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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by drmikeadams(m): 8:39am On Sep 02, 2019
Martinez39:
The empty bottle has no value. What will he do with an empty bottle? It's right and okay for him to collect his iPhone back. Beside, as a female, cheat and slut, it natural that you favour the narrative that collecting back the gifts is childish. Afterall, when you are caught, you would be happy if the mugu that thinks he is your boyfriend doesn't collect back the expensive gifts he gave you. Watch how your fellow farm tools and ladies will flood this thread telling the op that he is childish if he collects the phone.

If a guy buys a Benz and iPhone for the lady that he loves and he discovers that she has been fvcking another guy, he should collect the Benz and iPhone. He didn't buy it for other ladies and wouldn't have but he bought it for his gf as a sacrifice of love and didn't mind. Now that he has discovered that the sacrifices were all for nothing and were mere wastage and he was being used, he must collect his gifts to recoup his wastage. grin
grin grin grin grin


My argument be say why spend money to buy Benz and iPhone for girls grin. Them no get papa nigiving em my ddick is enough sacrifice cos it's either they re giving guys gono,syphilis or HIV grin grin

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 9:25am On Sep 02, 2019
drmikeadams:
grin grin grin grin


My argument be say why spend money to buy Benz and iPhone for girls grin. Them no get papa nigiving em my ddick is enough sacrifice cos it's either they re giving guys gono,syphilis or HIV grin grin
Exactly what I said in this thread of mine but it seems many boys are stupid and will never learn.

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 9:48am On Sep 02, 2019
ImaIma1:


I was just saying.

Cheating is unacceptable and if a guy will feel better retrieving his gift especially if it's something that shook his bank account, it's his choice.
Whether he feels right or not collecting it, he MUST collect it. grin

[s]Though I think a gift shouldn't be retrieved after a misunderstanding or whatever. For you to give someone something, it means it's something you can let go off. Taking is back after an issue seems to me like trying to lick your wounds and getting back at the person.
It's not just a gift. It a sacrifice of love that can only be easily made if you think there is something genuine between you and your significant other. Once you, like the op, realize that there was nothing genuine all along, the sacrifices were all for nothing and you were being used. It's therefore right to recoup the losses.

What if he had given her like 2million to pay for something and the money was already exhausted, what would he have done? That's why relationships are risks. He wasn't under duress or forced to give her the gift.
If he can collect the money in any other way and get away with it, he is justified. If he can't, he should count the painful loss and move on. This is what when society, the media and romance novels brainwash boys with the illusion called 'love'. The op must collect that phone back. If he can't, he must find a way to ruin it.

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 9:52am On Sep 02, 2019
AfroKnight:
Have you collected it yet? I hope you’ve not disappointed me sha.collect that phone if you don’t want me to swear for you. grin

You bought a phone and the girl immediately decided to cheat and she even documented it knowing you would see the picture. Plus, She’s still defending her actions.

Collect that phone plus the wig you bought on that her unfortunate head. Collect it before I get angry.
If the op no collect that phone, may he be unfortunate for dis life. My blood dey hot.

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by TBIZZY(m): 10:16am On Sep 02, 2019
Collect it and give it to next girlfriend u gonna have. That phone is meant for the office of girlfriend.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 10:38am On Sep 02, 2019
Martinez39:
Whether he feels right or not collecting it, he MUST collect it. grin

It's not just a gift. It a sacrifice of love that can only be easily made if you think there is something genuine between you and your significant other. Once you, like the op, realize that there was nothing genuine all along, the sacrifices were all for nothing and you were being used. It's therefore right to recoup the losses.

If he can collect the money in any other way and get away with it, he is justified. If he can't, he should count the painful loss and move on. This is what when society, the media and romance novels brainwash boys with the illusion called 'love[b]'. The op must collect that phone back. If he can't, he must find a way to ruin it.[/b]


This thing is paining you more than the op infact smiley Money might not be "chooking" his body the way it is doing you. Sha take it easy.

