I think so much that it's affecting me physically ..
No matter what I eat, or the quantity, I don't even add weight rather I shrink
This minute I'm happy, the next I'm lost in thoughts
Help me.... I just needed to voice out, that's why I came here...

NB-I'm still schooling

You go soon die throway!!!!!
You dey wan break Aristotle thinking record abi?

Take it easy on yourself. To be a man is not a day's job, so you guys tend to put a lot of pressure on yourselves and I understand that.

However, if you go on like this, you might push yourself into crime...depression, worse case, suicide.

You have been thinking how to change course. You have considered learning a skill. You have even tried yahoo yahoo, which didn't pay.

Take a break, rest, sleep, drink more water, listen to good music, read books.

If there is anyone or anything that makes you think you are in some UNHEALTHY competition with people, cut it off. If it is Facebook, Instagram, some kind friends at a bar and those places guys hang out- cut them off. Don't become a hermit, but change your circle to people who can motivate you positively and lovingly.

This life na jeje. Take it one day at a time...

Your poor CCGP is behind your worries.

Learn to live in the moment.

take it easy bro...

Take it easy biko

pocohantas:
Take it easy on yourself. To be a man is not a day's job, so you guys tend to put a lot of pressure on yourselves and I understand that.

However, if you go on like this, you might push yourself into crime...depression, worse case, suicide.

You have been thinking how to change course. You have considered learning a skill. You have even tried yahoo yahoo, which didn't pay.

Take a break, rest, sleep, drink more water, listen to good music, read books.

If there is anyone or anything that makes you think you are in some UNHEALTHY competition with people, cut it off. If it is Facebook, Instagram, some kind friends at a bar and those places guys hang out- cut them off. Don't become a hermit, but change your circle to people who can motivate you positively and lovingly.

This life na jeje. Take it one day at a time...

Great words. Wow great advice. But I do see guys quote you in comments especially Anti-Male topics. I used to think maybe you hate guys but from this your comment,it doesn't seem so.
Truly not good to judge based on others perception if you haven't met the person.

Greatzeus:

Great words. Wow great advice. But I do see guys quote you in comments especially Anti-Male topics. I used to think maybe you hate guys but from this your comment,it doesn't seem so.
Truly not good to judge based on others perception if you haven't met the person.

I hate stupid guys and they are plenty on this forum. It is only normal for them to think I hate them- which is actually true.

adesmarty:
I think so much that it's affecting me physically ..
No matter what I eat, or the quantity, I don't even add weight rather I shrink
This minute I'm happy, the next I'm lost in thoughts
Help me.... I just needed to voice out, that's why I came here...

NB-I'm still schooling

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6

Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?

Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?
Matthew 6:25-27

pocohantas:


I hate stupid guys and they are plenty on this forum. It is only normal for them to think I hate them- which is actually true.

LMAO burst my brain

pocohantas:
Take it easy on yourself. To be a man is not a day's job, so you guys tend to put a lot of pressure on yourselves and I understand that.

However, if you go on like this, you might push yourself into crime...depression, worse case, suicide.

You have been thinking how to change course. You have considered learning a skill. You have even tried yahoo yahoo, which didn't pay.

Take a break, rest, sleep, drink more water, listen to good music, read books.

If there is anyone or anything that makes you think you are in some UNHEALTHY competition with people, cut it off. If it is Facebook, Instagram, some kind friends at a bar and those places guys hang out- cut them off. Don't become a hermit, but change your circle to people who can motivate you positively and lovingly.

This life na jeje. Take it one day at a time...

Woow.. I am not in that guy's mind, but I am Damm sure u have captured all what is disturbing that guy. So many of these disturb we children that were not born with a silver spoon. The country is even making things more and more difficult.

adesmarty:
I think so much that it's affecting me physically ..
No matter what I eat, or the quantity, I don't even add weight rather I shrink
This minute I'm happy, the next I'm lost in thoughts
Help me.... I just needed to voice out, that's why I came here...

NB-I'm still schooling

Do you smoke, drink or womanize?

Better adopt one if you don't.

As a man, you'll need it as a coping mechanism when life presents its challenges

Used to be like you until I realized the effectiveness of green bottles.

AntiMCU:


Do you smoke, drink or womanize?

Better adopt one if you don't.

As a man, you'll need it as a coping mechanism when life presents its challenges

Used to be like you until I realized the effectiveness of green bottles.

OP follow this advice at your peril, from frypan to fire. From depression to becoming a Drunkard or Womanising.

