If the girl is willing no qualms then...

What about the wife?

marlow1962:
Proper medicine is need.i know a man who is SS and he is 76 years old.if the guy can take care of himself he will live to marry,have kids and see he's kids grow.and please you guys should stop all this death thing.he did not create himself.

you case is one out of hundred. Risky i may say.

freecocoa:
She’s just a baby making machine, no one cares, she can go to hell.

It is really sad how people look at things from just one perspective

CeeJay9ja:


What about the poor intending widow?

she must be aware of what she coming into.

Must every trend, OP please mind your business, is 21 years old not an adult?

Remimadrid:
I support the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

because his sole purpose in life is to procreate.

CeeJay9ja:


What about the poor intending widow?

Anyone who is getting married to a SS genotype person should already be prepared to become a widow or widower... the bomb could go off anytime. Well, anyone can die anytime.

People always use their hand to draw trouble to themselves. The guy has survived all these years by the special Grace God and now human nature wants to set to torment him with death sentence.my question is, can't SS live a normal life?

Coscharis married at 19. His wife was 18.

believing everything on social media expecially NAIRALAND is bad for d health.

mayweather145:
she must be aware of what she coming into.

Or not.

They can just deceive an ignorant small girl to be the sacrificial lamb

Quite Thoughtful. AA Genotype For The Container Tho’.
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The good thing I notice in this is at least they're not allowing fornication. I meant at least he should get married first before sleeping with a lady to get 'replacement'

Wicked people looking for someone’s daughter to ruin her future, and making her a planned widow,anybody here supporting such should please present her sister first?men think they are wiser than God..

immortalityk:
I support the parents
I would do the same if it were me

You support the parents to upturn the young man's life and maybe cut short his dreams and happiness?
Do you even think marriage is a walk in the park? For how long will you support the parents to interfere in the guys marital life?
Is that 21 years old even prepared for marriage?
Before you reply, know this that I am SS and only son. I resisted any attempt by anyone to define my existence because of sickle cell.

Remimadrid:
I support the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

He does not need to be married to have a child. What about the future widow?

VillagePipu:
Coscharis married at 19. His wife was 18.

Cosmos Maduka married of his own volition. Nobody forced him.

SafetyFirst:
The family of the girl is planning to make their daughter a widow and tie her destiny down just like that.

widows can always remarry.

successmatters:
Is the man complaining?

22 years and you called him a boy?

Did you want him to be 44 years before he will marry?

Did he make the choice himself? or because he is living with sickle cell, they should just push him into an unhappy marriage?

CeeJay9ja:

What about the poor intending widow?

Does been a widow a death sentence?

Abali1:

Cosmos Maduka married of his own volition. Nobody forced him.

Of course

This is so selfish of them. So invariably they are marrying a lady to become a widow in the shortest time possible.
Imagine marrying just so that the husband will die.

Ngrtrend:


A Twitter user has alleged that a 21-year-old boy is being forced to marry because he has the SS genotype, and this has angered Twitter users.



The family of the boy allegedly fear that he may not live long due to his ailment so they have found a girl with the AA genotype and are trying to get him to marry her so he can have a child to succeed him.



A number of Twitter users condemned this action while some have said it's common in Nigeria and parents do this for young men who are only sons or have the SS genotype.
Read tweets
https://www.042hits.com/outrage-as-21-year-old-boy-is-allegedly-being-married-off-because-he-has-the-ss-genotype/

Remimadrid:
I support the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

And his parents are God that manufactures babies? What if he marries today and die tomorrow won't that be in vain? What if he can't impregnate a lady?
Have you thought about the happiness of the lady involved?

This is actually wrong! Consider the children without father, consider the woman that will suffer single parenthood.... although he never die sha he can still leave more than some healthy ones

Remimadrid:
I support the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

So how does the child (if the dying boy ever procreates) benefit him after his demise? Well, it's a selfish planet. The parents are after companions, so if he's no more, his child will replace his position in the family and be the companions to the parent.

In all of this arrangement, the dying boy has nothing to gain. The dead does not gain anything because he has children. Perhaps, I may be from another planet and thus think differently.

Anyway, I'm not against the marriage if both partners are willing to marry each other. But the "if he die" clause is obnoxious to me

Lebe30:
So thoughtful

Not thoughtful enough if you were to be the wife.

ogahope:
People always use their hand to draw trouble to themselves. The guy has survived all these years by the special Grace God and now human nature wants to set to torment him with death sentence.my question is, can't SS live a normal life?

if it were your child, will you be saying this?

cenaman:
Does been a widow a death sentence?

Are you kidding me?

Pray your sister doesn't become one at a tender age

immortalityk:
I support the parents
I would do the same if it were me

That's utter wickedness! What will happen to the young lady after the guy passed on?
Jesus Christ said true religion is caring for humanity and loving one another. James 1:27

Fake gist

Abali1:

You support the parents to upturn the young man's life and maybe cut short his dreams and happiness?
Do you even think marriage is a walk in the park? For how long will you support the parents to interfere in the guys marital life?
Is that 21 years old even prepared for marriage?
Before you reply, know this that I am SS and only son. I resisted any attempt by anyone to define my existence because of sickle cell.

wickedness! you did not even pity your parents. Hope you're not the only child.