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Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 3:00pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
A friend of mine just gotten proposed to, she accepted the proposal but not the ring. She is against jewerlies and think those such is a form of gods worship. The fiance is furious and said that she need to accept the ring because it tells the other guys that she is taken and about to be married. She refused the ring. He told her that if does not wear the ring he will not marry her. She is disrespecting his family rituals or whatever that mean. I have noticed that her case isn't the only weird case I have heard, I have heard men say that women who are taken need to wear their engagement ring at all time. I wonder if it an entitlement for the men to order their fiancees to wear the engagement ring? What is the real REASON, you guys want the woman to wear the engagement ring? I always said with or without the ring, the woman is still yours if you picked the right one, What with the RING guys? |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by MrCork21: 3:08pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
ask Harry porter!! , duh! ( |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by Yorisb: 3:11pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
^^^ LWKMD! |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by selena(f): 3:11pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Mr-Cork: Lol! |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:13pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve: the the problem of doing a culture which is not yours |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 3:14pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
I see goats have entered, WHY AM I NOT SURPRISED |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 3:15pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
So Zimdrill, In Zimbo, an engaged woman MUST WEAR a ring to INFORM THE SOCIETY SHE IS ENGAGED? Or can she chooses not to wear the ring and still be engaged? |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:27pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
in zim people dont really bother about engagement (like the way you nigerian sound) in zim you date, then agree marry each other he pays bride price then you can wed if you want to engagement (putting on the ring) is done by a few in zim if when your relationship is working towards marriage you introduce each to relatives i.e your aun,t father's sister not your parents though the introduction is a traditional engagement (when you introduce him or her to your aunt you tell that this is the wo/man i want marry) parents dont get involved during introductions they only do so on actaul day of paying bride price |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by MrCork21: 3:41pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Seems Queen eve is waitin for a ring to be put in her finger, sadly, I bet her finger is just too fat for ring to fit in, well i love her still |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 4:43pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Uhmmm mr cock, I am MARRIED, why would I be waiting on a ring? Never mind, it was a rethorical question, Okay Zimdrill, and I am not Nigerian by the way, I hear ya though, |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by MrCork21: 4:47pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
arhhha, EXPOSED!! the chick is from mexico!! No wonder she wants me!! , she after my moiney!! |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by Dsense(m): 5:56pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve:I would force her to wear Ring so that when guys see her they would know she's engagged though they ll still be after her but it won't be like when she's not wearing it.fo |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:03pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
D-sense: should think harder with or with a ring people will always make a move the ring doesnt stop anyone it is her that can stop them a wedding certificate on the whole can never stop you from bi.t.c.hing or the wedding ring |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by TRUSTEDGUY: 6:04pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
As far as am concern,true love involves sacritifce if she truly loves him what is there in a ring wear it because of him nothing ease |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:06pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve: what took you to this site |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 6:09pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
My husband is Nigerian@Zimdrill |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:11pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve: you very intelligent how does your man differ from an average typical nigerian man |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 6:20pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Well Zimdrill, When my husband first approached me I did not know he was Nigerian not that I have a preference of what type of man that I like, I do but I am not strictly picking but I have my standard, I spent time getting to know my husband while we were dating and when I found out he was Nigerian I was shocked because he looked like any other African-American people walking in America, and plus he is igbo, As you know Igbo men have them noses, because few of my friends are igbo and they got them noses so that how I was able to tell they were Nigerians, my husband speak like an American mainly because his family is both American and Nigerians. Although he is Nigerian-American, he practices the tradition of igbo culture so I was introduced to his family and they gave him approval, but BEFORE I EVEN said I would date my husband, I got to know his character by seeing how he interact the females in his family and his behavior with me in midst of other people. I wasn't expecting to marry a Nigerian or an African because their are alot of good black men in America despite what the Media portrayed black men to be, My husband and I was gelled, which is unique because we have two DIFFERENT cultures but we made it work, and I know Nigerian men HAVE BAD REPUTATION around the world, BUT I ALWAYS SAID, ONE NIGERIAN MAN DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL NIGERIAN MEN, To sum it all up Zimdrill, I looked at all the GOOD QUALITIES MY HUSBAND had despite the fact he is NIgerian and it overweight the NEGATIVE QUALITIES, No man is perfect and that what I tell the ladies, you will never meet the PERFECT MAN, but I married the RIGHT MAN FOR ME, SORRY FOR THE RAMBLE, as you see I love my husband and enjoy sharing my love of him to others |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:25pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve: wish you many more years atleast you speak for him than the rest who claim |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by Dsense(m): 6:27pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve:Great . |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ITbomb(m): 6:39pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
queeneve:HOW TO HOOK A NICE IGBO MAN. CONDENSED VERSION |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 6:49pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Hush up Itbomb! I was just sharing my love, now stop hating, |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by Yorisb: 6:51pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
ITbomb:LMAO |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 6:52pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Hush up Yorisb!! |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by Yorisb: 6:57pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Queen wetin I do again? I be ur in-law u know? |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by sleekch1c(f): 7:21pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
ITbomb:go fall in love and quit hating queeneve:sorry to counter u babe bt nigerian men arent the only ones dat can be full of bullcrap.all the same dearie,am happy for u |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by ITbomb(m): 7:30pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
^^^^ i dont fall in lurve sir. I WALK IN LOVE ON MY TWO FEET AND WITH MY EYES WIDE OPEN AND MY BRAIN STILL FUNCTIONAL |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by MrCork21: 7:32pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Queeen Eve has been expecting a ring for the past 20years, she is 42 |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 8:10pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Yes Sleek! You right not all Nigerian men bad EXCEPT MR COCK AND MOBO, Yorisb, if you are Igbo, You might be, He has a big family and they say I look like them! You know we having a big holiday festival in the ibo village in December going to be a big festival, why don't you come and celebrate with us, we will have enough eba and ogbono for everybody! I might even cook my famous meal, I might cook my version of jollef rice with scramble eggs, Love is a wonderful thing with the RIGHT PERSON, don't hate on love! |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by MOBO444(f): 8:12pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
^^^ Please dont you dare. |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by queeneve: 8:18pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
Don't I dare what Mobo? |
Re: Romantic Woes: The Ring by Yorisb: 8:26pm On Oct 17, 2010 |
@QUEEN! Hmm, Sounds very interesting. Tell u what, I'm starting to discard warrever negative thoughts(impressions) I had about you previously. Pray tell where about in Igbo land is your hubby from? I might even come around then, u never know. |
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