If I am the girl, and I want to prove stubborn, I will ask that we go to court. That will solve the matter because it will be seen as a case of an aggrieved lover.

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 11:25am On Sep 02, 2019
ImaIma1:


This thing is paining you more than the op infact smiley Money might not be "chooking" his body the way it is doing you. Sha take it easy.
Hahahahahaha grin. Typical woman. Reducing logical arguments to emotional ones of who is broke and frustrated and who is not. grin You attempted this in your earlier post but I ignored. Now, do you have any better? Is that the best you can do? grin Women. If I say that I don't expect much intellectually from your gender on issues like this, you will call me a misogynist. Typical woman. grin

If I am the girl, and I want to prove stubborn, I will ask that we go to court. That will solve the matter because it will be seen as a case of an aggrieved lover.
Easy to say. In this case, you won't see it coming. Beside, he has the receipt and could charge you with theft so what can you do after he has taken it back? Also, this is Nigeria.

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 1:34pm On Sep 02, 2019
Martinez39:
Hahahahahaha grin. Typical woman. Reducing logical arguments to emotional ones of who is broke and frustrated and who is not. grin You attempted this in your earlier post but I ignored. Now, do you have any better? Is that the best you can do? grin Women. If I say that I don't expect much intellectually from your gender on issues like this, you will call me a misogynist. Typical woman. grin

Easy to say. In this case, you won't see it coming. Beside, he has the receipt and could charge you with theft so what can you do after he has taken it back? Also, this is Nigeria.


In case you have not noticed, I don't have the time to start dissecting your comments and arguing back and forth.

I only noticed how you seem to crying more than the bereaved. The op will still do what he wants. And if he collects the phone back, all well and good.

But this Nl guys defence of "logical-emotional" is getting stale. Try something new and legit

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 02, 2019
Not Childish!


You gave materials, you are lucky it's refundable. The lady is the one at lost! grin grin

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by missjo(f): 2:36pm On Sep 02, 2019
ImaIma1:


This thing is paining you more than the op infact smiley Money might not be "chooking" his body the way it is doing you. Sha take it easy.

If I am the girl, and I want to prove stubborn, I will ask that we go to court. That will solve the matter because it will be seen as a case of an aggrieved lover.
What if he claims you visited him and stole it. He still has the proof of payment, what becomes your defense?cheesy

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2019
ImaIma1:


In case you have not noticed, I don't have the time to start dissecting your comments and arguing back and forth.

I only noticed how you seem to crying more than the bereaved. The op will still do what he wants. And if he collects the phone back, all well and good.
Na so.

But this Nl guys defence of "logical-emotional" is getting stale. Try something new and legit

This lacks sense. Defence of "logical-emotional"? What the hell does this mean? grin Arguments will always be logical, stupid or emotional. Nothing new can be tried. Sorry.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by vickyhow(m): 4:24pm On Sep 02, 2019
MrTrend:
More than childish to collect it, so leave it.

4 Iphone?
Tahhhh!!!
Abeqee Collect Ur Iphone,shebi Itz Childish To Cheat On Sb??
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by AhlexOfficial(m): 4:40pm On Sep 02, 2019
I don't know how this thing is paining me now, but i will be very sad sorry op will be very sad if the iPhone is not retrieved today, infact OP, IF you don't collect that phone today ,just die there, don't come back to this thread o, coz we go mob you.

And when u finally collet am ,quote me

Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 8:22pm On Sep 02, 2019
Martinez39:
Na so.

This lacks sense. Defence of "logical-emotional"? What the hell does this mean? grin Arguments will always be logical, stupid or emotional. Nothing new can be tried. Sorry.


It doesn't have to make sense to you as long as I know what I mean.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 10:02pm On Sep 02, 2019
ImaIma1:


It doesn't have to make sense to you as long as I know what I mean.

Yeah. Na so. grin

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