Theblessed:

[b][size=18pt]Hey, baby just live your live and ignore these people.  Most of them have nothing going for them - they prowl on here looking for trouble/abusing people.  

Just ignore them and live your life the best you can.  After all, no one pays your bill or do they?  Come on live your life, baby! If having a baby will make you happy and fulfil your life go on and do it with or without a husband - you can't carry on waiting for Mr Right and loose your chances in life, no you can't! 

Have your children, society can talk till it drops, who cares! Millions of children the world over are born out of wedlock and who is shooting them dead?? Society will always talk whether we do good or bad and whether we like it or not!  

One thing is for sure, every child has a father whether his/her mother and father are married or not.  If we look deeper, we will even see that most children born out of wedlock turnout better in life than those born in wedlock, so don't let people stop your dreams.

If that's what you want to do go on and do it, that's my advise because, your children will always be there for you and no one else.  Just do what makes you happy that's all I can say.
 
As for Celine Dion, I am a fan and I really share in her joy and happiness of motherhood this second time round. Everyone knows, pregnancy has never smiled well on her.  

Even in her younger years, conceiving her first child was a struggle and as such, nature had to he helped and I thank God for her on this her second joy and blessing praise God, in Jesus Name, Amen! [/size][/b]

spikedcylinder:

The OP has said it herself, she expects a lot of criticism from saying what is really on her mind and I am very darn sure someone will use this against her some day on this forum. All I can say is, good luck.

spikedcylinder:

Good for Celine. Why didn't she use a surrogate though?[/color]

Zi:

Both d man and his wife agreed to go to a church that teaches a man should spank his wife. So they should abide by the rules without complaints. Who knows what such church teaches the women to do to their husbands. As 4 me, nothing will take me 2 a church with such abusive doctrine.

Ivynwa:

@Spike
You don't really have to worry about someone using this on me on this forum some day. I don't care what anybody says, I only said what is in my heart like a hungry and poor person can easily say "I am hungry and I have no money". Is it an abomination that I said it, If somebody raises it, I can only say."Yes I said that, so which prison am I getting locked up in"-----smile.

~Sissy~:

the joys of morning sickness. the kickings. and the baby bumps. physically able to carry it to terms. i guess

Arrrgh! Why will anyone want to go through that? That's one of the major reasons why I don't want children sef.

jennykadry:

^^Lol most women want to go thru all that. That is one period a woman has a good excuse of not entering the kitchen. The time the woman can get out what she has been wanting from her hubby without stress. The time a woman just wants to stand in the shower or sit in the bath whilst her hubby is busy sponging her legs and back. The time when she just sits down whilst her hubby buckles tight her sandals

The time we can eat MCdonalds burger without the man complaining of it been a fatty food , How I will love to get preggers in naija atleast I am guaranteed "nkwobi", "cat fish peppersoup" "isiewu" and palmwine everyday .

Life is good

Guyman02:

@Poster, the problem with some ladies at your age especially those from the South East like you is yourselves. At younger ages you build up a utopian idea of what an ideal husband should look and be like forgeting that no one is created perfect.
You reject prospective suitors on mundane thoughts such as oh! he is very short, he is fat, he is not rich enough, he claims to be a born again and is not a socialite etc. I have even seen ladies calling off marriage proposals because their parents said 'No you cant marry that man because he is an Osu outcast' or he is an Ofe nmanu man etc. Surprisingly, as time flies so fast, they soon get to a point where they are praying desperately for God to send them a responsible man even if he is an Osu, Ofen nmanu, Aboki at old age and they hold a lot of grievances in their hearts against their relations who cost them their best chances of havng a family at younger ages.