victorian:








You even have patience to wait til 10 months before requesting for money and he refused can u imagine?

If u tell him to wait 10months before he have sex with you? Won't he run?

Las Las he still behaved like the scum, he is.

Anyways my own is I'm celibate, you can keep your money if u don't want to spend and don't expect me to spend either. Let's see where the selfishness and stinginess will lead us to.

cooooooks:
Na there you Bleep up. Maturity is not by age.

There's a 29 year old friend I had who Always asked for money and mismanaged her own money too. The last time I told her that she creates her own money issues herself, she took offence.

On the other hand, her 19 year old friend that I talk to almost never asks for money. Will call you first, brought food for me when I was sick, etc. The only money issues she has had have been in relation to school.

Age is a number guys.

Zinny25:
I get him things, Cook in my house and take to him. The cost of transportation from my house to his is #600, I see him often, I have never asked for transportation fare. I go to fast food get him things whenever I wanna visit. what I'm saying in essence is that guys can never be pleased,u ask them for money they call you golddigger,u don't but instead give them they say u r too desperate.

I don't go into relationship for monetary gains, I'm very ok,at least I'm contented with what I have, that's why I keep working hard,next time get your facts straight about me before coming to my comment to rant

victorian:






Don't mind me, I'm soft today

JONNYSPUTE:
.. So giving her a little token for tp is now seen as introducing money so early? And if he didn't give,its another issue. Let me even tell you that the girl declined the initial 1k was because she felt disappointed with the amount and her thought already was that the op is stingy or maybe broke,the reason she never went to visit him as earlier promised. If the op has given her substantial amount,she would ve visited him even more than once,in fact the op would have being the one pleading with her to stop visiting.And for her asking for 5k later justifies my stand. Take it or leave it.

victorian:








You even have patience to wait til 10 months before requesting for money and he refused can u imagine?

If u tell him to wait 10months before he have sex with you? Won't he run?

Las Las he still behaved like the scum, he is.

Anyways my own is I'm celibate, you can keep your money if u don't want to spend and don't expect me to spend either. Let's see where the selfishness and stinginess will lead us to.

DrObiHogan:
you know nothing about women.

ericsmith:





you don't av to accept or listen buh xhosa is right on these one.. @least before you start spending on a lady, espec. one you'll luv 2 marry its important to know if she loves you or not.

niceguy555:


You are very very correct with your submission. All you said is true. We reason in same direction

XhosaNostra:


Definitely not that early. Why would you be giving away money to someone you don't even know that well? She could be living with another guy for all we know & OP is over there volunteering his services as "Minister of Finance", as foolish men are often referred to by these gold digging women. No part of their meeting deserves a monetary handshake is all I'm saying. He's the problem here, not her.

united442:


i burst laugh when i read this

o.p abeg settle down look for wife oh, this ur strategy of finding a wife is very funny

hahahahahaha

bcux of 1k o.p say him done see wife
Me too

i wonder the kind of shock you received when she asked you for 5k

atleast o.p, u still get sense.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. So giving her a little token for tp is now seen as introducing money so early? And if he didn't give,its another issue. Let me even tell you that the girl declined the initial 1k was because she felt disappointed with the amount and her thought already was that the op is stingy or maybe broke,the reason she never went to visit him as earlier promised. If the op has given her substantial amount,she would ve visited him even more than once,in fact the op would have being the one pleading with her to stop visiting.And for her asking for 5k later justifies my stand. Take it or leave it.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. So the 1k tfare that she did not collecect shows she love the op abi?.If such is the case,why did she later asked for 5k?

XhosaNostra:


And the only way to change the entitlement is by not giving "tokens" to people for basically doing the same thing you're also doing. Which part of what I'm saying is not sinking in? If I was a man, a woman would have to breakdance before getting a cent out of me. You guys are just too desperate. You create these dilemmas yourselves.

ericsmith:


Did mention anything related to 1k, collecting the money or not means nothing here, my points remains men should stop using money as bait if @ some point they will come out to complain.

Davash222:

So, you’re saying it’s wrong to give women money But, you girls keep saying black men are stingy??Because he offered her money is now a yardstick for her to show her oloshoism

imitateMe:

You don't understand naija girls
They are hissing at you now

Zinny25:
I don't understand guys.... I dated one like that for one year and through out the relationship I never asked for a dime because I don't know how to, moreover I'm employed and he never even gave me #100 recharge card not to talk of giving me money. I had a pressing need at a time this should be after 10months of dating, I reluctantly asked him to borrow me some money, I knew the courage it took me to open my mouth to ask him,and he refused. In his little mind he's wise,no girl can eat his money...Guys are scum

victorian:








You even have patience to wait til 10 months before requesting for money and he refused can u imagine?

