikkypearl(f): 3:53pm On Jul 15|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 1:53am On Jul 18|
Are there not enough black people in the USA and Europe for white people to mix races with?
Black are their own problem. They are 2 busy chasing after whiteness to do anythings for themselves. I don't believe that blacks are intellectually inferior to whites. Mind you, only 1% of the population in any given country is rich. America has a strong middle class. There are just as many dumb Bleep white people as there are blacks. Black that do poorly in the USA are basically the ones that practice the same behavior that Africans display that keeps them poor. When they are not out chasing whiteness or chasing hoes. They are worshiping sky daddies, black magic, astrology and any other nonsense that no one can prove exist.
There have been many black inventors in American history. Hell it was blacks that did all the work. They invented poo to make their lives easier. And since we were only consider partially human, white were able to take credit for a lot of poo.
I'm a mixed race person because my ancestors came here as slaves and were raped by the white man. I won't shy away from my slave ancestry because it was the blacks in Africa that sold us into slavery mostly for a couple of pounds of beads and maybe one or two useful things. White women at the time were only a few brownie points above slaves. In fact some slave master actually did fall in love with their black "women", but married a white woman just for show.
As for the ones that want to mix race themselves out of existence. How self hateful is that? Just know that most mixed race kids imitate the behaviors of their fathers. That is, if that father is even in their lives. My brother married a white women and had 2 daughters. One daughter has very little traces of blackness in her. Although she acknowledges her blackness more the the more black looking daughter. My father has instilled so much self hatred into his daughters that one daughter married white. The other daughter is lesbian. Even though his children are making a success with their lives. When people see his daughters, its' not their "blackness" they see as successful!! So in the end wanting your children to be white/mixed still makes you a "loser"!
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 3:34am On Jul 18|
From what I've been reading about wives and side chicks in Naija, a menopausal one night stand is still in the better position than most Naija wives!! So don't get that twisted!!
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 3:50am On Jul 18|
As I stated before. I don't think that whites are more superior. They are just better at manipulation a system that keeps weaker souled people constantly indebted to them.
For example, the USA is a consumer culture. Big corporations always manipulate you to believe you have to have a new car, appliance, phone; etc every 2 years. If you're lucky you can keep some things for 10 years before the technology becomes outdated. You are constantly indebted because you are obligated to spend on a newer model.
Blacks can and have created things from nothing. But if you're too busy chasing things that keep you down, you invent nothing!!!!!
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 4:08am On Jul 18|
Yeah, but YOU are STILL BLACK!!
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 4:25am On Jul 18|
Unless you are only willing to learn from the white race without allowing them to take over, you will never be emancipated. But I'm thinking you would have better chances with the white race than the Chinese. The Chinese won't hesitate for one second to enslave you.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 4:35am On Jul 18|
I was thinking the same thing. Naija men that married old ass white women will have to compete for her wealth with her children. Unless she got all her money in a safe in her closet and you have access to it, those children will make sure you get a one-way ticket back to Naija, before you ever have a chance to put you hands on any of that wealth!!!
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by dairykidd(m): 4:47am On Jul 18|
This entire thread smells of Uncle Ruckus... Self hating lowlifes who keep blaming their skin color for their present situation. Foolish people.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by dairykidd(m): 4:50am On Jul 18|
With this type of backward mindset please don't bother participating in Nigerian politics. These present old men are a million times better than ur likes
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by MarjieJ98354(f): 5:02am On Jul 18|
As an American Black Woman, I can tell you that a white woman will only use a black man for as long as using him benefits her. My white sister-in-law got with my brother to increase her income. My brother had a mediocre job before he met her. She made sure he had a better paying job to increase her income. I came to live with them working 2 jobs. She still saw me as useless because my income was only going for me, although I moved to a new state and was basically homeless. She was a drug addict. If she wasn't getting drugs or money from someone, you were considered useless!!!!!
