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Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Enchantaurl(f): 12:40pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
successmatters:Not always true 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Starz825(m): 12:58pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal:LillyVAl...The way u manage people and their abusive comment still amazes me..I have noticed u..are u that gentle.... If u are ..I like u oo 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by MannieA(f): 1:04pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
I just dey laugh..... I don't like domestic violence. I also detest men who abuse women. I want to be pampered and carried like a baby!! You can scold me(in private)and correct me when I do something wrong but don't lay your hands on me. My body is too soft for that. *Sips tea* |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:36pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
AstroG: Not all women. Some of these issues stem from one's own upbringing. Example, women who grew up watching their mothers being physically abused & women with "daddy issues". It's nurture, more than it is nature. Growing up, I had two adult males in my life. One my biological father (obsessive love there ) & the other one my stepfather (would empty his pockets for me, buy me whatever I want etc ). Both loved me in different ways as already stated & have never laid one finger on me my entire life. Now I'm an adult & because I had not one but two father figures in my life, I have no confusion about how a man is supposed to act. After all, they say a father is every little girl's 1st love. Your relationship with your father in your formative years, will help shape your perception of male/female dynamics when you're much older. Mine is mostly positive & I'll be dammed if I allow someone treat me like trash because the two men that raised me didn't treat me that way. So yeah, every case is different. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by djoe21(m): 1:41pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
successmatters: Lol. You have no idea |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 1:50pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
MannieA: And what of the female counterparts who does same? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by MannieA(f): 1:52pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 1:55pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: couldn't agree more... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 1:59pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
MannieA: Lol...that's cool coming from a female. I'm an adherent believer of human equality and as such I like to treat people how I would want to be treated 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
NiRfreak: |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Well, maybe because I didn't really let things happening in Nigeria affect me o Starz825:I like you too. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
In Nigeria, not many girls can say this XhosaNostra: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Same radio progam a man called, telling the presenter how his wife beats him nelklyn: |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Pusyiter(m): 2:05pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
100% agreement but the challenge is, any man that cannot measure up with your 'father-figures' may not be acceptable by you hence, you end up looking for an ideal/perfect man like Dad that may never really exist. XhosaNostra: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by MannieA(f): 2:05pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
nelklyn: Lol I don't support evil. I can't see a woman doing something bad and I will still support what's she's doing,doesn't make sense at all. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
wikipedia catwalq: |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 2:09pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
MannieA: You are among the very few... Mostly excuses such as she's the weaker sex kicks in. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Pusyiter:True That. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:15pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: Hmmmm, that's very unfortunate. I had a very close relationship with my stepfather, in particular. We were always doing stuff together, like taking pictures etc. We also share the same birthday, so we a very close bond. That's me & him below. You can tell by my Cheshire cat grin that I was a happy child 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 2:18pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: It happens, not because the man isn't stronger but because the man actually knows he's stronger and if he retaliates it will be more damaging. I don't want to relive my experiences...crazy sh*t, real crazy sh*t, sometimes I practically avoid women because of those. Yeah I know everyone's different and all but one needs time to process certain experiences in life. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
nelklyn:Women are different. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Daddy's girl. XhosaNostra: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:23pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Pusyiter: Well that's true. I do have that issue. A different kind of daddy issues lol. However, the topic here is about some guy living his rockstar dreams through me, by beating me like a drum So not going to happen! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 2:24pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: Yeah I clearly know this 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:25pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: A big one 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by madridguy(m): 2:52pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
This thread remind me of one of my ex girl friend back then. Visited her one evening like that and when i was leaving, she called me by my name and asked me this funny question.....do you love me bla bla bla, i replied yes.....she asked further, what sort of love do you have for me that for once you've never slap me not to talk of beating me.....i replied come again, she said beating is part of love Look at her and asked her to proof it scientifically.. She said forget it but my friend ...... her boyfriend use to beat her even injured her at time, i said pls stop it. I carry okada run go house......Took me time to change her perspective on that....... I swear women are hard to please and hard to understand. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Delsa: 5:02pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
some women need to differentiate beating from love, I person who loves you will not want to see you go through pain. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Joystark(f): 7:01pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
I wonder why someone would love to be beaten... Do we also blame Fifty shades of grey for this? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Beat me and die. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by simpleAg(m): 7:32pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: I left two relationships because she said if a man truly loves a girl he has to beat her several time because women are like children and the only thing they understand is strong hand, The second one said her mom said a man that doesn’t beat his woman is not a jealous man therefore he doesn’t love her coz I father beats her mom so she see it as a sign of love. I Just can’t understand how people would believe been slapped with a slightest provocation shows love, My friend said most women likes been beaten and they require iron/strong-hand, but I believe any woman that can’t think for herself is not worth planning a future with. I would rather leave a violently disturbed relationship than engage in it, (Although I know women can provoke the hell out of you but if you can’t talk about it, walk away if she continues just leave it’s better than ...) 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Goldensword: 7:51pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
When you beat your fiancee, it imply that you don't deeply love her and you ain't afraid to loose her, so if the lady in question love you, she will try more to win your heart because deep down in her, she know that all it take to stop you from assulting her is get you to love her back, trust me when you assult a lady that is just tolerating you, she will revenge in ten folds. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 4:29am On Aug 23, 2019 |
successmatters: Yea afterwards |
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