After two years she's not physically attractive but everytime u with her u tell her she's d best thing that happened to u.....humans are too deceitful

You are yet to be AA man

just wait till she gains admission, you will see the slaying part of her.
Uni. has a way of changing ladies.

Actually, you would be the jilted lover once she gets in school and toosh up. Indi jakujaku!

Love Yours Bro.
There's Nothing Like A Girl Better Than Yours... She Got A Good Heart, She Loves U Too Don't U Want Someone That Loves U Instead?? I Know Your Feelings Matter Too Maybe U Never Loved Her From The Start.. How Can U be Ashamed of Showing Her Off?? that's too Sad...

Until u marry slay mama olosho ur body go tell u

roock:
Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

you don't love her, I think you're more interested in her being a virgin. Let her go.. You don't deserve her

When another guy put money for that place, ur eye go clear.

You obviously don't love her, just tell her your mind and let her go.

MJBOLT:

"she is still a virgin......."

he didn't even confirm the authenticity of the virginity. Chei.

roock:
Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

I usually thought someone at 32 would know what to pick in a lady to settle down, she has all good qualities except looks. Person like you go end with Tonto Dikeh Las Las if you are *looking at looks*.

What did you intend to do before posting on NL?

After 2 years of dating, you still don't know what to do?


You're probably her first boyfriend and she feels attached to you. Just wait let her gain admission before you conclude anything. As they say, school life changes some people.

roock:
Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

OP MY OWN OPINION. PAY HER BRIDE PRICE BEFORE SHE GOES TO SCHOOL. WILL YOU BE PART OF HER SPONSORSHIP DURING THE EDUCATION PERIOD? IF YES PAY HER BRIDE PRICE IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HER. I BET YOU AS SOON AS SHE GETS INTO SCHOOL, YOU WILL BE FORGONE. HER EYES WILL BE OPEN TO THE OUTSIDE WORLD AND SHE WILL DO WHATEVER SHE LIKES AND YOU WILL. BE ON THE LOSING PART COS SHE WILL BE COLLECTING MONEY FROM YOU AND HAVE A SCHOOL GUY WHO WILL BE BLEEPING HER. AND AGAIN IF SHE GO SCHOOL AND ASK YOU TO WAIT TILL SHE GRADUATES BEFORE YOU MARRY HER, BY THEN YOU WILL BE CLOCKING ALMOST 40.. OR 39 AND WHICH IS NOT IDEAL. NOW COME TO THE ISSUE OF NOT BEING ATTRACTIVE TO YOUR EYES, WERE YOU BLIND BEFORE YOU APPROACHED HER? IF YOU KNOW YOU DON'T LOVE HER BETTER TELL HER NOW, NOT WHEN SHE DON GET ADMISSION, YOU GO CON BREAK HER HEART, BECAUSE IF SHE IS THE TRUE TYPE YOU MENTIONED (PRAYERFUL AND SPIRITUAL) SHE MIGHT BE TRAUMATISED DUE TO HEART BREAK

Oop u no get sense o, you how do u want her to look when she dedicate her self to you and still a virgin? It's obvious u ain't spending on her and getting her things that will make her look the way u desire, Leave that girl and two years later u will regret u did, by the time another sharp guy coloby her and clean her up ya eyes go clear , and who even tell u she likes the way u look either, dude u don't sound like a matured person, we are perfect in our imperfection. Take it to the bank

btw gimme her number lemme ask her somethiñg , we need to hear her side not the story

U don't love her ....u don't deserve.... So...Mr. OP. Set m free .....let her find a better Patner.....
When u stop attaching.... Things to facial beauty alone, only then ....u will find tranquility. U just listed her qualities.....up there...n u wanna let go of the for beautiful looks that's temporal. Definitely ....if u end up marrying miss world sef....ur love will fade when her beauty fades ....
M not convincing u into marrying her ....infact aw will b glad u breakup with the innocent lady ....
She deserves better .....

Oga op..... U don't deserve her ! So y stay with her?
Only when u stop attaching things to facial beauty ....only then will u find tranquility. It's shows ur kind of man .....even if u end up with miss universe, ur love will definitely.... Fade when her beauty fades ....cos the sad truth is, women beauty wanes as we age .....
U listed her qualities above. These qualities that men crave for ....
Not convincing u into keeping her ....infact aw b glad if u don't wake up until u are tot a lesson....
I wish u dump her for a deserving one .....
She deserves d best

Guy.... how can you even start ... let alone be in a relationship with someone you are ashamed of?.... and be considering marriage?... is it just you, she and the priest would lock up in the confession booth for the vows? Leave these 20 year old girls to sort themselves out. You... in your words... have one more year to find a wife.... leave this one alone ... go out in the world ... grab one that looks pretty in your eyes.... and rush herfor Mama's approval... then move on with your life... for better or for worse.

Don't marry her, let her go. She's too precious to be a pearl casted on swine.

Go look for your Beyonce...

ubunja:
then they'll take her

I've seen this play out over and over a million times

my man

I don't understand where you blind when you where toasting her. Oga behave

IamPlato:
You Must Be Stupid For Saying She Is Not Beautiful Enough...

Did You Put Saliva In Your Eyes When Toasting her

OMG, hahahaha

roock:
Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

Consider all the good qualities you mentioned about her and change your mindset

If you miss her you might get someone you like her appearance but hate her attitudes

The choice is yours

Cos of the rubbish on your mind..... ur English is so poor and wacko

dnawah:
na the reason why she is still a virgin.beautifull woman na very big problem, this one na ur own only you.but wait o.u no tell us about her access,she carry am?

I have severally talked about this thing about age difference between couples



It’s easier to be a 50 year old man with a 30 year old lady.... she’s fully developed in stature and mind despite the gap she will be able to make the man happy


Not the same for a 30 year old man and a 20 year old lady
At 20 she never start Dey grow cos age has like 5 years for the beauty to radiate fully.....
My point is op abeg go find ur mate cos this girl has 5 more years to settle and balance to life.

roock:
Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

I already have the answer

excessmon:
Cos of the rubbish on your mind..... ur English is so poor and wacko

Yahoo Yahoo efcc go get you be4 this month ends.i am far better than your president, since u don't no the difference between English and broken.

Show ur certificate let’s see how better you are.......if my president is like you I bet I’m gonna leave this country for animals

dnawah:
Yahoo Yahoo efcc go get you be4 this month ends.i am far better than your president, since u don't no the difference between English and broken.

If you can not post her pic here then vamoose
Nonsense and ingredients

IamPlato:
You Must Be Stupid For Saying She Is Not Beautiful Enough...

Did You Put Saliva In Your Eyes When Toasting her

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I wonder oo... And again when he said "not beautiful enough" is it just facials or she doesn't dress well.. If it's facials a little brown powder wouldn't hurt ... Something can be done about it ..

It's not fair to string her along.

As for her beauty it Jack thereof, she is beautiful, you're just blind to it.

I agree with her dad and weight want her to marry before she finishes school.

Given that you want to marry within a year, I suggest you break up. You never know tomorrow, if you stay with her, she might go to school and meet someone else. Someone closer to her age and it would be you who had wasted time.