MYSTERY



I offer a paid service for the Alpha Male relationships. Single or married trainings. I am not here to teach you Pick up lines to woo a girl, No! You have more than enough coaches available for that. You have the Hardons, iLegends and Ubunjas on this platform to guide you through.


What I offer is unique in the sense that it handles the aftermath of the initial wooing or toasting stage of relationships or marriage. i.e How to Lead the relationship in a proper way for the benefits of you, your spouse and the Society at large.


Make no mistake; I am not a marriage counselor, far from it. Rather, I am running a Mentorship program for men. I exist strictly for the male folks. I am encouraged to show many Guys/Men the light on how to handle their relationships with women. How to be the captain of their ship, how to become the boss of their home and how to become the true Alpha Male they desire and seek in order to achieve happiness and peace in their continuous dealings with their respective spouses.

What I offer is not a book or an e-book where you have to read unending until you get bored, no! what I offer is real, its live solutions to your present relationship or marital problems. You tell me the mess you are in, and I give you words, tips, body language or guidance to wriggle your way out. Bring it on!



I do my stuffs basically all on whatsapp calls and chats.

What You Get From My Paid Service

• A Readily available companion in times of crises in your relationship
• Advice, rules and guidelines on how to lead, navigate and relate well with your spouse
• How to resolve marital/Relationship issues
• Best ways to Control, rule and Lead in your homes or relationships.
• How to understand and handle women
• Real Live and practical steps to problem solving
• How to make her fall in line and obey you
• How to make her love and respect you.

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CALLS/CHATS: 08067871497

Email: realpoacher@gmail.com

OUR FATHERS




You see, many fathers have failed in training up their male child on how to handle women, failed on how to negotiate and navigate their way around with the female folks. The results are the emotionally weak and feeble minded men you see whining all around town, not knowing how to put women in their place. All we were taught right from childhood is all about brute strength and physicality, making us all brittle, that’s why many times we result to beatings and battery in trying to handle women or trying to put them in their place.


Many here will hate me (especially the women…) for my attempt to liberate the male folks from the whims & caprices of women. Call me a Misogynist or whichever name you deem fit. I don’t care. I know some will even seek to attack me or otherwise. But I am unapologetically going to run this program for as long as I can until many disciples of this mandate are born.

I have been doing this on a low key with good positive feedback and recommendations; therefore it is pertinent to bring this out to the public for broader consumption.

Getting to the Top is hard; Remaining at the Top is Harder


Many Pick up Artists out there are trying daily to give guys wooing skills yet many People(both PUAs and Us) are neglecting a vital part of the journey; - How to maintain a relationship.


How exactly do you maintain a relationship? Answer to this question is what so many men lack. That’s why many try to mask it with making more money to spend on their partner. Others try so hard to improve their bedroom skills, while many become glorified houseboys or drivers in order to “TRY” to sustain the relationship.


Yet still, even with all these attempts, they fail miserably to keep or maintain such relationships. The reason is simple,..... - this reason and many more are what you are to learn and master from me in the course of my trainings, tutorials, and guidance.

Yes, you have gone out of your way to get that dream girl. You’ve learnt the best pick-up lines and used it to break the ice before her. You are now dating or about starting to date officially, and you are scared shi:t about putting a foot wrong. Many times she is yearning for you to lead her, to teach her, to be the man she needs, but you have failed her, not only her, but you’ve failed the male folks greatly.

You have surrendered your birthright to her, she’s taken it and taken over the drivers seat, she’s now the leader while you are the follower, she is the captain while you are the crew, she is the one wearing the trousers while you are now on skirts, she is the fuccking man now while you are the woman.

Of course she can’t lead, that’s why there are problems everywhere. No wonder you are running helter skelter, to friends and families, online/offline, to nairaland, facebook, twitter, etc looking for solutions to problems created and fanned by you…. Albeit subtly.


Well, before you do anything else crazy or stupid, pick up that phone now and speak to me, you’ve got a good confidant who will guide you appropriately.

It’s a better world we seek apparently, and starting with a small family unit, a better world we will get.

CASE STUDY 1

My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)

I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.

In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).

I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.

She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.

In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.

In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).

Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.

Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.

My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.

I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

https://www.nairaland.com/5359392/wife-cheat-need-advice

Stories like the above are abound in many homes across the world, not just restricted to Nigeria alone.

Case of enduring a marriage instead of enjoying it.

Many men sometimes are the architect of their own problems. How exactly do you forgive and forget a case of a cheating wife?

CASE STUDY 2

I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

https://www.nairaland.com/5374922/how-brother-learnt-lesson-hard

So many wrong points to note from the foundation of this relationship.

Should I start from the lack of Self esteem?... Or

The fault of giving a blank cheque to someone who doesn't value you... Or

Faulting his lack of negotiating skills?


If one had offered to advise him from the very beginning inorder to prevent painful experience such as this, my guess is that such an offer would have been turned down.

Its time for men to take their Emotional drills and trainings serious.

Give me a call/chat today: 08067871497