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Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by doitforyou(f): 8:14pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
You are the only one saying this, no one has said that on this thread. Her point was if a man wants a good sexual marriage then he has to put in the work, the best way to do that is to romance her. It has nothing to do with money. Korllami007: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nopanties: 8:18pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
FreeSpirited:Mumu! Who said u can't have 2 wives? Fucking up n down can be very deadly 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by HolyTitus(m): 8:26pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
FreeSpirited:funny dude |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Ishilove: 8:37pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
FreeSpirited:Ogbeni go and marry first before coming here to spew immature stuff 4 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by biz2get(m): 8:43pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
Korllami007: I understand you point largely. But let's stick to the topics discussion. When your wife is reacting in such a way as denying you sex. It only tells you something is on her mind that needs concern. And you are not paying attention to her(her mind) Solving the problem is easy. You only have to make her feel loved again and she will open up to you. Making he feel loved does not always need money. To your argument You are the one currently assuming that only if you give money to her will you have sex. Which makes her a slu-t. No it is wrong. Just so you know I used to take my wife on 500Naira Dates. Also taught her how to do the same, in cases where I am overwhelmed This will bring back that spark that connected you both at first. That vibe She gets to see you as that friend she use to know her best buddy. She's becomes open to you of her worries and you listen to her. That's all. The moment you are returning home EVEN GOD CAN NOT STOP THE HOT SE X THAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT SEF. FUC K THE KIDS. You have to get Game bro. It adds to the romance. Don't just come home and say open legs lemme fu-ck. Bcus it sounds like "open wallet give me money" To whom sense is given sense is expected. Enjoy 7 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Ishilove: 8:43pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
Mstick:
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Trizyd(m): 9:11pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
Y'all are just condoning nonsense, are you saying it's right for your wife to deny you sex? No matter what is going on with her or what you have done wrong, it's very wrong. There are other ways you could use to pass your message across. Women don't just deny their spouse sex for few days, they do this for weeks, months. It's their way of "punishment". They want the man crawling and begging. It's something that should not be heard of. If you are to deny your husband sex, it should be a mutual agreement not a decision taken alone by the wife if you truly belong to each other and you are one. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by addicted268(f): 10:08pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
biz2get: You are a very good husband.I pray your home remains peaceful forever.I think you understand women.its not always about money and spending. Women are EMOTIONAL beings,emphasis on emotional. When husbands understand this,I believe their homes will be more peaceful. PS I'm talking of d average woman o, not d 'anyhow ones' 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by HolyTitus(m): 10:09pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
After reading all the comments through and through; with all sincerity in me; i must say, i really learnt a thing or two as a prospective house - hold master; .... But come to think of it; aren't there other ways a housewife can communicate instinctively her feelings to the husband without the husband being sex - starved ? What if they still have the sex and she pretends as if she doesn't enjoy the sex by removing all the spices involved - i believe with that - the guy would still get the message thoroughly. Also, the issue of sex with benefits amongst house - holds is a menace that needs to be controlled if not eliminated but by how ? No one knows; because i don't see any reason why my wife would starve because I'm no longer putting food on the table; what has happened to the ''for better; and for worse vow'' they had on the altar ? were they under the influence of an intoxicating substance when they said that ? Or being a happy day that it was - they were enthused - which made them not to think deeply what the priest meant by ''for better; and for worse'' Never meant to derail the thread - maybe I'm just being curious about things i should have known.... 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by lukui: 10:38pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
most women think that their pvssy is worth a million dollars but it isn't. the pvssy that you are denying your husband, another woman is giving him free of charge!!! with " thank you sir" when will you come again sir? 6 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
FreeSpirited: I like women but here is the bitter truth you have to know. all women are manipulative and crave attention/validation. marrying a woman doesn't guarantee steady sex and if you force her or yourself on her, you may be accused of rape or termed insensitive and that will give you only fewer sex. women see their pvssy as a hidden treasure you have to go on an adventure to explore. ultimately they want to stress you before you can enjoy it, or limit how often you can enjoy it. they derive joy from it, I don't know why. so how do you win as a married man? it's simple. before konji hits you at all or even comes try to pay attention to your wife and things she likes. for example helping out in the house. but this alone will not help you. she may give you sex this way as a way of saying thank you in return but it will not be as steady unless you combine it with this next step. always ensure a day or two does not go without you giving attention to your wife's body. sex is not the intention but to ease, please and tease her. you can give her a massage, hug her tightly, stroke her, tickle her, do anything that will please her senses and make her laugh or relax and when she is almost at the climax, leave her hanging. do not initiate sex. make that a routine and she will begin to lust after you. try not to initiate this in the bedroom, she may be reluctant thinking sex comes next. do this anywhere else. her sex drive will be so high from all the teasing that she will practical beg you for sex. when she finally does give her in quantum until once again the lust in her dies, then repeats steps one and two from the top, again and again. I repeat never ever beg her for sex. it wont serve you well for the long term. and learn to pay attention to your wife and not only when konji comes calling. she too has feelings no matter how manipulative she may get. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by lukui: 10:42pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
list of cheap things on earth air, water, and pvssy especially in India, China and most poverty stricken countries |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
lukui: with all respect, is yours cheap? |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by biz2get(m): 10:58pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
