Temmygold600:
Hi people
I opened this acct cuz I need advice

I have a boyfriend who is 8 years older than me
We both love each other but the problem is he insults me anytime we have a misunderstanding and he always threaten to hurt me but yet am always the one to beg for forgiveness.

This has happened a lot of times and we had another fight again and he called me stupid and prostitute and promised to hurt me as usual and he did .he called my dad and told him am a prostitute,, something have never done in my life my.. and he told my dad all sort of things.we broke up and I decided not to beg this time cuz I was hurt..
During the break up I met another guy tho I knew this guy before and I friend zoned him for a year.i decided to give him a chance..he is really nice and caring and doesn't insult me whenever we quarrel but I didn't love him like my ex.

I missed my ex bf and I felt incomplete without him.but this guy is always busy and doesn't have my time much or maybe that's just my excuse... later I called my ex and we got talking again, we got back together but I didn't know how to tell the other guy.he later found out that I got back with my ex but he wasn't angry instead he begged me to choose him or date both of them and told me he would wait for me whenever am done with my ex.i told him to leave me alone and broke up with him but he told me we should be friends again.
But recently I had another fight with my ex turned boyfriend again and he insulted me and called me a bastard.. he told me never to call him again.i had to beg and beg before he forgives me again and now I think I should just let him go now cuz I don't want to get hurt anymore.
But I still have doubts about leaving him cuz I would feel incomplete again.we have been through a lot together and I know all his family and vice versa .
Should I let him go and face my studies and graduate before thinking of relationship again cuz am still very young ,am only 21 and he is 29
I don't want to spend my life with this kind of person
OR
Should I give the other guy a chance again and move on cuz I can't seem to forget my ex anytime I try to .
Please advice me on what to do
Thanks

nuelsam:
Nice guys........ Shey una don see una life outside now?

Temmygold600:


Am not a fool and I know what I want.
The fact that I don't have feelings for someone doesn't mean I have to force myself whether he is nice or not.
Am not allergic to mistakes.

pocohantas:


No dear, please don't give him a chance. His wife is somewhere and the good news is, she has sense-something you don't have.

Also, don't forget the password to this account. You might be needing it to create another thread in family section in 2021 or thereabout.