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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:34pm On Oct 06, 2019
boiz2men:


Wait....

Did you include yourself? grin

I see what you did there...

So because I like you I have great taste grin

Lol. Never said you do. Did I?

I only said, maybe you are not lucky- maybe you are only smart and strategic enough to attract your kind.
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 06, 2019
carzola:
ur a kid. . Please get behind me.. how can u say Ashawo is for low self esteem peeps..
Are u mad?? Who no dey carry ashawo for Nigeria. ..
Come to lagos where 90% of the girls are runs girls. .

The guy doesn’t know anything....one person’s ashawo is another niggga’s sweet heart....very mad cycle in lagos....so far u are not caught at Allen junction or ikeja round about......no body is an ashawo mehnn... all na dating and getting paid ..some dating just last long and some can be one night

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:39pm On Oct 06, 2019
Guest007:


You're talking to low self esteem ppl, that's what you're missing grin grin grin

So in your slow mind, high self esteem people pay for sex?
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by boiz2men(m): 6:42pm On Oct 06, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Lol. Never said you do. Did I?

I only said, maybe you are not lucky- maybe you are only smart and strategic enough to attract your kind.

I don't think I'm smart or anything...

I easily lose interest.


I think those type of girls stick their noses in the air and feel so damn relevant..


My problem is that I don't waste time wooing... Any form of resistance.. I use the door...

I think that's why I don't meet them

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:43pm On Oct 06, 2019
boiz2men:


I don't think I'm smart or anything...

I easily lose interest.


I think those type of girls stick their noses in the air and feel so damn relevant..


My problem is that I don't waste time wooing... Any form of resistance.. I use the door...

I think that's why I don't meet them

Maybe , just maybe...
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:45pm On Oct 06, 2019
NuissancePolice:


So in your slow mind, high self esteem people pay for sex?

And in your world it's normal for every man to visit a prostitute?

I'll remain slow and HIV free... And may your genius eradicate AIDS smiley
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:45pm On Oct 06, 2019
Guest007:





Most naija men fucking greet you with money... I swear, it's cute at first but it's damn right obvious what they are trying to do, and if she chops small, it's the gold digger mantra.

I aviod men who lead with their money because my warning alarm will go off... Is he trying to control me with money, is he buying my love, what is happening... This runs through any sane woman's head.

I can't imagine when this behaviour plays out in an environment where *government holds wages* cry cry cry
u don sabi us grin as in nigerian guys greeting a lady with money grin.this could explain the reason why many south african ladies run after nigerian men cos they want to chop as well since naija guys are too generous to a fault grin. a girl will say hi and the dude will start spilling out money grin.just like the strory i read here two months back or so about a girl who said he picked up a random girl he saw on the road in his car and he fell for her but all along the girl was just playing him and eating his money and before he knew wat was happening he had already spent 250k on this girl grin.haba grin

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 06, 2019
iLegendd:



...90% or more Nigerian men are backward when it comes to relationship. Lack of global exposure is the cause. Even if they are not privileged to have a global exposure, at least, let them read books written by those who have global exposures of the dating world, yet they won't read.

All they know is porn, masturbation, bet Naija, football, paying for sex, jumping from one social media to another, reading their books to pass an exam that the certificate won't even get them a job if they don't have connections, and watching BBN. Yes, they can do all the above, but they should also improve their dating game and be wise.

Just to read one dating book, since they can't travel around the world to learn from experience, they won't. They come online to abuse women without knowing they are the cause women act the way they act around them.
abeg ehn ilegend u and ubanja should keep on writing ur boxs and miseducation threads to educate nigerian on the right way to handle nigerian ladies and free them from bondage grin.a situation a man will ignore his parents and siblings and start sponsoring one random slayqueen is foolish.some men don pay play ticket for a girl to travel and holiday overseas but they themselves never enter plane b4 grin..some men take loans from banks to furnish the lavish lifestyles of their slayqueen mistress but they themselves reside in battered looking single room grin.some guys need to be liberated and stop acting like they under some remote control grin.

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by LordPherule(m): 6:54pm On Oct 06, 2019
boiz2men:
Know this now, this is wisdom and it will set you free.

