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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by dagreat4(f): 4:49pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
That's the first thing to look out for na.A guy who will not see you as a intimacy gadget.I will tell you from the onset this is what I believe n stand for and see how you tag along. Cos that will determine if d relationshop will graduate to marriage or not.I know it can be very tempting especially when u are with the one u love but that same love conquers all.We have so glorified sex to what its not such that most people eat,sleep and thinknsex all the time.If you are like that I bet u cannot be a productive person cos sex too requires energy n plenty of it at that.Me I don marry n na so i take marry. |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by IMASTEX: 4:51pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Zinny25:Yes it does exist. Personal experience. I got into a date with such promise not because I'm innocent but based on principle. And guess what?! She turned around to start begging for it. Hear her reason: She said she wanted to be sure I was for real hence the approach. Now she isn't no longer comfortable with it. She is feeling unsecure because I might be easily tempted by other girls. Secondly, she needs to bond properly with me, and she also needs to quinch her urge. Na me come begin stand for agreement na agreement oh. It is very possible for a guy to abstain, and a girl that haven't seen that, well may have attracted what they get. A man that can't hold himself will face big issues maritally. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Jhamzy:Well you are dear. So own it. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Noel1:19. Wow your a champion. Thats good. But does that make us stingy |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Pascopele:Yes o, especially if his character is exceptional and he is financially stable. Where is the man, let me date him |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by MissJoy29(f): 5:03pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
internationalman:"Says who?" |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by citruslimited(m): 5:24pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Thanks bro. May God see you through |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Jhamzy(m): 5:29pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Oiza131:While you are right, you are also wrong |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Candycrushy: me wey i don giv my life to christ, you can keep me as long as u won't crushy me ...ur candy is safe wit me 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 5:31pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
cooooooks: Follow this thread, duration doesn't matter https://www.nairaland.com/4844049/wife-doesnt-like-sex |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Donbabaj: 5:32pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
It all depends. For those that do not take spiritual things serious, sex before marriage does not count but biblically, it is wrong for Christians to have sex before marriage but this days I've come to realise that the values for sex before marriage is fast eroding as the fear of the unknown is start to creep in. Why some guys respect ladies that stood their ground not to have sex before marriage, some are of the opinion that if a lady can allow her boy friend sleep with her then she can allow any other Tom dck and harry to have their ways. Albeit, as Christians, the challenge is when two couples are dating and have the intention of getting married in future, both parties need to be open and truthful to each other, prayer is neccesary too. Couples can also consider doing fertility test before marriage. Marriage is not all about Sex. It's more than that. |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by internationalman(m): 5:46pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
MissJoy29:be serious for once |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by sexysage(m): 5:57pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Toluobaeko11: Same here bro... I'm 24 and I'm proudly a virgin. Two ladies who were my friends attempted sex with me on two different occasions but I just controlled myself and till today that discipline is still what keeps leaving going. Guys who do not ask for sex are out there even though the number isn't high. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by MissJoy29(f): 6:59pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
internationalman:I'm serious o. The question was "says who? " |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by funshow247(m): 7:57pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
I love this response... Gbam! EduTechTainMent: |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by LINTUNE(m): 8:50pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
augustine:common, is that even feasible |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by LINTUNE(m): 8:51pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
sweetrace: |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by LINTUNE(m): 8:52pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
V Magnoliaa:why would i 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by LINTUNE(m): 8:53pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Sammye:as in eh |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by internationalman(m): 10:47pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
MissJoy29:OK; says me |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by pryme(m): 11:14pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Barristter07: Just because you have sex doesnt mean you will be sexually compatible with your partner. Besides are you telling me that women that where married as virgins have never cheated on their husbands? If you like to gamble and hope for the best that your partner will be sexually compatible with you then thats your cup of tea, Not everybody handles sexual issues with kid gloves. Its men like you that will come crying here that your wife either likes sex too much or she cant satisfy you in bed, when you would have found your sexual compatibility before making the big decision. So being in the dark about the kind of person you want to settle with is suppose to be the yardstick for sexual compatibility? Spare me the moral standards. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by MissJoy29(f): 11:22pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
internationalman:Onye nsogbu |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by internationalman(m): 11:39pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
MissJoy29:Don't hide behind native language.. come-on speak what I can understand |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by MissJoy29(f): 11:40pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
internationalman:Alright...trouble maker There you go! I have translated it. |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by internationalman(m): 1:10am On Sep 01, 2019 |
MissJoy29:Maybe I just like looking for your trouble alone. |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Caseless: 6:43am On Sep 01, 2019 |
Zinny25:we have so many of them in the north. In fact, it's a common thing in the north. |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 7:23am On Sep 01, 2019 |
pryme: Hahahaha, We saw Cheating on the rise almost everyday , Yet you still have the Gut to split the nonsense above. Sexual compatibility is about two people who love each other and are willing to learn and put each others interest first, These can be achieved in Marriage. . Have seen great couples who didn't have sex before marriage and Still have a Great sex life .. And have seen couples who had sex before marriage and still cheat recklessly. The point is: the person that waited to have sex with you in marriage has shown an High Level of Self Control. Which is essential for a successfull marriage. .. Again , I repeat Premarital sex is not the yardstick for sexual compatibility . the stats are there all over the world as married people cheat recklessly despite their past sex before marriage, y'all blabbing about sexual compatibility through premarital sex should just stop. Don't give this daft standard as reason for engaging in such , it's a LIE 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by pryme(m): 8:08am On Sep 01, 2019 |
Barristter07: has it occurred to you that most people avoid sex because of a biological defect? Do you even know that there are some people that cant stand sex? some even have serious trauma just thinking of sex, you will be here thinking they are keeping their body for you and HIGH LEVEL OF SELF CONTROL. So people that have been in a no sex relationship before marriage dont ever cheat once they get married is that what your stats is saying? Your post reeks of naivety, keep that and your stats to yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 8:12am On Sep 01, 2019 |
pryme: And these people can fake interest for someone like you just to get the ring .
Its rare . Most do so out of fear of God, the same Fear make them take their marriage vows seriously. Look around you, and we can count Many couples with pre marital sex history still visiting their EX for sex after marriage, comparing their partners with Exes . Side Chic's etc . You are very ignorant of the subject u dived 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by pryme(m): 8:42am On Sep 01, 2019 |
Barristter07: and you are ill exposed to think everyone that engages in pre-marital sex will cheat, and you also ill exposed to think its rare to for people that take their marriage vows seriously wont cheat, the naive ones will value your shallow explanation. Dont come here and paint a big picture from your limited exposure, so you are saying the best couples today never had sex with their ex(s)? Do you think that everybody that avoids sex with their partner only do so because they are taking their relationship seriously? are you a kid or something? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 12:06pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
pryme: Many people today are sexually active , many relationship today are based on Sex, roughly 80% ... If premarital sex is a basis of ascertaining sexual compatibility , people should have no problem sticking with their partner . after all they have found someone compatible. Why go outside again ? That's the big question Check the internet which you naively called limited exposure, Extra marital affairs keep rising despite rise in premarital relation. You can keep deceiving yourself ! |
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