luap:

It's not about control or puting black women in line.

It is about Power and setting your boundaries.  Unfortunatley, black women are on the bottom of the social economic list, so they are always tring to become empowered, this is understandable.  The problem is that in a relationship, black woman's power struggle perspective floods over and toxifies the relationship with her man.  Other words she is constantly trying to emasculate or remove the testicles of her Black Man.

Are you serious? Are you sure that BLACK WOMEN ARE ON THE BOTTOM OF THE SOCIAL TOTEM? Oh my goodness! Honey, let me re-educate you on something that you should have gotten when the memo were sent out, if you look again, THERE ARE BLACK MEN IN PRISON, THERE ARE BLACK MEN ON THE UNEMPLOYMENT PERCENTILE, THERE ARE BLACK MEN THAT ARE SINGLE FATHERS WITH A BUNCH OF CHILDREN BY MULTIPLE WOMEN THEY ARE NOT MARRIED TO AND THIS IS NOT JUST BLACK WOMEN, THERE ARE WHITE WOMEN, ASIAN WOMEN, AND HISPANIC WOMEN WHO HAVE CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK BY THESE SO CALLED BLACK MEN. A black woman is more likely to get hire than a BLACK MAN and you say that black women are on the bottom of the totem pole NEGRO CHINKY PLEASE

The Black man needs to understand this problem, so he does not end up becomming weak under the constant power struggle the Black woman is having with the world.

Black men do not struggle with your woman.  She is the one bringing the worldly Drama Strugle into the relationship.  Just walk away, and let them figure things out.  Maybe in a few generations they will catch on.  There are so many single black woman.  It is not because of beauty, but frankly they can be a pain in the butt.
BLACK WOMEN BRING WORDLY DRAMA AND STRUGGLE TO THE RELATIONSHIP? WTF? DO YOU KNOW THAT IT TAKES TWO TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP AND TWO TO ARGUE? IF A WOMAN IS ARGUING WITH A MAN AND HE ARGUE BACK THAT HE JUST A FOOL AS SHE IS? YOU ACTUALLY THINK THAT THERE ARE MANY SINGLE BLACK WOMEN? IF BLACK WOMEN COUNTS AS 13 PERCENT OF THE TOTAL POPULATION IN ONE REGION AND 45 PERCENT OF THEM ARE MARRIED, HOW THE FUKK CAN THERE BE SO MANY SINGLE BLACK WOMEN? You have failed to realize that there are more women than men in this world SOMEBODY GOING TO BE FUKKING SINGLE GENIUS! IF THERE ARE 1 MAN TO EVER 10 WOMEN IF YOU KNOW HOW TO PROPERLY CALCULATE THAT MEANS THAT THE WORLD HAS ABOUT 60 PERCENT OF SINGLE WOMEN PERIOD REGARDLESS OF RACE, CREED, RELIGION, NATIONALITY, AND REGION.

YOU A REAL FUKKING GENIUS