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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 7:40am On Jul 07|
Raised to approach a relationship mainly counting what they can/are taking not necessarily what they can/are giving.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 9:48am On Jul 07|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Ugosample(m): 9:48am On Jul 07|
it depends on the socio economic status of the parties involved
The middle class to elite class who marry white folks (which btw most of the time were their school mates while they were schooling) are not doing it for any sinister motive
love "arrests" you in ways you never know existed
but for a poor guy who has nothing going for him
he is more inclined to act desperate
In things like these tho
I believe the men should be more honest
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Ugosample(m): 9:49am On Jul 07|
but like I said
we are ALL victims of our environment
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Ugosample(m): 9:51am On Jul 07|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 9:53am On Jul 07|
Ugosample:Yeah. Very very likely.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by CaptainMitch: 2:38pm On Jul 07|
Foreign girls are not money grubbing, she will even support you financially and psychologically, Nigerian ladies will reduce your lifespan but we can't run away from them, they are necessary evil.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by olioxx(m): 3:22pm On Jul 07|
That girl in white ehn...
Her package arrange, nor be here ooo!
Just look at Mikel Obi's daughter and you will realize that black and white need to come together to produce beautiful offspring.
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 12:44pm On Jul 08|
AkataWoman:Actually most naja guys are not mainly after the inhertance or her wealth forever but the G-card so they can have opportunities to earn by themselves. This is the part you guys are not seeing or emphasising
And frankly, any man who a white lady who offers him this opportunity of papers, a gesture which his fellow black lady cant and don't dream or sees as taboo to offer, only to want to lay back and leach the whte chick instead of work hard to complement her effort and good gesture deserves whatever bad treatment she dishes out to him.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by aseosa(f): 2:47pm On Jul 08|
Am not like what you just described.
I cherish my black culture and my skin.
Black women are more better than the foreign fake white who find any reason to hate us.
If you have been to America. Or maybe Europe. You will see how black women are discriminated.
Even to the point in which white girls call black women hair unattractive.
So we all just want to be able to be equal.
But not all black women fall for their trap.
But see if you don't like black women.
Just hug the nearest pole to you.
It is not bad to dislike or like someone.
But it becomes an issue when you start to make it a big deal.
So in short.
I would say Bleep yourself animal.
Am way up blessed nigga.
Just stop hating on black women beauty. I do it.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Obodo999(m): 4:01pm On Jul 08|
Then they should pay for it.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 5:32pm On Jul 08|
aseosa:lol, I love beautiful (curvy) women of all races with nice buttocks and flat tummy + nice standing boobs, I don't care about skin complexion when it comes to women okay hun.
My point is, let us tell ourselves the truth; white race has superior intelligence to create things from nothing than the black race.
White race have more innovative brain to create wow things using science and technology than black race, stop arguing the reality!
White race are more organized and coordinated than the black race and that is why all the white race nations are far developed and working more than black nations, stop arguing baselessly okay
Accepting your weakness is not the end of your life and it does not mean you are useless, unless you want to be useless, so try and reason well.
I have been to many countries of recent, so when I speak you listen hun
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Ugosample(m): 6:24pm On Jul 08|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by khia(f): 8:35pm On Jul 08|
How is meeting whites a privilege?
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by lilwetdick: 11:56pm On Jul 08|
i didnt understand what you wrote but i guess you wrote about material stuff and that is not what i am talking about here
the only stuff a Nigerian man can offer to a white lady that feed, cloth and home him, is his DICK, nothing more, i have seen that always, after she enjoys the DICK and she becomes bored, she throws them out to the streets and bring in a new black intimacy gadget as a replacement, it goes like a cycle ..
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by iRepNaija1: 12:37am On Jul 09|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 9:01am On Jul 09|
This is hasty generalisation maybe to scare away guys. I have seen many where they became couples, raised a family and established businesses in Nigeria. I can send you twitter account of such a family
Again it depends on the attitude of the guy. An educated guy will use his brain and apply himself to be worthwhile to the white helpmate and worthwhile he can be to her given that they dont necessarily evaluate guys mainly based on material input like their naija counterparts.
Anyways, thrown out or not, once the white chick has helped the guy obtain papers ( providing a life changing opportunity without even being ones village, country of continent person) she has already done more than enough for him than the average black chick can think or accomodate in her sense to offer.
