MJBOLT:

next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.

MJBOLT:

next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.

MJBOLT:

next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.

XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.

blazepascal:
hmmm thanks for your contribution the funny part again is that i wooed her in front of her mom her mom didnt even say anything boys are always flocking around her and her mom would remain speechless so if shes demanding alot from me her parent would even not mind to know where she got those thing.

XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.

MariaLavina:
Sometimes I wonder how you lots reason, upon all the brown yellow pink green pills you have been swallowing on Nl you still never heal.Your mumuness just dey skyrocket every day. Hain!

So you saw a girl, a beautiful one and automatically your brain and diick switched functions. Must you approach every beautiful lady you see immediately? I mean where's your value? Your pride? Your brain? How about turning the situation other way round for once?! is there a crime if she appreciates you?


Most of you are the cause of your predicaments because you belittle yourselves by chasing after any thing in skirts.Please be valuable, ladies love men who aren't easy to get.

luminouz:


Rushing to SA to pick a wife.

luminouz:

Easy tigress!!!
It's Sunday,you know

MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason ,why they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking their mistakes.



Nonsense!

XhosaNostra:


Not a South African culture, but Xhosa culture lol. We're NOT perfect though. Apparently we're too bossy

MJBOLT:

IT IS BETTER IF A GIRL CALL YOU A STINGY GUY THAN MAGA/MUGU.

MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

luminouz:

Oh, A Xhosa babe then.
Too bossy? If you see my muscles, you will prefer being bossed!

MariaLavina:
Sometimes I wonder how you lots reason, upon all the brown yellow pink green pills you have been swallowing on Nl you still never heal.Your mumuness just dey skyrocket every day. Hain!

So you saw a girl, a beautiful one and automatically your brain and diick switched functions. Must you approach every beautiful lady you see immediately? I mean where's your value? Your pride? Your brain? How about turning the situation other way round for once?! is there a crime if she appreciates you?


Most of you are the cause of your predicaments because you belittle yourselves by chasing after any thing in skirts.Please be valuable, ladies love men who aren't easy to get.

AstroG:
GUYS TAKE NOTE OF THIS

MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.

blazepascal:
so i cant approach girls again reason well joor

MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

Skmoda360:

You are talking like this because you are a southie, go and ask your naija counterparts, you will understand. ....they have entitlement spirit.

XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.

MannieA:




I am a Naija girl and I was brought up here. My upbringing was really strict and proper. My mum knew everything she bought for us and would question us if she finds out we bought something new that she doesn't know about from our savings. We weren't allowed to collect anything from strangers.
It is good to be disciplined. I'm going to give my children a proper and disciplined upbringing.

Please don't assume that every girl in naija has an improper upbringing. I have lots of female friends with proper upbringing!

Skmoda360:

I wasn't talking to you.....that's how all naija girls dey talk.... entitlement spirit ti take over....let XhosaNostra reply me.