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|8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by adaezeh126(f): 3:05am On Jul 12|
We, human beings, like to take things for granted.
When it comes to relationships, based on our previous experience (or lack of such) we tend to miss some important red flags or simply forget about things that are actually dear to our other half’s heart.
Women are emotional creatures, so it’s only natural that things that are most important to them are often not from the material realm, but rather deal with some spiritual values and general showcases of affection that don’t necessarily include actual presents. For instance, women like to talk about feelings.
Even if you’re not a fan of doing that, it’s still necessary to speak out what’s on your mind from time to time – it’s kind of expected of you. Here’s a list of 8 things women would like men to do without being told.
1. Take her on dates
Whether you’ve just met or have already lived together for some time, it’s always important to keep your relationships fresh. Some women love surprises, others not so much, but everyone equally likes dates, especially when the man spend some time planning one. It doesn’t have to be a romantic getaway (although, those work just as well), but the more places you visit with your loved one, the stronger your relationships will be. Keep that spark alive as long and possible!
2. Give her compliments
Compliments not only make women feel better, they also boost their confidence and, eventually, make them look better than before. You can check this out yourself – when you talk about how gorgeous she looks without makeup and how you just love to spend hours with her talking, she will light up and look delighted for the rest of the day. You don’t have to be blunt about compliments, you can say nice things about anything that she does – starting with her gorgeous smile and ending with a cup of coffee she made for you or an art piece she created.
3. Give her space
Just like men need their time alone, so do women. Personal space is something that shouldn’t even be discussed, it’s a natural thing to do – let your loved one have her own hobbies, pursue her career, and let her have special ‘me days’ when she spends time with herself alone. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to spend all the time together (although, you absolutely can if you both want to), you can spend time with your friends and she will want to spend some time with her friends as well. Those are natural things and you have to remember about those subtleties.
4. Do some shopping
Men are notoriously helpless when it comes to shopping that doesn’t deal with hardware, cars, or gadgets. Which makes it even more exciting for your wife or girlfriend if you stop by a shop or a market on your way back home and buy something – anything will do! Groceries, home necessities, fruits, a dessert for dinner, some nail polish for her or lingerie you thing would look stunning on her – your woman will be pleased with the effort and the time you spent doing those things. And who knows, maybe you’ll find out you actually have a knack for shopping!
5. Talk about your feelings
It’s easier for women to talk about their feelings than it is for men. Guys are more about doing things rather than talking about them, but it’s still important to talk about what’s on your mind because it’s not always that obvious and women kind of expect you to do that. It’s not only about saying the good stuff and the iloveyou’s, you should also speak out when you’re irritated with something or hurt by what she said or did. Either way, communication is the key to healthy relationships, so you shouldn’t omit that part.
6. Remember her birthday
And other important dates as well! But her birthday should be on the top of your list because for the majority of people it’s one of the most important days of the year. If you’re bad with dates – use a reminder or a simple calendar. It doesn’t really matter what you do, buy a simple present or throw a huge party for her, your attention is a good enough present in itself. This concerns other important dates as well, like your one-year anniversary or the day you met together. Showing those signs of affection is really important!
7. Remember her friends’ and families’ names
Just as your friends are important to you, so are her friends. When you get to know your girlfriend a little better, you will naturally get acquainted with the people close to her. But even if you don’t know them personally, it’s always good to remember the names of people that surround her, whether they are co-workers or friends, siblings, and parents. Of course, this goes both ways, so expect her to be interested in your surroundings, too!
8Say ‘I love you’
Despite being somehow overused by mass media, those three simple words are still among the most important things a man can say to a woman. Even if you believe she already knows how you feel, it’s still important to say those words out loud. There’s a huge difference between ‘knowing’ that you love her and actually hearing you say those words. Women adore hearing men declare their feelings, it just makes them feel loved, secure, and overall good about themselves and your relationships.
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Kingpee2(m): 3:47am On Jul 12|
My parents didn’t go through all this process .
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by adaezeh126(f): 6:24am On Jul 12|
@kingpee2 �� that was then and not now
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Korllami007: 6:29am On Jul 12|
What are the eight things the women will do in return?
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|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by femi4: 6:35am On Jul 12|
One thing the OP need to understand when writing ...."Paragraph"
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Pharaoh4rin: 7:02am On Jul 12|
Outlining a relationship trend such as this makes it a doctrine. Meaning, ladies will begin to accept and respect it all d time, and before u know it will become a common practice and hell, boring. In Naija, different regions have their relationship spices.
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Pharaoh4rin: 7:03am On Jul 12|
Outlining a relationship trend such as this makes it a doctrine. Meaning, ladies will begin to accept and expect it all d time, and before u know it will become a common practice and hell, boring. In Naija, different regions have their relationship spices.
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Adedaniel211(m): 7:21am On Jul 12|
forget d list... money, money, money all dway...
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Foodforthought(m): 7:27am On Jul 12|
Yawns...feminine worship again.
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by domino4211(m): 7:51am On Jul 12|
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Kingpee2(m): 8:32am On Jul 12|
adaezeh126:We all have our terrible past,I’m happy for you though ,there’s one strange thing I’ve noticed on NL ,no one seems to be real life friends ,maybe I’ll be privileged to have you as my real life friend instead of just hiding behind our moniker names ,can I be your new friend please ?if you don’t mind ...
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by morningstar55(m): 8:47am On Jul 12|
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by adaezeh126(f): 9:31am On Jul 12|
@kingpee2 we are already friends here
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by adaezeh126(f): 9:32am On Jul 12|
@Korllami007 it will soon be out
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Kingpee2(m): 11:17am On Jul 12|
adaezeh126:Does it mean we can’t be friends on Whatsapp too?
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by rattlesnake(m): 2:13pm On Jul 12|
This is automatic if the love is real
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by Spy360(m): 4:33pm On Jul 12|
|Re: 8 Things Every Woman Wants Her Man To Do Without Asking by adaezeh126(f): 6:48pm On Jul 12|
@kingpee2 alright pc me then
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