If u tell him to wait 10months before he have sex with you? Won't he run?

Las Las he still behaved like the scum, he is.

Anyways my own is I'm celibate, you can keep your money if u don't want to spend and don't expect me to spend either. Let's see where the selfishness and stinginess will lead us to.

goodman41:
I got to know this girl through facebook, a 21 year old IMT student. After chatting like 3 month i invited her but she refused to come but asked me to come to Enugu to see her which i went on getting to Enugu i asked her to come to holy ghost catholic church compound to see me on hearing this she shouted "church kwa" i said yes maybe she wanted a hotel. I waited before she now came to holy ghost, we talked and liked each other when i wanted to go i gave her N1000 for her T fare back to her hostel but she refused that she don't need my money that she is the one that sopposed to entertain me. I was happy that i have found a wife, before i left she promised to visit me after her exams but after her exam she didn't come she keeps promising and failing one day she texted me that she needed N5k to make up with her house rent i laughed and texted her that i am disapointed from her for making me looke like a mugu/maga. Girls i cant understand u guys now am still looking for a good wife.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Ok,sorry. What about in this context? Will you also blame the op?.

ericsmith:



yeah !! i blame d OP for starting what he could not finish, also he concluded to fast.
who knows maybe OP don over hyped himself,
probably the gurl wan weigh am buh 5k not too much naw , alaye japaa

JONNYSPUTE:
... Hahahahahaha. Op pick race walahi.

ericsmith:



buh the earlier she ask for money the faster your chances to straff her ... e go just be like say d chick wake up d real me, miss celibate wey dey ask 4 money naa her papa go give am las las

JONNYSPUTE:
.. So giving her a little token for tp is now seen as introducing money so early? And if he didn't give,its another issue. Let me even tell you that the girl declined the initial 1k was because she felt disappointed with the amount and her thought already was that the op is stingy or maybe broke,the reason she never went to visit him as earlier promised. If the op has given her substantial amount,she would ve visited him even more than once,in fact the op would have being the one pleading with her to stop visiting.And for her asking for 5k later justifies my stand. Take it or leave it.

cooooooks:
Are you calling Zinny25 a prostitute? ?

Why are you equating money to sex? That sounds like the definition of prostitution.

Ryan03:
lol, sometimes you can be crazy but I like you

Martinez39:
Lol. I don't blame you, I blame society and the media for distorting reality and encouraging a strong sense of entitlement that defies personal boundaries. A boyfriend is not a husband and a girlfriend is not a wife. As a girlfriend, you don't owe it to your boyfriend to cook for him except if he demanded and you agreed. Her boyfriend didn't force her on gun point against her will. Even at that, cooking for him doesn't mean he owes her anything.

The girl either made up the story or is incredibly exaggerating her true story. How will you give a naija guy money and he will call you desperate? Helping a naija guy with cash even builds your reputation in his eyes because he will think you have the money and therefore you are no dating him for the money. Also, since you are not stingy, you then become wife material.

Her story is either made up or exaggerated. After such loyalty and services rendered to a naija guy, he will deny you cash when you are in need? His wife material? Abegi.

ericsmith:




The way you women use d word celibate @times just crack me up, did you read how linda ikeji spent the last days of her sisterhood, after all the her celibacy sermons
where is she today,las las she hunted for a dvck.
I know u are not a V, probably ur bad xperience must av led you to the decision but ma' with or without ur pvssy d world will rotate ... sex is not the problem, you need to look inward, what makes a woman or man indisposable are potentials people see ... you believe too much in ur independence gudluck

Tersorio:

You are definitely not in naija.

victorian:














Have u taken your meds today?


Are u OK upstairs?

Zinny25:
I get him things, Cook in my house and take to him. The cost of transportation from my house to his is #600, I see him often, I have never asked for transportation fare. I go to fast food get him things whenever I wanna visit. what I'm saying in essence is that guys can never be pleased,u ask them for money they call you golddigger,u don't but instead give them they say u r too desperate.

I don't go into relationship for monetary gains, I'm very ok,at least I'm contented with what I have, that's why I keep working hard,next time get your facts straight about me before coming to my comment to rant