I have read with great disdain at the large number of pusssy men we have in the world.

I read of how a man (NL) sold his car, mums plaza and gave his wife 3m for no reason...

This is the truth:
When females around you start saying you are stingy
I rep you o
Know that you are doing something right.

If your sisters and mum say so.. You probably are stingy

I get the stingy comment a lot and I dont give a flying fvck about their opinions...


You all pussy guys should have your dicks cut.

I spit on your dick. You lot are irritatting angry angry angry

Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 6:58pm On Oct 06, 2019
iLegendd:





All they know is porn, masturbation, bet Naija, football, paying for sex, jumping from one social media to another, reading their books to pass an exam that the certificate won't even get them a job if they don't have connections, and watching BBN.
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grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin hahahahaaha

Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by iLegendd: 7:06pm On Oct 06, 2019
lefulefu:
abeg ehn ilegend u and ubanja should keep on writing ur boxs and miseducation threads to educate nigerian on the right way to handle nigerian ladies and free them from bondage grin.a situation a man will ignore his parents and siblings and start sponsoring one random slayqueen is foolish.some men don pay play ticket for a girl to travel and holiday overseas but they themselves never enter plane b4 grin..some men take loans from banks to furnish the lavish lifestyles of their slayqueen mistress but they themselves reside in battered looking single room grin.some guys need to be liberated and stop acting like they under some remote control grin.

Great input, sadly, you can't liberate all Nigerian man — most of them have ITK mentality the moment they see small money, so it's hard for them to learn. They feel spending is the game of big boys while investing is the game of old men. "If you no get money, hide your face," is their slogan. Yes, having money is good, but investing it unwisely isn't.

One of the reasons I no longer write for the Nigerian audience. All my books are now focused on oyibo man's consumption and the return on investment is much.

One thing I have learned is: reveal relationship secrets to a Nigerian man and he will laugh at you, abuse you and tell you to go make money and stop teaching nonsense.

Teach that same thing to a white man and he will empty his account just to pay you to teach him more.

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 7:26pm On Oct 06, 2019
lefulefu:
u don sabi us grin as in nigerian guys greeting a lady with money grin.this could explain the reason why many south african ladies run after nigerian men cos they want to chop as well since naija guys are too generous to a fault grin. a girl will say hi and the dude will start spilling out money grin.just like the strory i read here two months back or so about a girl who said he picked up a random girl he saw on the road in his car and he fell for her but all along the girl was just playing him and eating his money and before he knew wat was happening he had already spent 250k on this girl grin.haba grin

My thing is knowing this... Why are the girls under attack? Men know how foolish some me are and they too chop the money, disguised as girls grin grin grin
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 7:28pm On Oct 06, 2019
Martinez39:
You don't need to pay her any attention. Ignore her.

Conversation is attention for you? Bruv, you're issues need a pill the colour of the rainbow to solve em... You're a bitch and no pill will save you grin grin grin

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 7:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
Guest007:


My thing is knowing this... Why are the girls under attack? Men know how foolish some me are and they too chop the money, disguised as girls grin grin grin
why are the girls under attack? grin well u can say some guys are aggressively attacking the ladies here cos of how some ladies played them in the past...u can call it a transfered sort of aggression cheesy. and yes these days in naija some guys disguise as ladies on social media to eat the money of despirate foolish men looking for online pussy,it plays out on facebook and i am very sure it plays out here on nairaland cos there some guys here who use female monikers and act as females here just to get some magas cheesy.
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by olaboy1: 7:41pm On Oct 06, 2019
Guest007:





Most naija men fucking greet you with money... I swear, it's cute at first but it's damn right obvious what they are trying to do, and if she chops small, it's the gold digger mantra.

I aviod men who lead with their money because my warning alarm will go off... Is he trying to control me with money, is he buying my love, what is happening... This runs through any sane woman's head.

I can't imagine when this behaviour plays out in an environment where *government holds wages* cry cry cry

Total crap. How can you say MOST Naija guys greet you with money when the reality is Nigerian guys come forward hoping the Naija girl would love him unconditionally, only to be pigeon hole into a provider box in the name of your fake love. No Nigerian guy is presenting you an iPhone 11 at a first meeting, at most they take you girls out to some eatery, the gluttonous requests start coming much later.