However the reality is, millions of naija guys will beg to be given papers and thrown out by a white chick to find their way an opportunity their fellow naija babes can't bear to offer so being thrown out is not necessarily a diservice unless the guy is a dunce. An educated or skilled naija guy willing to manage a small job and grow from their wont mind being thrown out ok. So stop making it sound like a white chick throwing one out is worst than one who wouldn't accept the poor guy nor offer anythung in the first place.
* i have added a little to that previous post so maybe you can understand it better otherwise its not rocket science to understand it.
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by nijabazaar: 9:41am On Jul 09|
But its not a lie. I spoke the truth. People are more attracted to Mixed people, hence are more likely to give them jobs/xontracts once they are in a position to.
You gat to prepare for the future bro. Even Beyonces father said, Queen B wouldnt have been this successful had she had a darker skin shade...
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by lilwetdick: 11:09pm On Jul 09|
you only know of one family, the bulk of Nigerian men who hustle abroad to get paper are not working or doing anything rasonable, ther job is just to Bleep a white woman..that is the reality except you wanna deny it
an educated and skilled nigerian guy working abroad wont even go abroad illegally, he will get his papper legally without depending on a woman.
when abroad nigerian men and women behave the same way, they are looking for white men in the case of the woman or white woman for the men to legallise their stay, so thinking you are going to get some good treatment from another hustling nigerian girl abroad is impossible and vice versa.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by iRepNaija1: 12:18am On Jul 10|
Speak for yourself and not for other people. Not everyone is obsessed over light skin like you are.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by princfred(m): 7:14am On Jul 10|
I dont know only a family but many. Usually not just bleep but also carry out house chores. Think of it, which naija lady will even think of ofering a man anything for that? Also its what they can do for their fellow white boyfriend - housing, provinding food etc so its not as if they single out black guys to do that to/for.
It is a wrong assumptuon that an educated and skilled Nigerian guy can't be helped by white lady to get papers because i know many who have. One can get visa for schooling then hooked up with a white chick to facilitate his citizenry there.
Its is not exactly true that Niaja men and women behave exactly thesame way as its known that after hustling and even while hustling Nigerian men usually extend help to Naija babes by marrying and bringing them over. Infact most of them hustle so much even to the extent of scamming white chicks with the mindset to ultimately go come home and pick a wife a mindset not generally shared by their women counterpart who hardly think that way and would rather get married for life to the white man they hook up with or look strictly for a rich black guy if they ever come back.
Infact many of those homelsss naija guys thrown out ran into trouble when the white chick discovered they have a black chick they are courting, married to or maintaining back home.
On the previous matter because you may not any material things to offer a white chick does not mean others don't. A man i know too well helped his white mate to acquire a large portion of land at a cheap price compared to what she could gave gotten in her country and they established a huge agro farm which she may not have done on her own .
So my friend, the relationship between black guys and white chicks can be symbiotic materialy and other wise later after the babe has helped the poor guy if both know what they are doing.
Again any man who decides to remain a leach to a lady who wthout being her village, tribe, country even continent person decided to hell him deserves to be treated like a goat.
Even your naija chick will kill the man who doesnt meet up with yap, nagging, cheating and even worst e.g diabolism even though she may not have cotributed anything worthwhile to his development. So treating lousy men bad is not a peculiarity of white chicks.
Lastly you have not aswered the question: what does the black chick offer akin to papers? Infact offering a man anything sounds like a taboo to them and they rather dig a million readins not to as they feel only them are entitled to be offered anything in a relationship based on hypergamy.
Are you arguing
- that white chick and naija ones have a different mentality towards relationship especially with naija guys?
-That they dont offer much?
-That nothing good comes from dating white chicks or they dont offer things the average naija girl will rather faint than offer a man?
-That naija guys unlike their ladies eshew hypergamy to return home to pick a naija babe while/ after hustling abroad?
Or a your deviating from this points entirely?
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by HeightsKE: 10:03am On Jul 10|
What kinda questions are these,of cos they met on the net nah,where else,oshodi market?
I would certainly love to marry a foreigner for the sake of the future and a better society for the kids.
