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My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 5:02am On Sep 18, 2019
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ogbevireo(m): 5:08am On Sep 18, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please

Did you empathise with, and stand by her during these unfortunate losses? Why does the family think you responsible for the situation?

If you are not doing anything that suggests to others that you do not care about your wife's pains, then you should not burden yourself with the issue. Otherwise, you need to change your attitude towards her plight.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by silverkings: 5:22am On Sep 18, 2019
The miscarriages might be medical problem. Una go hospital?

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by baby124: 5:30am On Sep 18, 2019
Edited Post in light of new developments:
OP has spiritual problems true true shocked

Read this link for details on this Rhesus factor issue:
https://americanpregnancy.org/pregnancy-complications/rh-factor/

The dumbness of your situation is mind boggling though. Sorry my dear.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Omojudy: 5:32am On Sep 18, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please
I wish I could talk to her. I very much understand. I have had 8miscarriages before I got a diagnosis. My ex in law’s accused me of being cursed, spirit husband etc. while all we needed was to find the medical solution. Sending you kind regards.

https://astrongnigerianwoman.com/2019/08/30/child-sexual-abuse-and-incest/

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by sinaj(f): 5:51am On Sep 18, 2019
Wife please come back and sort it out with hubby in the hospital, church and bedroom please embarassed

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by generationz(f): 7:07am On Sep 18, 2019
Well, this public apology means nothing. I have seen men who crawl on their knees in public to beg their wives only for her to return and keep chopping beating.

If your wife's family called you a ritualist then
that is a serious allegation.

Of a truth, you shouldn't be bothered about getting her back first but clearing your name.

Go to God in prayer and ask him to vindicate you, if you are innocent.

When this happens, no one will tell your wife to return.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by kross01(m): 7:09am On Sep 18, 2019
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ruggedtimi(m): 7:09am On Sep 18, 2019
nigerians with this belief

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ruggedtimi(m): 7:13am On Sep 18, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).
omo na serious matter be this..karma dealing with him

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 7:13am On Sep 18, 2019
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense undecided
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier smiley

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by pocohantas(f): 7:28am On Sep 18, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

Lol. Nairalanders and investigative journalism

grin

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by kross01(m): 7:37am On Sep 18, 2019
ruggedtimi:
omo na serious matter be this..karma dealing with him
Guess this is his own cross

pocohantas:


Lol. Nairalanders and investigative journalism

grin
I also advised him on that thread so the moment i came across this topic, his moniker rang a bell so i had to go confirm

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by baby124: 8:07am On Sep 18, 2019
kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).
OP, you de craze ooo. I even thought your were a human being. Is this the same brother you are crying crocodile tears over his death? When you probably caused it. May God have mercy on you. Let me go and edit my first post!

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by nisai: 8:11am On Sep 18, 2019
baby124:

OP, you de craze ooo. I even thought your were a human being. Is this the same brother you are crying crocodile tears over his death? When you probably caused it. May God have mercy on you. Let me go and edit my first post!
grin grin grin Wallahi I dey gbadun you.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by yomi007k(m): 8:23am On Sep 18, 2019
Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense undecided
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier smiley

The boss. I hail u sir.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by generationz(f): 8:24am On Sep 18, 2019
ruggedtimi:
omo na serious matter be this..karma dealing with him

Karma doesn't exist. The wife's condition is obviously a medical issue.

Also, she already saw his confession on nairaland and judging by the fact that Nigerians are judgemental she left him for that.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 8:24am On Sep 18, 2019
@Op this your matter tire me.
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 8:27am On Sep 18, 2019
Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense undecided
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier smiley
This comment simply shows how green you are.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by healthserve(m): 8:29am On Sep 18, 2019
Omojudy:

I wish I could talk to her. I very much understand. I have had 8miscarriages before I got a diagnosis. My ex in law’s accused me of being cursed, spirit husband etc. while all we needed was to find the medical solution. Sending you kind regards.

https://astrongnigerianwoman.com/2019/08/30/child-sexual-abuse-and-incest/




Care to tell us about the diagnosis
Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by healthserve(m): 8:31am On Sep 18, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please




You slept with your brother's wife. Now your own wife is taken from you. I smell Karma serving hot dish

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by ArticleBeast: 8:55am On Sep 18, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
This comment simply shows how green you are.
The person u quoted has mental problem. On behalf of his kinsmen we apologise for his lunatic display

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 9:36am On Sep 18, 2019
You need to see a therapist just let your wifey be for now she just lost a kid and she is in pains .. now focus on getting closer to God more only him can give you comfort just know that ..

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by LadySarah(f): 9:37am On Sep 18, 2019
Might be Rhesus Factor issue.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by SendAbroad: 9:54am On Sep 18, 2019
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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Hallams(m): 10:01am On Sep 18, 2019
LadySarah:
Might be Rhesus Factor issue.
exactly. Most times we pay attention to Genotype and leave rhesus factor.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by alphaNomega: 10:02am On Sep 18, 2019
Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please

Well her family fear their daughter would be made to nurture your late brothers children without having any of hers and they don't think she meant that when she said "...for better, for worse..."

Your wife must have had serial abortions in the past. Nothing medical science won't fix.

It's a hard knock life.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:23am On Sep 18, 2019
Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense undecided
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier smiley

Ode

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 11:27am On Sep 18, 2019
Your marriage is not working and you've already secretly fathered a child with your late brother's wife. Leave your wife be and let her go because she doesn't deserve to be in this mess. Too much has happened: your secret child, her miscarriages, your brother's death (idk if he knew about the child w/ his wife before he died) that it would be unfair to bring her any further pain if she returns. If I were a family member I would not allow her to go back to you. She needs to start her life with another man.

I wish you well too, OP.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by 24kmagic: 12:07pm On Sep 18, 2019
Lalasticlala, help this oga push this to front page, may be his wife will see it. Most people that visit nairaland don't bother about all these sections.

Madam, if you're reading this, go back to your oga, konji wants to finish him.

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Rosarie(f): 12:30pm On Sep 18, 2019
U can live without her,if she loves u,she will not allow anyone manipulate her

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Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Nobody: 1:03pm On Sep 18, 2019
Rosarie:
U can live without her,if she loves u,she will not allow anyone manipulate her
Maybe you should take a look at his profile and read the topic he created about impregnating his sister in-law without his brother knowing .

Who knows maybe his wife found out and she left because of that

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