bigmic111: You know the Game well. Brother! 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
Mstick: you just hot tonight this lady. alot of truth in your posts but I want to point out something. it may sound raw but it is true. an unvirgin and an unfvcked pvssy is a wasted pvssy! that statement has deep meaning. men should pay attention to their wives but wives should not hold back their pvssies from their husbands because of a hormone known as estrogen. it is ultimately the hormone that kills sex drive in women and it's effect are greater during and after menopause. all ladies will get to menopause sooner than later and their sex drive will nose dive. there is no point preserving a thing that will fade away, enjoy it while you can cause men have testosterone, the hormone responsible for male sex drive that last in the man until his death, whenever that is. but men have their hoeing days typically from teen years to their early or late fifties after which the desire to cheat although still there will be manageable because they have a family they love and have invested so much to throw away for some fling or one night stand. that's why a wife should be a hoe for her man when his testosterone are still raging, in the early part of his life. then he has fewer commitments and can easily decide to divorce and start all over but this is usually harder in the later part of his life. and it will compliment the wife well because her estrogen level would have dropped due to menopause and so her sex drive. I just shared a scientific bases of how to keep ur man. PS -YOU ARE RIGHT IN YOUR DEMANDS BUT DONT KEEP YOUR GAZED FIXED AT UR DEMANDS THAT YOU MISS THIS TRUTH I POINTED OUT |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
biz2get:thanks brother, I learnt from the best and from experience 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Bamz(m): 11:59pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Hi , I sent you a mail. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Okudiover(m): 12:06am On Jul 09, 2019 |
FreeSpirited: Why ask for advice when you have mentioned the solution. If you don't bang other babes na for heaven or hell you go do am? Anyway I will go a step further by starving her of money and subsequently drive her out of my home. Nonsense! 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:45am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Martinez39: Did your father marry your mother? If yes, is he smart or foolish? If no, it means you are a bastard right? Note, I'm not trying to be insultive, just asking. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:47am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Penisinpenisout: So you are equating sex with breathing? If you don't have sex you can't breath? Meaning you'll suffocate and die? Issokay. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:51am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Age is truly not maturity cos it's very evident on this thread, smh!!! 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by FreeSpirited: 2:28am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Nopanties:I don't have to fvvck up and down Ode. Having one or two side chick per time that will guarantee me sex is not a bad idea. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by FreeSpirited: 2:45am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Bamz: Lols...My guy no even get time for the topic on discussion... man been hustling and scouting for new lubricant |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Tutordj83(m): 4:03am On Jul 09, 2019 |
dreamwords:facts nah |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Bamz(m): 4:46am On Jul 09, 2019 |
FreeSpirited: Sighs, you don't know what you're saying |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nopanties: 6:41am On Jul 09, 2019 |
FreeSpirited:Idiot! Any 1 or 2 girl that will guarantee u sex n is not ur wife is an Olosho. How old are you sef |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by FreeSpirited: 7:30am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Nopanties:Okay. I just pray to God that he gives me a good wife cos what is happening now a days is not encouraging... I'm of marriageable age... so now that u know nko |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by goooze(m): 7:55am On Jul 09, 2019 |
I don't like commenting on marriage issues because I believe its a different stroke for different folks but I want to highlight the following; 1. Men take care of your homes in the best way you can but enjoy yourself as well. The day you start depriving yourself of your enjoyment all in the name of being a good or homely husband believe me you have reduced your lifespan by a quarter. 2. Remember you have you own destiny to fulfill as an individual aside your children and also aside satisfying a wife that believes putting family worries on your head makes you the best man on earth. 3. Wives you want to own it all. Remember, you've once enjoy all these things you are accusing the man of. You have children that needs to be given future to now, you owns and control the children because before any man will reap 5% of its labour on children you've already reaped 70% out of the mans...with yours still 100% intact. 4. Have anybody ever asked him or herself why we have lots of widows when its time to get dividends of parenthood? Its either the man has finished himself with struggling and worries about how to make the future right for his family and satisfying a wife without actually "enjoying himself to keep his body and soul together or possible being killed by the so called wife so as to enjoy everything alone. 5. Wives you go to the UK,US, CANADA to do " omugo" and refuse to come home on time in the name of I'm taking care of my grand child leaving this man to the hands of the maid to take care of. 6. Men get this right, women will always be enemy to whatever you derive pleasure from differently from her it doesn't need to be only cheating. In conclusion, men please stop this ego of I am the man of tge house. women owns their children they have greater influence on them than you even in the time of enjoying what you've laboured for therefore, take care of you home by giving your family a good future but enjoy yourself now because there no guarantee for you getting that in the future unless you are lucky to have children that's is not under the influence of women manipulation. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Oyindidi(f): 8:10am On Jul 09, 2019 |
All I have to say to the op is, grow up! I will cheat! I will cheat with a hot babe, if you like cheat with mummy water nonsense! |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by Nobody: 8:30am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: I literally have heart palpitations when I'm hungry for sex and don't get it. YOu ladies are lucky. YOu dont' know what testosterone does to a man. Sometime I want to cut my balls, but I'm not a doctor. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:52am On Jul 09, 2019 |
lukui:This is so true |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Wife Is Always Denying You Of Sex? by FreeSpirited: 9:12am On Jul 09, 2019 |
goooze:Plenty advice here o. Honestly men suffer too much for the family and at the end gain nothing other than the wahala of their wife...and also, Most children are biased when it comes to paying back their parents..they will rather support mom and buy her things than the father even at his old age..forgetting that the father also has struggled for the family, that he also needs attention and care. 1 Like |
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