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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:59pm On Aug 08, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:CHAI! CHAI! CHAI! |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 10:03pm On Aug 08, 2019 |
nisai: ... 1 Like
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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 10:11pm On Aug 08, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:OK thanks and goodbye. May God bless you. 1 Like
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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 10:12pm On Aug 08, 2019 |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by clapbest(m): 3:23am On Aug 09, 2019 |
[quote author=XhosaNostra post=81050120]I believe every individual has their own set of rules, land mines & deal breakers in a relationship. Some more specific than others. I don't know about how other people go about it, but I always state mine very early on, so it is understood from the get go what my values are. Like you said, things like loyalty don't change depending on which direction the wind blows. My core values also remain the same no matter who I choose to be with & I cannot compromise on them. Relationships are a learning curve, so even though I've been in quite a few, I still don't know what the qualities of a 'good man' are supposed be lol. I only know what gels with me. A man is as 'good' as his beliefs vs. my own, I'd say. If we have a lot in common, we're 'good'. Now a subject I'm very certain about is who is not right for me. This one is not as complicated as trying to figure out who's good. It's clear cut & simple. It all goes back to my FIXED & 'NOT ABOUT TO CHANGE ANYTIME SOON' core beliefs. I value things like communication, consistency, honesty & of course, loyalty. Try me on ANY of these things & the end is nigh. I think I'm pretty uncomplicated that way [/quote. I'm so Impressed I must admit |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by DaySpringer: 10:34pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: 1. If a man consistently displays the values that you have mentioned above, does it not mean that he is a good man? Does it not mean that he is serious with you? 2. From your wealth of experience, can you say that you do not know the signs of a man that is not ready to be serious with you? 3. If a man comes and starts pretending to have all the core values that you have mentioned about, how can you tell that it is all a pretence. Do you have hints and tips on actually being able to uncover the deceit? |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 11:25pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
DaySpringer: 1. It'd simply mean we're on the same page because I don't even consider myself 'good' based on those qualities. Compatible is more like it. 'Good' is a very difficult quality to define because people are not one dimensional. 2. Of course I know the signs. It's difficult to explain because like I said, I know when things are wrong, so to speak, but I just have no idea when they're right. Perhaps that's a personal quirk of mine, IDK. I guess you can say I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop & it often does. 3. I rely heavily on my intuition to navigate my way around situations like that. I can always unmask people. It takes keen observation & time. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by BabbanBura(m): 11:42pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
nisai: Oga cant u see that U've being miss-yarning. Sorry but you dont fit the kind of man she desires. Kpele |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by myke92(m): 12:12am On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Followed you two love play from page 1.. What a way to end it.. |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 6:03am On Aug 10, 2019 |
myke92: With Nisai? Well, he unceremoniously dumped me so I got to move on 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by JERRY1925(m): 7:21am On Aug 10, 2019 |
Don't take any rules serious. If a man truly love you.. You will know. But the sad thing is, when u truly love a woman.. It hurts.. To truly do. She takes u for granted. And please nobody should say it's some women o. If a woman has nut taken you for granted, then you've truly not loved. |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by cooluzi: 7:31am On Aug 10, 2019 |
HRHQueenPhil:nice,sound like u have lot of experience |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by Allsingles: 8:03am On Aug 10, 2019 |
DaySpringer: Thousands of men can pretend. But thousands are also real too. For a real man that is serious and want to take his woman to the alter. 1) He protects the woman in the presence of family and friends, no matter what happen he will always protect her but can caution her when they are together in private. 2) He advises his woman when she does something wrong. He will not raise his voice on her neither raise his hands on her. 3) He will always like to hear her opinion in every discussion. Not that the guy can't take decision without the girl but because he values her opinion as well as he values her presence. 4) He will not keep secrets for her, not interested in another lady, despite how endowed the other girl in the street maybe, his woman is okay for him. 5) Appreciate her in everything she does, and also encourages her when things go wrong. 6) He will hardly keep records of her faults, and he is not ready to use her past against her. Not that he doesn't care about her faults but because he feels that the future with her is greater than their past life. |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:27am On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:As you are forming your 'hard to catch' now, so I start forming my 'bad at chasing', you now wanna radio the UN. Haba! |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 9:30am On Aug 10, 2019 |
nisai: No, I like the role of the jilted lover much better. It makes me feel like a delicate flower *Shakespearean sob* 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:33am On Aug 10, 2019 |
BabbanBura:Thank you Xhosanostra do you know him? I may summon the thunder! 1 Like |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:36am On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: 1 Like
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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 9:37am On Aug 10, 2019 |
nisai: Hahaha. He's your new replacement since you publicly disowned me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 9:37am On Aug 10, 2019 |
[quote author=nisai post=81118977][/quote] 1 Like |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:39am On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Who? Me? Disown you? I think you are mistaken 1 Like
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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:44am On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Now tell me you love me so I can be at ease. Stop being stingy to distributing love now 1 Like |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by nisai: 9:45am On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:I am listening 1 Like
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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 11:37am On Aug 10, 2019 |
nisai: Lol, let me sleep on that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by Login12: 12:10pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:I'll just want to say I'm impressed 1 Like |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 12:11pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
Login12: Thanks |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by Login12: 12:29pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Your welcome of the truth I can't remember the last time I read a well thought out comment like this on this forum 1 Like |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 12:30pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
Login12: Really? I don't think that's true lol. |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by Login12: 12:32pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Lol why would I want to play with my words when I don't mean what I say? My words my bond |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 12:34pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
Login12: That's good to know, but you're wrong |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by Login12: 12:35pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by XhosaNostra(f): 12:40pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
Login12: On your observation, but let's not spoil the fun with technicalities now, I'll take it
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Re: The 5 Things You Can Use To Tell A Serious & Good Man by Login12: 12:48pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Rock it cos you earned it lol 1 Like |
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