@justice96 Mahn need that connection
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by HeightsKE: 10:10am On Jul 10|
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by khiaa(f): 12:23am On Jul 12|
As a man you should find solutions to develop your Homeland instead of complaining about how women wear their hair. Be the man and lead by example.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 9:38am On Jul 12|
khiaa:*honey I am warming up to join politics even though is a dirty game down here and all over the world, but we can't keep watching these daft good for nothing old men continue to destroy the future of unborn black children, something has to be done....you need to know the underground work we are doing, so forget about that side.....let's stay on the topic hun; black race need white race assistance to emancipate, it is not our making, it is nature's
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by khiaa(f): 9:49am On Jul 12|
You make me want to throw up because of your self hate.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 10:02am On Jul 12|
khiaa:Self hate you say You make me laugh out loud here....if not for the same white race you are hating on, you and I wouldn't be here arguing this topic....probably you would have been in one forest in your rural community, tying green leaf with some bead on your waist and ankle trying to seduce one famous hunter in your community....so what are you blabbing about, give respect to whom respect is due!!!
This is the problem most ladies have; you don't appreciate those that helped you come to light in life....this is the same reason Nigerian ladies dump their husbands who labored to bring them from where they are suffering in Nigeria to USA or Europe....they will never remember when they were languishing in their poverty and how the man rescued them and made their life better....they will focus on their newfound fame and civilization claiming women right without thinking about the past....that's how women reason.
Respect the white race....they made life easy for all...they invented virtually every good thing we all are enjoying today that made our lives easy, what did the black race invent, where was the black race when the white race was inventing scientific and technological wonders, and making humane and wonderful laws to structure the society, where were your black forefathers
I am a top level programmer.....I do coding and I write scripts, but when I sit back and think about the people that sat down and developed these programming languages, how they even came about it...how it even occurred to their mind in the first place, something that was never existing....they brought them into existence that we can now learn and use to create whatever you can envisage, it makes me respect the white race and all the white inventors the more....but an ordinary thinking woman like you won't appreciate these things....you think its about cramming books and principles created by white men to pass exam and then raise your shoulder high that you are intelligent....intelligent in cramming another race's written books and inventions....how We need to give the white inventors and the white race kudos for inventing things and structuring this world, if not for them, the world would have been nothing
Stop being ungrateful, stop acting like an ingrate, give respect to whom respect is due and stop the unnecessary competition and formings okay, the more you argue this, the more you look inferior and fake because the whole world knows the truth, and even you know the truth, stop acting and be real for once
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by NkayStory(f): 11:07am On Jul 12|
You and those who liked your rants are a disgrace to your lineage and all your family stand for..,You blackmen are the reason Whites think the Black race are brainless monkeys wuth the IQ of a rat..
You lots are the reason why the Whiteman will see a grown-a*** bums like you and call you boys..because your mentality is at par with their toddlers.
For all your shameless White-hankering,the average White young hates your guts and never marrys you for the legendary criminality you Nugerian men are known for abroad.,In Switzerland,the Authorites warn their teen girls and young adult ladies to stay way from AFRICAN MEN cos papers are all you want.
They can shag you to fulfil a fetish they have while they fling you aside like a piece of rag.
In all these,Nigerian women marry young,rich Whitemen all the time cos game recognises game,same with decency.
At the end of the,the joke is on you self-hating black,African/Nigerian men always up to no good..
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by NkayStory(f): 11:20am On Jul 12|
The average Nigerian male is seen by Foreigners as crooked,criminally-minded bums who think evil 24/7..
You lots have messed up Nigeria,carried your odour to othet African countries and the World..Every bad thing asdociated with Nigetia is because of you MALES..
The Foreigners hate your guts because they know you are no good..you carry drugs in Asia and SA,,Scam folks in Europe and America...They chase you in Ghana and everywhere else for every single crimes on earth in rape,your forte
In the end you carrry your frustrated and rejected selves back to Naija to lament about Nigerian women...who send una?..
You dabnbe into scam marriages and relatiinships on-line 24/7 to the point where young Whitewomen reject your scam love requests all the time.
Nigeiann ladies deserve a medal for tolerating your B.S...one day you lots will be forced into homosecual marriages after female including Nigerian ladies all and sundry rejects your weak,morally-bankrupt selves.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Bigcowhorn: 11:27am On Jul 12|
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|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by NkayStory(f): 11:29am On Jul 12|
No keep abusing Nigerian womenooo,dont stop...Keep thinking the average Caucasian regards you as human...
Many of you having been spoilt by the dysfunctional Nigerian soceity you are used to,tnink you can export your bad behaviour to the West..
Only to be whipped into line and your sense re-wired forcefully that hasnyou running back to Naija crying for Nigerian lady whom are the omly onesmto tolerate your badly behaved selves..
I love the West for the way they emasculate you Nigerian guys and crush your over-bloated egos.
|Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by franchasng(m): 11:34am On Jul 12|
NkayStory:lol, now I see, black are all the same no matter their exposure
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