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by dairykidd(m): 5:27am On Jul 18|
Uncle Ruckus Buhari is a better option. You are sick in the head
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 7:00am On Jul 18|
MarjieJ98354:Is the balck ladies not using (even abusively) their men even more?
I get your points but you just confirmed my points in the bolded part which is the difference in orientation. What most naija woman won't do - seeing a man doing a medicre job and making sure he getsa better one. She would rather first chop the little he has then yab the man for having a mediocre job and bail on him or; from the onset or later, feels he is too beneath him to have any relationship with rather than make sure he gets a better one that will be of benefit to both of them. Abi is your brother not also benefiting from the better job or is she the sole beneficiary of his new job? Phony enough the average black lady also use men demanding the man be responsible to her, pays for her vanities brazilian hair bleaching cream, upkeep etc even without first or lastly offerung him the better job. So who is not using who?
I, like most Niaja men have no problem being used just because another benefits too (otherwise we wont be marrying Naija ladies at all). I'm not that slefish. The problem is will the woman offer herself to be useful too. Both should be useful to each in their own capacity not where one thinks its a taboo to be useful to the other beyond the bed and kitchen yet feels entitled to the others use/wealth beyond there.
White woman aint fools to ofer help wit8h compensation to guys. Ofcourse they need (more like deserve) to be complemented in cash and/or kind for the help they offer which a black woman from same village, tribe country cant bring herslef to offer.
Reiterating my candid point, they play for symbiosis ( ready to help and be helped). Black ones are bent on fooling ( wants to be helped but frown at helping the man) hence do parasitic hypergamy at most commensalism in relationship. Before its interpreted that i hate black women no i dont but only understand their game and state it objectively.
Come to think of it. If you are leaving with them (enjoying the benefit of not being homeless) and your income goes to only you, are you not useless to them? Who is being selfish between you are her?
It is not like there are no advantage of marrying black women vis a vis less into drugs, less wild manner and domestic responsibilities also they work hard for the children (not necessarily the man) once they start coming but the thread is about advantages of white chicks sort of. So i stuck to that.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 7:03am On Jul 18|
MarjieJ98354:Lol I was just being pety there to give her small sifia pain for calling me a scammer for pointing out their scammer orientation towards men.
Not underestimating the sexual prowess based on "experience" of matured women in general.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 9:16am On Jul 18|
MarjieJ98354:you guys are missing it, even children born by the same mother don't usually have the same wisdom and intellectual capability; some will be intelligent, others maybe dull.
That is the same with the human races.
white race (Caucasian) have superior science & technology invention intelligence more than any other human race. It is not by their making, it is nature's gift to them. To catch up with them, you need to learn from them or steal the knowledge from them, either ways.
And that is what the Chinese and Asians did to catch up with the white race in technology, science and general human-capital development.
Chinese stole white (European and American) technologies and exported to their country to start their own indigenous technological revolution that brought China to limelight.
Iran is doing same in the Middle East.
We the black race need to learn from the white race or steal from them; all is fair in war and love.
We can't keep blaming white race for our backwardness, we need to find ways to liberate race from being so backward and dependent on other races for survival.
But I doubt blacks are ready for that great black revolution because it starts with electing visionary young leaders with focus who will start a radical transformation, with a total focus on black science and technology.
Agriculture does not develop a nation like most useless black nation leaders believe.
The only thing that transforms a nation is technology.
With technology, you can transform your agricultural sector, transport sector, power sector, all sectors.
We need leaders who understand this, not foolish old men that keep telling black youths to go back to agriculture as the only way of survival, that's foolishness!
We don't need those kind of leaders in black nations. We need leaders who crave for black indigenous technology inventions and revolution at all cost, not agro-minded old men only thinking about what to eat and drink and have sex
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 9:29am On Jul 18|
MarjieJ98354:You guys don't know Nigerian guys at all.
Nigerian guys don't marry old white ladies to inherit their so called wealth, NO!
Majority of Nigerian guys don't ever expect financial help or inheritance from their wives or women lovers.