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 06, 2019
olaboy1:


Total crap. How can you say MOST Naija guys greet you with money when the reality is Nigerian guys come forward hoping the Naija girl would love him unconditionally, only to be pigeon hole into a provider box in the name of your fake love. No Nigerian guy is presenting you an iPhone 11 at a first meeting, at most they take you girls out to some eatery, the gluttonous requests start coming much later.

It's a figure of speech, what I mean is they lead with their wealth... Certain type of people, regardless of what gender they are, will take full advantage of such a person. They will test your boundaries.. . Now can I ask who is responsible for manning these boundaries?

FYI: This is the www, and secondly, men and women are the same the world over. Why can't you guys humble yourselves and come up with a solution, instead of trying to shift the blame... That's my own.

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Sukueponmalu: 8:25pm On Oct 06, 2019
Almost all the woman around me always claim I’m stingy.
Idiotic people!
If you’re a female and you’re looking for someone to exploit or milk, then stay the fuc away from me.

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by olaboy1: 8:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
Guest007:


It's a figure of speech, what I mean is they lead with their wealth... Certain type of people, regardless of what gender they are, will take full advantage of such a person. They will test your boundaries.. . Now can I ask who is responsible for manning these boundaries?

FYI: This is the www, and secondly, men and women are the same the world over. Why can't you guys humble yourselves and come up with a solution, instead of trying to shift the blame... That's my own.

Remember rules of engagement. Naija girls have being firing at their men for too long a time and the men have now deployed the tactical rules of engagement by returning fire, and there will be no cease fire until the girls learn how to look up to their relatives for any sort of financial support.
My generation is taking up the shovels and clearing the footpath for the Gen Y coming behind us, we can’t just afford to fail them like the generation ahead of us did.

It’s not our responsibility to proffer solutions to the girls or teach them how we want to be treated, it’s the job of your close family and friends to present you with the right lens to view a man’s world.

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Pharaoh4rin(m): 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2019
Kentura:

Sex isn't sex bruh, you sound like a nigga that can hit anything on skirt.. Attaching value to your victim is what makes the sex sweet.. Ion know about you but the days I fvcked anything has passed this dick gat value and it doesn't go down on just anybody.

My kind of guy.
I said this in one of my comments yesterday that; if only guys can value their preeq as much as ladies value dia poocee, the manipulative skills from ladies is gone. Even though I like ladies wey d form but some men d suffer from dia foming eh

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2019
olaboy1:


Remember rules of engagement. Naija girls have been firing at their men for too long a time and the men have now deployed the tactical rules of engagement by returning fire, and there will be no cease fire until the girls learn to look up to their relatives for any sort of financial support.
My generation is taking up the shovels and clearing the footpath for the Gen Y coming behind us, we can’t just afford to fail them like the generation ahead of us did.

It’s not our responsibility to proffer solutions to the girls or teach them how we want to be treated, it’s the job of your close family and friends to present you with the right lens to view a man’s world.

Will you leave them alone until you are ready to settle down? I think the next X gen will appreciate that... You're right to some extent and I am an advocate for change so all is well. smiley
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by olaboy1: 8:58pm On Oct 06, 2019
Guest007:


Will you leave them alone until you are ready to settle down? I think the next X gen will appreciate that... You're right to some extent and I am an advocate for change so all is well. smiley
Sure we can leave them alone if they are willing to leave us alone also (I suppose you mean SEX)
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by nuelsam: 9:16pm On Oct 06, 2019
Money cant buy love
money cant buy love
money cant buy love
money cant buy love
who cares to listen? I guess red pilled men only...... Op, advice these pussy niggars till next century... Theyll still fall mugu,so far they think with their dick and not their brain.
Ok,lemme share this tnyt........theres this girl in my school that i like tho but yunno i cant break the rules naw.... So i never showed nor confessed my feelings to her, i just pretended like i never cared which made her love me more cos actually saw my arrogance towards her as confidence..... Fast forward last week, she came to my place with all em goodies, designer wears and some food stuffs(which she brought for me) lol....i asked her where she got em from, she was like theres this maga in school thats throwing his money all around her with the thought her she'll love him back yen yen yen.....in short the said maga has spent over 25k on her in just 5days......she showed me her several chats with potential magas on her phone boasting bouh how much money they got bla bla bla and in my mind i was like "wow, the creator of these redpill movement issa life saver o".... ... I dress fine, i smell good, i look quite ok but no girl has ever called me a stingy guy even tho i dont spend my money on em...
Bottom line is that girls sense these a lot... They know who to gold dig and who not to, they know a red pilled niqqa, they know a pussy niqqa........it all boils down on how u present yourself to em......
Money cant buy loff abeg

