Obviously u don't know what it is like in a war zone for u to say he should maintain steady communication.
Marriage is for better for worse. If she had any doubts about her husband, the command is always there for her to visit to confirm his status. Rational women in her situation will be praying for their husbands and rebuking death on their behalf.
My conclusion is dat she is a prostitute. Oga Soldier she was never ur wife. Move on bro. May God keep u and bless u with a better woman.

Apus:
Both are at fault.

First, as a man it is your duty to maintain steady communication with your family no matter where in the world you have been. Otherwise consider yourself half-dead. With the nature of your work set it is very easy to pass you for dead after eight months. Pls do not even give d excuse of out-of network coverage!

To the woman the decision to find warmth in another man's arms was hastily done. Did she make efforts to confirm from the defence HQ if her husband was truely dead or from the his family?

Las las e no easy to be soldier man!

Apus:
Both are at fault.

First, as a man it is your duty to maintain steady communication with your family no matter where in the world you have been. Otherwise consider yourself half-dead. With the nature of your work set it is very easy to pass you for dead after eight months. Pls do not even give d excuse of out-of network coverage!

To the woman the decision to find warmth in another man's arms was hastily done. Did she make efforts to confirm from the defence HQ if her husband was truely dead or from the his family?

Las las e no easy to be soldier man!

What about those who stay yrs in abroad before they come back?

This one na okokobioko.

GrabHisBalls:
The chat is made up. If you believe the story then you're the dumbest person on NL.

Ignorance kill u there....

Gistvic:
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Shey na only one woman dey this world!! You better don't kill yourself

nero2face:
So many things to learn from this,
* No1 Never use ur profession to intimidate others...maybe the soldier guy don use army level collect the babe from the Ex, now see de end result.
*No2 Never marry who uu don't love...I sure say that girl marry the soldier guy bcus he was doing better than her Ex...now see her fuckup.
*No3 No go start wetin u no go finish...that fool wey go Bleep army man wife come give her belle, na running from pillar to post go be him own...make I see how him life go turn out to be...big market him buy so.

Na waa why are so judgemental except for one of your points others don't make sense to me the lady in question know what is in involved before agreeing to date a solider let alone marrying one, the primary duty of a solider is to be at war front he can be called upon at anytime if it was the other way round you would have seen women calling all kinds of name.

As a man how would have reacted if you are in this man shoe is it a crime to be a solider is it a crime to marry a wife that would aleast be faithful while you at battlefield yeah it's not easy been all alone but you can see they guy thot of keeping her mum in company of is wife to avoid been lonely guy if you don't know what say keep quite.

you see life? the guy was in war front fighting for people to leave in peace while one of the person living in peace was busy knacking his wife! #smh

chii8:
That means...she started messing up with her ex,4months after the guy left,belle con enter at the 5th month.abi na so belle easy to enter?

What if she waa messing with ex before the wedding?

GrabHisBalls:
The chat is made up. If you believe the story then you're the dumbest person on NL.

True. No emotions in the chat. Besides, if the issue was real, the chat won’t be that lengthy.

Make dat nigga kukuma relocate go Ghana.



IF that soldier catch, na die u dey Ooo

Too smart to fall for this fake rubbish

Hahaha! Both of them went to war now... The soldier went to kill and the wife went to collect bullet.

Fear innocent looking gals. M talking from experience

Babes full Street that act like this .

Some lads only want to enjoy themselves but matters arises babes at the other hand will want her man to knack once so she can tell him straight up

Apus:
Both are at fault.

First, as a man it is your duty to maintain steady communication with your family no matter where in the world you have been. Otherwise consider yourself half-dead. With the nature of your work set it is very easy to pass you for dead after eight months. Pls do not even give d excuse of out-of network coverage!

To the woman the decision to find warmth in another man's arms was hastily done. Did she make efforts to confirm from the defence HQ if her husband was truely dead or from the his family?

Las las e no easy to be soldier man!

I guess you are not aware that all communication signals were cut off as a precaution

You say wetin? Talk am again i no hear u well

nero2face:
So many things to learn from this,
* No1 Never use ur profession to intimidate others...maybe the soldier guy don use army level collect the babe from the Ex, now see de end result.
*No2 Never marry who uu don't love...I sure say that girl marry the soldier guy bcus he was doing better than her Ex...now see her fuckup.
*No3 No go start wetin u no go finish...that fool wey go Bleep army man wife come give her belle, na running from pillar to post go be him own...make I see how him life go turn out to be...big market him buy so.

