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Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by DateMynd44(m): 4:58pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
hi guys! I'm typing this write up with sifia pains in my heart. I'm a Penultimate Student in one of the varsities in the South, there's this Young Lady (23 years of age) that has been having issues with her admission process, she sought for admission since 2015 till date and all her efforts to be admitted into the university has been abortive and futile. She has been applying for Mass Communication which we all know is competitive but at the end her postutme aggregates doesn't meet up with the required cut off mark needed for the course. So this year I played a brotherly and fatherly role in her admission process after I realized that age is no longer on her side, I advised her to take Linguistics as the course is less competitive and I even had to use my elder sister as a reference point as she studied the course and graduated with a 2:1 and today so far by God's grace she's working, earning very well and deem fit to be among those that has been successful in life. so after I counseled her and she obliged I now took the task of tutoring her in her 4 UTME subjects at the detriment of my own academics and study time table as I counted it a sacrifice all because I wanted her to be admitted and I even bought textbooks and taught her and explained many topics to her, highest she ever had during those years of her seeking admission has always been 210. So this year's UTME after my tutorials she finally scored 250, I also did same strategy in her postutme and she nailed 70% and her aggregate fell at 66 which is still not enough for Mass Communication as it was pegged at 72%. Now the crux of the matter is that she has been admitted into the linguistics but can u imagine this girl has never appreciated me nor even thanked me for assisting her and contributing to her admission success?? This girl had the nerve to send me a voice note on WhatsApp, and in the voice note she shouted and raised her voice and accused me of spoiling her career, that she told her sister that a certain guy (me) wrongly advised her to chose the course. This girl gave her sister the phone and she called me and yelled at me for misdirecting her sister to a "stupid and useless Course" This girl I helped now called me and told me that her family is already made because they all studied professional courses, her dad is an accountant, her mom is a medical doctor, her two sisters, one is a nurse, the other is an accountant while the brother is a lawyer and the other one studied Petroleum Engineering and working with Chevron. So because of my advise she has now become a disgrace to the family that she regret Knowing me that she would have been admitted this year into mass com, so I have spoilt her career because I myself too I'm studying a useless course (Environmental Management) Guys why are girls like this? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Nobody: 5:02pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
She is still a kid I guess, give her distance for now . She will later realize her mistake and value your effort. But on a general note I have notice that Nigerian ladies sees assistance from the male counterpart as their right. They believe if you don’t do it for them other guys will. Op your reward is in heaven . But yours is even fair compare to mine. Reminiscing my university days, I wrote a tough maths course for a friend of mine, usually I charge 10k to write for anybody. At the end of it all this babe come Dey feel herself like say nah one queen.she could’nt even thank me even after she saw her result(B) . Although I noticed she was trying to give me green light for me to chop the kpekus but that was not my thing . My pain was that I could have made more than 40k from other guys that was disturbing me but I foolishly fell for friendship(she was my reading partner) 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by IAM99: 5:03pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Life lessons... [color=#990000][/color] 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Retrography(m): 5:04pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Baba no vex.... It looks like what we call misguided helpfulness to her. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Nobody: 5:07pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Ed12(m): 5:08pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
BRB |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:09pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
You should have stayed on your lane.... Anything pertaining career, I swear I no dey chuk mouth..... lesson learnt 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Nobody: 5:10pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
it wasnt your fault. But now at times one should take time advising cause when it goes wrong you'll be blamed alone. except orphans, widows, beggers that is. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Nobody: 5:11pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss:Exactly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Nobody: 5:11pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
LillyVal:why you angry?? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by gerizzim: 5:12pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
pls don't be in sifia pains. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by carter009(m): 5:15pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Too bad... |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by drmikeadams(m): 5:15pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
. U still dey play brotherly and fatherly roleto Nigerian girls 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by carter009(m): 5:15pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Your right. Blackivy27: |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Kingosytex(m): 5:16pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Guy, you just have to accept your fate. Most people pay good with evil, it is a fact. Each time you help someone just take it as one of those sacrifices that one has to make in life, never expect to be rewarded or appreciated because you might be disappointed. Sorry about your predicament. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by carter009(m): 5:20pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
They worst is that most girls don't appreciate anything good from a guy, they will always choose to pay him back with evil. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Nobody: 5:22pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
carter009:Thanks. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by luvyaself95(m): 6:36pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
For you feeling this way i wonder you might not be Nigerian
you help Nigeria girls they won't appreciate they are ingrate... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Lamanii22(f): 6:37pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
DateMynd44:. She is indeed ungrateful... People can be ungrateful not just Nigerian girls... People can really be ungrateful .. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Alwaysking: 8:18pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
This is why you shouldn't help a Nigerian girl, 95% of them are ungrateful and pompous, and it's not like they have anything. 16 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by AstroG: 8:25pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Nigerian Girls are the most UNGRATEFUL HUMAN BEINGS ON EARTH... That's why ah don't help any, Even if say u dy die,ah won't look ur way.. Unless u payback in kind. SIMPLE!!!!!! Lamanii22: 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by damtan(m): 9:05pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
She'll end up looking for you to appreciate you later on Forget it and keep your fingers crossed 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by don4real18(m): 9:33pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by dingbang(m): 10:27pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
When you see them, run away. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Ayomideen(m): 11:35pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Damn! Sorry bro I feel your pain |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by Problemkid1: 12:03am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Alwaysking:@The last bolded? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by DateMynd44(m): 12:08am On Aug 22, 2019 |
drmikeadams:I just wanted to be seen as a nice guy 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by DateMynd44(m): 12:10am On Aug 22, 2019 |
luvyaself95:seriously. that's why I pity guys who invest In a girl they're are yet to get married to |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by DateMynd44(m): 12:11am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Alwaysking:worst of it all they don't have anything to offer. I really pity guys who invest Ina girl they're yet to get married to |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by nuggarito: 12:17am On Aug 22, 2019 |
I really don't blame her, I blame you. The way guys are now loosing their worth ehh. How can you assist a girl you've not married to the point of helping her make a decision. Nigerian girls are seen as leeches, the suck your blood and destiny leave you hanging. Quote me, she will come back but only on one condition which is you assisting her in other things, if you refuse she will play the victim card, that is what Nigerian biches do. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by drmikeadams(m): 12:23am On Aug 22, 2019 |
DateMynd44:bro Download this song by snoop dogg titled "it wasnt your fault",,/ Listen to the lyrics 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Ungrateful by drmikeadams(m): 12:25am On Aug 22, 2019 |
nuggarito: u sabi them.... |
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