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by vickyhow(m): 9:31pm On Oct 06, 2019
Psalm2423:

Tell them o. We even have 300 naira own.
300? how? where does it happen? when?
where u base sef?
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Psalm2423(m): 9:35pm On Oct 06, 2019
vickyhow:


300?
how? where does it happen? when?

where u base sef?


I’m in Abuja, but school in Delta. 300 own day Warri na. Better one o, no be Mississippi River grin.
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 06, 2019
olaboy1:

Sure we can leave them alone if they are willing to leave us alone also (I suppose you mean SEX)

Well that seems to be the topic nowadays... That's refreshing to hear smiley

Celibacy is bea grin
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Kentura(m): 11:19pm On Oct 06, 2019
boiz2men:


Girl of my dreams kwa grin grin grin

come this boy.. how old are you? wink wink wink

this was very funny.

I cant believe you said that. Know this now.

No one is too good for you. Theres no such thing as girl of your dreams. No one is indespensable

sex is not to die for...... except when u are paid to have sex grin

money over sex anytime anyday

nah I didn't mean it like that, not like woman of your dreams kinda statement.. I actually meant sexual fantasy, like you picture a girl you'd like to fvck in your head.. Along the line u find someone that looks or measures up to her in a way, and u do everything possible to fvck her, even if it means you gotta spend..
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by boiz2men(m): 11:23pm On Oct 06, 2019
Kentura:


nah I didn't mean it like that, not like woman of your dreams kinda statement.. I actually meant sexual fantasy, like you picture a girl you'd like to fvck in your head.. Along the line u find someone that looks or measures up to her in a way, and u do everything possible to fvck her, even if it means you gotta spend..

I dont go out of my way for sex...

You place so much value on sex.


Even when I ask bae for sex and she resists....

I don't pressure her. I just fall back bed. Na she go dey use body touch me. grin


I have told her severally that I don't like drama...

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by royalair(m): 11:55pm On Oct 06, 2019
You know you are financially responsible when slay queens see you as a stingy man

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by royalair(m): 11:57pm On Oct 06, 2019
carzola:
When girls notice u have money there expect u to be giving it out
To them like u stole it..

If u don't there will quote u has a broke guy or stingy guy...

I laugh most times when they call me that, cause it doesn't change my bank balance my money is receiving aircee in the bank and I can sleep well that's all that matters..

I remember when one chic I was dating asked me for 50k and I've never given my mother upto 20k before. .

I transfered 30k to my mum and split the remaining 20k among my junior cousins in school broke up with the gold digger..
And am still happy and alive today. ..

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by Nobody: 12:18am On Oct 07, 2019
Men of self esteem..I give no f**k to babes,majoriy of dem na ashawo..dem like money pass dick ..according to MERCY#BBnja. 60 million comes first,not love

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Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by purples25(f): 12:22am On Oct 07, 2019
If respect is equal and reciprocal, that would solve the problem
Re: Listen Dudes: Here's The Truth (Guys only) by emmaodet: 6:32am On Oct 07, 2019
olaboy1:


Remember rules of engagement. Naija girls have been firing at their men for too long a time and the men have now deployed the tactical rules of engagement by returning fire, and there will be no cease fire until the girls learn to look up to their relatives for any sort of financial support.
My generation is taking up the shovels and clearing the footpath for the Gen Y coming behind us, we can’t just afford to fail them like the generation ahead of us did.

It’s not our responsibility to proffer solutions to the girls or teach them how we want to be treated, it’s the job of your close family and friends to present you with the right lens to view a man’s world.

Waooooooooo, broda mi nice write up.
Kudos

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