Mikolion87:



Life is like a game, you can hate the game all you want, but if you don't play by the rules, you lose.

Mikolion87:


I don't too bro.. The earlier you shun all these grammar and face life realistically, the nearer you'll be at finding happiness.

let me reiterate again, "There's no "romantic love" that is never conditional.

Knowing this bitter reality should make a man sit up and keep improving himself (so also the ladies too), rather than waiting for someone to accept you "unconditionally".

Thank you.

nairalandposter:


The problem common to most of you who posit with so much ego and no wisdom, is you believe you make the rules, or that you've "made it" based on some highly subjective and erratic criteria.

You don't understand winning and losing do not have only one interpretation (your own).

Ability to type in English (or on the internet) doesn't necessarily mean sense.

You'll notice I'm not bothering to explain myself in plain language, I believe sooner or later you all should arrive at the conclusion/s you're expected to know.

And if you don't meaning if you never do, well, perhaps it's not something in your fortune.

Mikolion87:


Most definitely, we both know that everyone can never follow these rules, and everyone can never be an ideal man for a woman.. I didn't make the rules, they've been there and yet, the ideal men (or women) have always been described as "few". That is to show you that this path, albeit rewarding, is never an easy path.

However, those who have toured this path (Like myself, and several others) have attested to its fruitfulness. Everyone easily falls in love with Success, Success is attractive (not necessarily a high handed level of success, but a consistent and steady growth).

All I have done is to reawaken our Consciousness to Reality.

When we become truthful to ourselves, it helps us to limit our expectations within the tenets of Reality and prepare our minds and hearts for the worst.

Life is like a game, you can hate the game all you want, but if you don't play by the rules, you lose.

LordKO:



There's something called sync (synchronization). Truth is that genuine romantic love/two people who're specially meant to be for each other are usually in sync with each other, irrespective of where/how/when they meet. The connection is usually inexplicable, so it's beyond logic as I said - spiritualism is real. Bar greed and conceit, life can be so simple and sweet for everybody.

The funny thing with people like you who've this logical and transactional mindset about romantic relationship/love is that you hardly have what it takes to compete effectively.

A man (woman) doesn't need to improve himself for the sake of finding the special person, he does because it's the right thing to do - if one needs church before doing good, he simply needs to embrace a change of ethical leanings. I hope you'll be able to connect that assertion with the matter under discussion. Lol.

Mikolion87:


You are the one who mentioned "church", I never did.. Spirituality as used in this context connotes virtues (fruits of the spirit like Kindness, Love, Humility, self-control etc).

My brother, your so-called "synchronization" will begin to suffer the moment you can't provide money for your children's school fees. Now this is reality. Realism is not an enemy, it is a genuine an empirical mirror to guide you adequately in making life's decisions.

Also, the moment you start maltreating your partner, the "synchronization" will dwindle..

Not to rule out your sense of humor, Charisma, Looking fit and healthy.... etc

To pretend that these things do not matter is to deceive oneself.

Ask yourself, would you have approached your partner if she was a dirty orange hawker without any hygiene? Be sincere... It might even take some Spiritual might to want to start something serious with such a person, but would that "synchronization" exist if she continues in the same unhygienic state?

You now see why romantic love can never be "unconditional".

And no, I'm not perfect, I have not claimed to have it all... The difference between the both us is that I take reality for what it is (whether bitter or not) and I try to continually improve myself and keep learning.. There's no end to Knowledge.

LordKO:
You've a very low IQ. Conceit is God's gift to small-minded people like you.

Bye-bye.

LordKO:


A man (woman) doesn't need to improve himself for the sake of finding the special person, he does because it's the right thing to do - if one needs church before doing good, he simply needs to embrace a change of ethical leanings. I hope you'll be able to connect that assertion with the matter under discussion. Lol.

Dagger79:

So the ladies should just relax and wait until the guys have done all the hard work, by going through all these stages you mentioned just for the them (ladies) to come and enjoy what they didn't sweat for abi

emmaodet:
Personally, i think we focus too much energies on women. How to improve yourself to get a woman, how to be rich, how to sex very well, how to be good guy with good qualities etc
It's energy draining and sickening.
Must human being be that complicated?
Why must i waste my precious time trying to impress another human?
If only, if only ladies can put in atleast 30-50% of guys energy to improve themselves and impact in there partner's relationship, we won't be where we are

Magnoliaa:


Everyone's got a fair share of expectations other people want them to live up to.
Or molds, identities they should fit into.

LordKO:



There's something called sync (synchronization). Truth is that genuine romantic love/two people who're specially meant to be for each other are usually in sync with each other, irrespective of where/how/when they meet. The connection is usually inexplicable, so it's beyond logic as I said - spiritualism is real. Bar greed and conceit, life can be so simple and sweet for everybody.