Seekers:

And according to wat she said,she had d guy's 1st boy wit 4gels already, can u see now dat gels re more dan guys.if dat boy won marry n he marry one,d remainin 3gels nko?no prob wit havin more but no1 woman want so but ve no choice, ROGer daT

George_D:

theblessed,

you'd do well toning down on your anger. contrary to what you think, there a lot of way lot many people here that can do something about your screaming posts. besides 'helping' you modify them (without your consent) they can equally deny you the opportunity of posting any thing at all - even a font as small as one pixel! have you ever logged on to your beloved nairaland eager to reply to a post only to see one small red box at the top of the page saying "theblessed, you have lost your posting privileges: reason, for posting a message that appears to be sp*am. if this is a mistake we are sorry about this" ? then you go along for about a whole week unable to post anything only to read other member's contributions until your posting privileges are restored?

i'm sure you understand what i'm trying to say in many words? bottomline, relax!

So, what you'd just written above had once happened to you, hasn't it? Good, then!

Because of your nasty misbehaviour on innocent people here, you got punished by restricting your posts, that's fair! I wish they do so a lot more to trouble makers like and your kind on here.  

A least, that would make you and your kind think a bit but I don't think it would completely eradicate that 'bulling and threatening' attitude in you lot else, you won't be here attacking someone who had been minding her own business and done you no wrong - can you now see, it's your problem, not mine.

I come on here just as everyone does, minding my own business and, do my thing.  Commenting on things I find interesting just as everyone does - so what's the 'HECK'

You see, you got the problem, I wrote the essay, I chose my font size, I chose the colour I want it to carry, I designed and decorated it the way I want it because, that's my style - not yours.  Gorit!!!

We all have choices so, go make yours and stop nursing petty jealousies about people you DO NOT KNOW!   

Look, you are here implying that I get banned and for what reasons, I ask?? Why? Because, I wrote my essays using my own choice of colour and font size, that's all!  So, I should be banned

Hmmmm! Smells, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy and jealousy, can't you smell it? If you can't read my work, just PASSSSSSSS! That's a civil behaviour, don't you reckon

Obviously, if Nairaland bans me, that would make you and your kind on here a bit happy wouldn't it? Well, Nairaland has got intelligent people monitoring everything, everyone does here and they won't appease you and your kind on here so, BAAAACCCCKKKK OOOOFFFF!

And let me tell you, for 3 reasons you will be defeated:

a) You are an insinuator, a trouble maker and a jealous git - your petty jealousy won't get you anywhere, gorit!!

b) I have not done any thing wrong or extra ordinary warranting banning on here and I challenge you to point at it!!!

c) When on here I mind my own business even on the face of provocations from GITS, like you.


So now, go get a 'Life' and shut up for ever!!!! Tell your kind also!

You shot me first, then wait to be splaaaaaaaaaashed!

ladej:

God bless you

aysometin:

To those ladies supporting her, get married first and see how easy the thought of your hubby having a girlfirend feels. Not to talk of a second wife that goes on to give birth to the only son. Common we are all human.

His mother being a Cameroonian woman wants all of her sons to uphold the tradition how can i fight that with respect to her and my love for her son?

Bintu16:

is it a crime to be a 2nd wife?

kokoye:

In this day and age. Yes it is.

Go find urs.

If you become a 2nd wife, you have automtically create enemies for yourself and your children without knowing it.

kemisuga:

Some gurls are very good at crucifying anoda without checking out themselves first.

It is her destiny to be a 2nd wife. Whoever is not please with it should go and hug a burning tanker.

kokoye:

In this day and age. Yes it is.

Go find urs.

If you become a 2nd wife, you have automtically create enemies for yourself and your children without knowing it.

bawomolo:

destiny, God's fate to be a 2nd wife? that's one strange destiny.

true

Dr Know:

To all of you condemning this lovely lady who has found love and blessed with a baby boy; you are all hypocrites from bleeding polygamous homes whose mothers are third or fourth wives. You should have rebuked your mothers first before all these tirades against Mercy. How many of you have been dating married men for years with series of abortions and wrecked marriages without getting hooked. You should first criticise the african culture that allows polygamy before blaming the innocent woman

bee-y:

the west preaches monogamy but practise divorce. they have more single parents over there.

tunnytox:

My thought exactly monogamy is not even working in the west and their idea of women on top all the time coated with equality bullshit is destroying family life, Imagine my neighbour here a very friendly lady married to a very cool headed family man (you would have thought they had a very good relationship) but few months ago the wife sent the man packing, her excuse is that the man don't help her enough in doing house chores! This woman doesn't work but her husband is working and I've seen him many times trying his best for his 2 beautiful girls and wife but a typical western orientated woman will never be satisfied, its a me me me me attitude and that's why many of them end up alone and miserable toward the end of their lifes.

Missy ★ B:

The important thing is the 'stolen' husband and how the Known wife feels about it.
Would I be right to say you defend polygamy because your boyfriend is likely to become polygamous and, since you 'Love' him and wouldn't want to leave, you've accepted it because of the ''I have no choice' mentality.

It's about time women began to know their worth. If it's not what you want, you musn't settle for it.

Mukina -  I warn you. Do not modify the thread title. I send you?

Both yours and my ancestors practiced this resulting in generations that would give life to us both so to "scorn" the idea is indeed ironic.

His mother being a Cameroonian woman wants all of her sons to uphold the tradition how can i fight that with respect to her and my love for her son?