Infact bros you are a very wicked analyst! But if na you be the man when.give the woman belle, what will you be doing by now?

chii8:
That means...she started messing up with her ex,4months after the guy left,belle con enter at the 5th month.abi na so belle easy to enter?

You no dey wipe?.... na we supos ask you

Agbako indeed

GrabHisBalls:
The chat is made up. If you believe the story then you're the dumbest person on NL.

i believe it and i aint dumb, for this naija, wetin person never hear or see. Whats not to believe, two matured adults fuvck themselves, e turn to belle, never underestimate woman wey get agro. She will fucvk and unfuvck.

superlanny:
i believe it and i aint dumb, for this naija, wetin person never hear or see. Whats not to believe, two matured adults fuvck themselves, e turn to belle, never underestimate woman wey get agro. She will fucvk and unfuvck.

Oga, I am not saying something of this nature can't happen. It's likely to happen, but from the chat, it's not a big deal to tell it's fake. From the supposed friend's replies to the Soldiers accounts don't add up. There's even a disconnection in their tones. The blogger obviously made it up with his whatsapp.

[quote author=nero2face post=80760531]So many things to learn from this,
* No1 Never use ur profession to intimidate others...maybe the soldier guy don use army level collect the babe from the Ex, now see de end result.
*No2 Never marry who uu don't love...I sure say that girl marry the soldier guy bcus he was doing better than her Ex...now see her fuckup.
*No3 No go start wetin u no go finish...that fool wey go Bleep army man wife come give her belle, na running from pillar to post go be him own...make I see how him life go turn out to be...big market him buy so.
[/quotu

u just wrote trash

Useless comment.
All these complicated nonsense you're advising makes no sense.
DIVORCE THE HOE.
PERIOD!

solmusdesigns:


True or False, this is a normal barrack Story, the type that turns soldiers to sadist alchoholics


Kpele oo, better collect your Bastard child and useless wife back, because if you play this game 100 time the result would remain the same, infact the ex would collect her clean clear and they live a very happy life, you can never expect a grown Animal of any specie and gender human inclusive to go through 8months of reproductive circle with loads of hormones to stay without sex because you want to save some aboki killing themselves by themselves

let face reality, a lady can get food in her father's house, same as shelter , clothing , money and everything except good diick, and this is why she married you in the first place

So mr soldier, any divorce would make you miserable in a warzone and your wife happy to dodge the misery of marrying an absentee husband. Get her back get your mother to monitor her, and start looking for who to bang and flirt with within your posting location so as to keep you sane and safe, who knows you might just find love again then you can begin doing shakara to that one back home,.because soldiers are not an hot commodity when it comes to marriage as no Family wants that for their daughter




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Even though the story is fake, but a look at the comments show how obsessed Nigerians are with marriage; most people are trying to analyze and give reasons why despite all the marriage should still continue... I'm truly amazed at Nigerians!

GrabHisBalls:
Oga, I am not saying something of this nature can't happen. It's likely to happen, but from the chat, it's not a big deal to tell it's fake. From the supposed friend's replies to the Soldiers accounts don't add up. There's even a disconnection in their tones. The blogger obviously made it up with his whatsapp.

ok no wahala, but wait first, you be babe abi guy man, this your moniker sef.lol

Apus:
Both are at fault.

First, as a man it is your duty to maintain steady communication with your family no matter where in the world you have been. Otherwise consider yourself half-dead. With the nature of your work set it is very easy to pass you for dead after eight months. Pls do not even give d excuse of out-of network coverage!

To the woman the decision to find warmth in another man's arms was hastily done. Did she make efforts to confirm from the defence HQ if her husband was truely dead or from the his family?

Las las e no easy to be soldier man!

@ bolden, you can only be lucky to get a means to communicate to the outside world once in a while if you are an officer, even that may be through the internet e.g. watzup, let alone a bloody other ranks.

Cantonese:



Infact bros you are a very wicked analyst! But if na you be the man when.give the woman belle, what will you be doing by now?

I go don run now...

Eyah, I feel for the soldier, his wife no serious o, how will she say body no be wood.

Skyfornia:
MIA pregnancy...accidental discharge! Fear women!!

What about men ❓

I don't even know who to blame and why blaming that person

Some girls no get shame. Marriage is not easy and she knows his kind of work. The man should file for divorce.