When your eyes clear, you still remain the same.

truthsayer009:


OP follow this advice at your peril, from frypan to fire. From depression to becoming a Drunkard or Womanising.

When your eyes clear, you still remain the same.

Smoking weed perhaps?

pocohantas:
Take it easy on yourself. To be a man is not a day's job, so you guys tend to put a lot of pressure on yourselves and I understand that.

However, if you go on like this, you might push yourself into crime...depression, worse case, suicide.

You have been thinking how to change course. You have considered learning a skill. You have even tried yahoo yahoo, which didn't pay.

Take a break, rest, sleep, drink more water, listen to good music, read books.

If there is anyone or anything that makes you think you are in some UNHEALTHY competition with people, cut it off. If it is Facebook, Instagram, some kind friends at a bar and those places guys hang out- cut them off. Don't become a hermit, but change your circle to people who can motivate you positively and lovingly.

This life na jeje. Take it one day at a time...

You just spoke like my elder sister...
She's like the only one who actually understands me
Reading your reply it was like I was reading my own mind
God bless you for this.....
It has really touched me beyond my expectations..

donstan18:
Your poor CCGP is behind your worries.

Nah... I'm on a 2.1
Among the top ten in my department
Thanks

BarrElChapo:
take it easy bro...

I'm trying my best bro

But my greatest setback is impatience....
I pray I overcome it
I just wanna be successful so I can touch the lives of loved ones(family)

Abcruz:


Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6

Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?

Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?
Matthew 6:25-27

Thanks for this sir

You are just living life, everyone is thinking about their life. Even Bill Gates is worried about how to spend his money.

I realized this when my boss who was CEO got fired! At 55, after climbing to the pinnacle of his career, the man said he is still thinking of how to navigate the job market.

So thinking and making decisions never ends, even the people wey you think say don make am are thinking and worrying about something.

Just take it in stride and keep moving forward.

AntiMCU:


Do you smoke, drink or womanize?

Better adopt one if you don't.

As a man, you'll need it as a coping mechanism when life presents its challenges

Used to be like you until I realized the effectiveness of green bottles.

Lol
I don't smoke,drink
I stopped chasing girls since No girl gree look my side beyond friendship level(friendzone)
It's just me, my phone and earpiece

AntiMCU:


Do you smoke, drink or womanize?

Better adopt one if you don't.

As a man, you'll need it as a coping mechanism when life presents its challenges

Used to be like you until I realized the effectiveness of green bottles.

Lol
I don't smoke,drink
I stopped chasing girls since No girl gree look my side beyond friendship level(friendzone)
It's just me, my phone and earpiece

adesmarty:


Lol
I don't smoke,drink
I stopped chasing girls since No girl gree look my side beyond friendship level(friendzone)
It's just me, my phone and earpiece

Start drinking!

AntiMCU:

Start drinking!

Lol, Don’t listen to this guy. Drinking as a coping mechanism no be am. It costs money and is unhealthy. Better you find a hobby that could be profitable.

I see you're actually doing well academically.. believe me you're on the right track.. stay focused on that path.. you'd end up well..
You really can't be impatient cos you gotta get done with school then the process of getting a job.. etc would naturally take its course..
But importantly is having a good relationship with God cos He's got the best plans for you bigger than you can imagine yourself.. Take care

adesmarty:


I'm trying my best bro

But my greatest setback is impatience....
I pray I overcome it
I just wanna be successful so I can touch the lives of loved ones(family)

adesmarty:


Lol
I don't smoke,drink
I stopped chasing girls since No girl gree look my side beyond friendship level(friendzone)
It's just me, my phone and earpiece

See my brother.

People will give you sob stories of how things will get better and what nots.

Truth is that, they're right

However you don't know when.

They won't be with you when the trials come.

You need a friend, a companion, something to take your mind of the hassles of life.

I don't womanize cos it's a sin against God almighty.

Neither do I smoke: though if you want to do this, I advice you take weed.

So I prefer drinking.

So again I advice you, choose one.

Smoking, drinking or womanizing?

Before making a decison, take into consideration your background, beliefs and personal principles.

It's that simple.

elektra:


Lol, Don’t listen to this guy. Drinking as a coping mechanism no be am. It costs money and is unhealthy. Better you find a hobby that could be profitable.

How much is beer?

Try and get busy from getting busy you can spot an opportunity waiting for you

Try and reg on a freelance site there may be skill you have folks are willing to pay for photoshop design...


Reg on foriegn forums like Reddit to get some exposure..