Trying to keep a relationship can be quite a task. Making things work with someone who is from a different background can be an adjustment. We have some tips that will help you be a better girlfriend if you know you’ve been slacking off lately.
This is how to be a better girlfriend

Trust him
Trusting your man isn’t just going to help you be a better girlfriend, it’ll give you peace too. If you don’t trust him, then you really shouldn’t be with him.

Show concern, not invasion

When he needs space, let him know you’re there for him, but don’t bombard him with questions and wanting to know what’s wrong. Sometimes men just need to be alone

Do not nag
The fastest way to push a guy away is to nag. So if you want to be a better girlfriend avoid this at all cost. Learn to communicate issues without nagging him.

When you’re angry, walk away

Don’t do the crazy girlfriend thing. We know how enraged women can get, so when you feel the crazy coming on, walk away without saying a word.

Make him feel like the alpha male
A guys ego is his pride and joy, so feed it. Praise all his achievements and let him know how strong you think he is. Let him do things for you and when he does, be impressed with him.


Love his family
His family was there before you came along and they will always be a part of his life. Love them even when you don’t like them.

Be nice to his friends
Once in a while, host his friends. Pay for drinks or host a football game and let them relax and unwind. If possible make food and drinks available and then leave them to have fun without you.

Don’t try to change him
It’s wonderful to help your boyfriend be a better man, but trying to change him just goes overboard. You fell for him as himself so why try so hard to make him someone else

Be your own person
Have your own thing going for you and don’t make him your entire life. It’s too much pressure for both of you.

Thanks for this wonderful piece... It's quite unwell on how some girls do behave in a relationship...

I hope it goes a long way to help...

@carloz685 you are welcome. Sure it goes a long way if only you put it to practice

Hmmm