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When Dating Becomes A Waste Of Time. by Nobody: 2:11pm On Aug 31, 2019
Go on your street and see guys and girls "roaming" together as love birds; but where are they heading to emotionally? I tell you that many relationships you see around have no purpose, but just for fornication & pleasure without tangible direction.

Bars and joints get filled up at night with guys and girls "enjoying" themselves.. But does it make sense to be roaming with a partner without purpose? Just for sex, Hangouts and pleasure. This senseless move has made people live with much baggages I their lives because time for profitable venture was used to roam in baseless relationships..

If you are dating right now, you need to know the direction of the relationship, else it may be a waste of time.

For guys, some love baseless relationships as long as they are getting free fornication. Is it good? Use your time wisely....

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Re: When Dating Becomes A Waste Of Time. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:56am On Sep 01, 2019
aishaemeka:
Go on your street and see guys and girls "roaming" together as love birds; but where are they heading to emotionally? I tell you that many relationships you see around have no purpose, but just for fornication & pleasure without tangible direction.

Bars and joints get filled up at night with guys and girls "enjoying" themselves.. But does it make sense to be roaming with a partner without purpose? Just for sex, Hangouts and pleasure. This senseless move has made people live with much baggages I their lives because time for profitable venture was used to roam in baseless relationships..

If you are dating right now, you need to know the direction of the relationship, else it may be a waste of time.

For guys, some love baseless relationships as long as they are getting free fornication. Is it good? Use your time wisely....

The fact that you believe that relationship have one purpose only is your 1st FAIL of the day...not all relationship have the same aim. Some need it just for emotional relief, others as a rebound, many just for sex and entertainment and a few aim for marriage.

Your 2nd FAIL is thinking that what YOU view as a valid reason to date or a waste of time, should be everyone's view..... while we all understand that people are different and therefore may not see relationships as you do. Let each and everyone date for whatever they desire AND, so long ans they are both happy, who are you to claim otherwise.

Your FINAL FAIL is to actually claim that there is something wrong with a relationship solely based on sex (aka fornication to you)...what a joke!!! Both are getting sex, both get their groove on, both are sexually rewarded and both are NOT forced into doing what they do. So as much as you may not like what they do, most people indulging in these sexual r/ship certainly don't care what you think.

Do whats best for YOU and let others happily live their lives

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Re: When Dating Becomes A Waste Of Time. by motionarena: 7:27am On Sep 01, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


The fact that you believe that relationship have one purpose only is your 1st FAIL of the day...not all relationship have the same aim. Some need it just for emotional relief, others as a rebound, many just for sex and entertainment and a few aim for marriage.

Your 2nd FAIL is thinking that what YOU view as a valid reason to date or a waste of time, should be everyone's view..... while we all understand that people are different and therefore may not see relationships as you do. Let each and everyone date for whatever they desire AND, so long ans they are both happy, who are you to claim otherwise.

Your FINAL FAIL is to actually claim that there is something wrong with a relationship solely based on sex (aka fornication to you)...what a joke!!! Both are getting sex, both get their groove on, both are sexually rewarded and both are NOT forced into doing what they do. So as much as you may not like what they do, most people indulging in these sexual r/ship certainly don't care what you think.

Do whats best for YOU and let others happily live their lives

Are u ok

Because of guys like u baby mama is on the rise
Re: When Dating Becomes A Waste Of Time. by Nobody: 8:03am On Sep 01, 2019
Another argument again.
Re: When Dating Becomes A Waste Of Time. by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:22pm On Sep 01, 2019
motionarena:

Are u ok

Because of guys like u baby mama is on the rise

KEEP fooling yourself... and instead you should care about YOUR damn life and stop trying to force everyone into living the way YOU desire.

Babymamas don't see anything wrong with what they do. Babydaddy don't see anything wrong with what they do. When highly respected men of the Bible (king david/Solomon, abraham) had baby mamas, your God had no problem with it....so get with the program and stop being an obvious hypocrite.

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Re: When Dating Becomes A Waste Of Time. by hostes: 6:02pm On Nov 05, 2020
You can easily waste time on dating sites. It is not a rare case that people communicate with potential partners that do not match their requirements, check this weblink. Therefore, I prefer the sites that provide as much information about their users as possible. I will not talk to a person who cannot say what is his goal on the dating site. It is vital to know his expectations.

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