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Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by kense88: 12:24pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
immortalityk:Would u allow ur daughter to marry 22 year old ss |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by ABCthings: 12:25pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
muyiwaadekunle1:Guy, it all about simple understanding. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Authority1o1(m): 12:25pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
kittykollinxx:It more like a contract.when,God forbid, the boy leaves,the girl will remarry. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by cenaman(m): 12:25pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
CeeJay9ja:What is destined to happen must surely happen no matter how cautious u are. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:26pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
freecocoa:That is the African mentality. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by ednut1(m): 12:26pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Edusouls:even is she msrry AA she can still be a widow. If both parties are fine with it no big deal |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by ednut1(m): 12:27pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
kense88:so SS should not marry?? |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by skukimania(f): 12:27pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
immortalityk: You will support the parent until the wife-to-be happens to be your sister or daughter. Whatever happens to surrogacy! They can find a surrogate mother to carry the pregnancy for him. After all, replacement is all they need. They don't care about the life of the so-called wife, who will be very young too. That's selfishness! 5 Likes |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by CeeJay9ja(m): 12:28pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
cenaman:You can make your own destiny too 2 Likes |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by osazsky(m): 12:28pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LoJ:if d parents are wealthy what is stopping them from doing a serrogate must they destroy d poor girls life,I know of someone who followed this same part in Benin and it didn't end well d guy died while walking till date no one else remarried d girl after 3 kids she was 24 when her husband died she is 46 now cant allow my daughter fall for this scam no matter how much 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by CeeJay9ja(m): 12:29pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
ednut1:That was not the question |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:29pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
ABCthings:I am an only son and never let that stupid pressure get to me. I made sure I finished my education up to masters level and was comfortable enough before I got married. I have 3 kids now and though mum is late now, she met two of those kids and she was proud of me. Sickle cell doesn't define us. And please don't play god to someone living with sickle cell. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Nobody: 12:31pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
marlow1962: He did not create himself but the parents knew what they signed up for before they got married unless they were both stark illiterates and that's why they're trying to have an offspring of him . I have a 27yr old AS genotype friend who's towing this same path with an AS genotype girlfriend and they're about walking down the aisle but no matter what you say to him , he will say Jesus Christ is in control. I believe Jesus but the Bible taught us that people perish because of lack of knowledge. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by ITbomb(m): 12:31pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Must he marry and make someone early widow. Dem for just get the willing girl to get pregnant for him, born and be paid off while the family takes the child as "replacement" in case of the obvious |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by osazsky(m): 12:33pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
ednut1:it should come from d person not d parents what happened to surrogacy if they are so desperate 22 years ago there was already genotype test why didn't d parents listen to d voice of science but love and pastors now see the trauma d boy and girl will endure cuz of stupidity of d parents I left my first love cuz of genotype issues foolish parents trying to look innocent spits 3 Likes |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:34pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
ABCthings:Please explain to me, what is the simple understanding? |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by osazsky(m): 12:35pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
muyiwaadekunle1:gbam after 22 years these fools will be looking for a 17 year old girl to destroy something dat would have been prevented indeed some Nigerians are big fools 2 Likes |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Foodforthought: 12:36pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
SafetyFirst:Being a widow isn't a curse Sir. It's not destiny being tied down. A widow is a human who still has her life to live. Don't be insensitive Sir |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Emmasnoop(m): 12:39pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Ok i Don hear |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:39pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
osazsky:Exactly. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by silent10(m): 12:39pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
CeeJay9ja:I hope this is not the case. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by osazsky(m): 12:39pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
ednut1:these are the type that will first run for thier dear life if they hear that 3 days to thier marriage thier partner is HIV positive or ss but Ms then make mouth pass online and they will nerver allow thier daughter do same 1 Like |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Lionrevolt: 12:40pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Wow |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by ednut1(m): 12:41pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
osazsky:people marry old men for money too and no love. Baba leave story |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by SamOyovwi: 12:41pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
You should also try materials from powerful churches before that. God can turn any case around immortalityk: |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:43pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
ednut1:No one is saying that. But, please allow the young man make his own choices in life. SS,, is not a death sentence. I live with it and I am not regretting the choices i have made in life. 1 Like |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by olumalcolm(m): 12:43pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
That is the best they can do for the guy so long as the lady has accepted. There is a lady in my office whose elder bro jst died on monday cos he was SS and the guy was 34yrs but has no wife nor kids, i won't say he just wasted lik that but the fear of the child not having a future generation must have led them to this act. Kudos to them. Though its their fault from the on-set. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:45pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Authority1o1:And you will be to one to remarry a widow? Please speak truth to your conscience. 1 Like |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by jaxxy(m): 12:47pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
I hope this teaches people an important lesson, it is unfair to bring a child into this world with SS just because he can’t control not ur love bt ur selfish horn*y ambitions 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by shadeyinka(m): 12:50pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
kittykollinxx:Such parents are usually comfortable and can take care of their daughter in-laws and their grand children. It is actually a logical decision: the boy still has a minimum of 10 years before he can take care of himself...untill that time he is to be taken care of. |
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Abali1(m): 12:51pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
skukimania:I remember when I was being pressured to marry, immediately after my First degree. No job. Living in the family house. No money of my own. I asked my mum then, if the intended lady were to be your daughter will you advice her to go into marriage with me? That kind of lessened the pressure. Maybe I am lucky to have been able to stay alive and make my own choices. I am also grateful that I resisted their pressure then. 2 Likes |
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