I know this topic is quite funny but it's reality. My good friend has a serious girlfriend who is already like a wife to him. They are not legally married per say but they live together, have a baby together and both families know about their relationship and have already taken them as husband and wife but just waiting for them to decide to do a wedding anytime convenient for them.

My guy really wants to Wed her but he is worried about just one thing which is, the girl doesn't like going out, working or being far away from home except she is going to hospital or to see her parents with the baby. She is actually a lady that takes good care of their home and she just love everything house core as long as the guy gives her some money to cook and buys necessary things in the house, she is very okay.

Another funny thing about her is that she is not materialistic at all. No time for making hair, doing makeup or certain things like that. She is so content with any amount of money she is given and just use it more on buying stuffs for the house and baby. She doesn't even go shopping like that, but she buys nice second hand stuffs for herself and the baby and she is just so simple and natural.

As a man he is living very okay as the lady is taking good care of him at home and he has a very settled mind knowing that his woman doesn't go anywhere or mingle like that let alone meeting any guy that will make her cheat. But his problem is, he can't be the only one bringing money all the time because sometimes things are not so good when expenses are much so he wants her to at least start a business even if its close to their home so it won't stress her but at least she can also be making some money to support the home.

On her own side she says she doesn't want to run any business because of the baby that is 6months old now so we are trying to encourage her to do something that won't be so stressful for her and also close to the home so she can still find herself close to home and don't feel stressed trying to always go somewhere far from home because of business.

I believe there are matured people here that can help with some advice on how we can encourage her to do something and also support her to make it successful.

nawa o

tell your guy to hustle and have many streams of income.

The lady is doing her wifey duty, your friend should also do his part and not complain.

Lazy man.

By

1. Building her self-worth [she has none];

2. Having goals she is striving to achieve for her own fulfillment;

3. Realizing that sitting on her behind waiting for her man's money is a slap in the face to Joslyn Gage, Lucy Stone, Susan B. Anthony and the several game-changers who fought for her right to vote, to work, to own property, to be educated, and the plenty of things she can do;

4. Realizing that should the man be removed from the picture she would ultimately have to fend for herself.

theButterfly:
By

1. Building her self-worth, as she has none,

2. Having goals she is striving to achieve for her own fulfillment

3. Realizing that sitting on her behind waiting for her man's money is a slap in the face to Joslyn Gage, Lucy Stone, Susan B. Anthony and the several game-changers who fought for her right to vote, to work, to own property, to be educated, and the plenty of things they fought for b|c of her

4. If the man were removed from the picture she would ultimately have to fend for herself.

@op please discard this crappy post, its not needed here

Everybody is not programmed to be leaving the house in the morning and returning in the evening in the name of work. Some are meant to work from home. There are ppl who ar not comfortable with the demands of a regular job because of the time, stress, etc.
Personally, I'm not the regular job person cos I love doing things dat allow me flexibility of tym, so I chose to run a poultry farm.
let her learn a skill dat will giv her the chance to work from home. Such as cake making, bead making, snacks, makeup/makeover,even tailoring can be done from home if she sabi Ppl,even online biz is not ruled out, distribution of essential commodities.... In fact the list is endless.
All the best

lilmax:
@op please discard this crappy post, its not needed here

I'd like you to Google those names you bolded and tell us exactly why his post should be discarded.

Find her a job of course, or let her go to school and get educated, or establish a business for her.

Paxie55:
tell your guy to hustle and have many streams of income.

The lady is doing her wifey duty, your friend should also do his part and not complain.

Lazy man.

That man is not lazy if he has been taking care of her, their child and paying all their bills in the home. He can't afford to continue fending for all their expenses by himself, esp. when they rise, which is understandable and which is why he's urging her to start a business [that he would fund]. He's considerate enough to tell her it could be close to their home to avoid stressing her. He seems like a good guy and she should lighten the load off him and help him out with their expenses.

Magnoliaa:


Lol... if that's not what he wants nko?

But sha, you're right in a way. That's how it is with the defined roles of each gender.



@ no.4, on point. Anything could happen. Wouldn't she find a way to meet her needs then any way?

I wonder. That's when she would be running around helter-skelter looking for who to borrow money from. Or more likely, be waiting for people to come drop money at her feet b|c that's how she is now. Even if she doesn't want to work for her own goals as a woman, or to help out the man, she should think of her child and his future should anything unanticipated happen. Anyway, make I sip my glass of MYOB.

Paxie55:
tell your guy to hustle and have many streams of income.

The lady is doing her wifey duty, your friend should also do his part and not complain.

Lazy man.

You are just so amazingly wicked

MariaLavina:
You are just so amazingly wicked

Lol. Sweet, longest time ni.

Paxie55:
Lol. Sweet, longest time ni.

Lol... I dey where you put me nah.

MariaLavina:
Lol... I dey where you put me nah.

Lol. Nne, many things on my head.

We are observing 7 days rain here in Owerri.

How's work?

Paxie55:
Lol. Nne, many things on my head.
We are observing 7 days rain here in Owerri.
How's work?

Many things on your head ke? Are you buhari?
Wao, I hope that won't lead to flooding? Work dey ooo, we dey push am.

MariaLavina:
Many things on your head ke? Are you buhari?

Wao, I hope that won't lead to flooding? Work dey ooo, we dey push am.

Lol.
Thank God for you dear.

Enjoy.