Nigerian guys marry white and foreign women to enable them get legal stay or citizenship to developed counties of Europe, America, Australia, etc so they can come into these developed counties legally and hustle on their own and make their own wealth through their personal hardwork. They don't marry them to inherit their wealth, not true at all!
Majority of Nigerian guys don't even see ladies as rich or successful no matter how much she has, maybe because of how Nigerian ladies who have money behave towards Nigerian guys, making Nigerian guys not to ever consider any lady's financial worth as anything to put mind on.
All a Nigerian guy need from a white lady or foreign woman is that assistance to come into her country legally. Once he comes in, he will definitely end up financially successful, just give him some years and watch how it goes.
Nigerian guys are hardworking, focused on money making to ever consider marrying any lady just to inherit her wealth, no no, Nigerian guys don't reason that way.
I can boldly tell you this and you can find out from any other honest Nigerian
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Amujale(m): 10:03am On Jul 18|
You sound the same as a "white supremacist", why cant you understand simple thing now.
Your analysis is wrong.
Africans dont need to catch up with anyone but to realise who we are.
The problem is mainly derived from the misunderstanding of the importance of local customs and traditions and how they are meant to relate to human development.
Once we can prioritise our languages and other social norms, use them to educate ourselves, that will re-create our own unique technological advanced enviroment.
Africans do not need to source our education out to noone.
Get rid of the foreign languages, manufactured religions and foreign rhetorical narrative.
Pave the way for localised technological development
Currently, Africans and their Diaspora are responsible for the more relevant inventions in today's world.
Africans invented the light bulb, telephone, cellular phone, improved systems partaining to refridgerators, air-condition, railway locomotive devices, mobile phones, PC, internet e.t.c
Africans contribution to modern technologies tops the global rankings.
Furthermore, Africans are responsible for most of the greatest human achievements of all time.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Amujale(m): 10:07am On Jul 18|
Here is something we can agree on.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Ugosample(m): 10:13am On Jul 18|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 11:34am On Jul 18|
Exactly the point they seem not to get. They think we think like them - focused on a mates wealth/inheritance. So its actually nigerian women projecting their scamy orientation on the men not knowing that the mindset is quite different.
Wetin concern naija guy with white womans inheritance when he is busy thinking on gettinh his papers and making his own and has the opportunity to?
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Skepticus: 1:17pm On Jul 18|
Akata woman, I do get your point though; but it's highly stereotypical and generalized. It doesn't represent all of us.
A good number of us are very different.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 7:08pm On Jul 18|
princfred:they won't understand.
Give a Nigerian guy legal stay in America, Canada, Europe, Australia, China, South Korea, Japan, etc and give him like 5 - 10 years and watch him become wealthier than most citizens of that same country.
It is in the DNA of Southern Nigerian men mostly to hustle for money, if given the enabling environment to perform.
So there is no way a Nigerian guy will be praying and waiting for his Nigerian or foreign wife to die so that he can inherit her wealth, what wealth Any guy that exhibits such trait is not a Nigerian and if he is a Nigerian then he wasn't born and raised in Nigeria; you can quote me anywhere anyday any time.
The only hidden reason some Nigerian guys marry foreign women from developed countries is to get legal stay and entry visa if outside the country, not because of the foreign woman's wealth or money
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 7:11pm On Jul 18|
AkataWoman:To a large extent you are correct. Its what the bad leadership and economy hardship has turned most Nigerians to be, sadly
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Unrated900(m): 12:45pm On Jul 22|
Why just men spent money on women can’t women spent money on men as well
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 5:17am On Jul 23|
Unrated900:If you pose that question they will call you scammer or resort to some other straw man name calling to deflect as they selfishly see doing that as a taboo hence the average poor white chick with a different orientation has arguably helped more African men to success than rich black girls ever dream of you or did.
Their own is to find a man who will inherit their life problems while they inherit the man's wealth spend thrir own cash selfishly on shoes, hair , wrapper of different colours and other vanities then bash the rest of men who no gree be their goat.
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