Don't date or marry someone you are suspicious about.....

It doesn't matter what your suspicions are about that person but once you start feeling uncomfortably suspicious of that person, don't date or marry that person because 9 times out of 10 your suspicions were founded.

i believe it all has to do with what type of suspicions you are talking about.... there are NEGATIVE and POSITIVE suspicions, and it would be silly to put them all in the same bag.

MrBrownJay1:
i believe it all has to do with what type of suspicions you are talking about.... there are NEGATIVE and POSITIVE suspicions, and it would be silly to put them all in the same bag.

well said my brother, well said...I have been thinking about it too. can you imagine!!!!

You are right. If you suspect your spouse, ask for time alone and think with your head and not with your emotions.

Most times you find out the truth

Suspicious differs here. It depends. Assuming someone hinted you about your spouse cheating on you based on hearsay, will you quickly believe it ? I guess no.

As a wise person, you'd have inform such informant to give you well detailed way of catching your spouse in the act rather than random hearsay.

With this kind of suspicious, will you let go of your spouse without any proof.

Most times, those telling you the hearsay may be jeoulous of your union. This happens to a friend recently.


Note: Not all suspicions are correct. Look deep!!

Ditto.

MrBrownJay1:
i believe it all has to do with what type of suspicions you are talking about.... there are NEGATIVE and POSITIVE suspicions, and it would be silly to put them all in the same bag.

Good point. Suspicions can be (+) or (-).
I'm sure OP is referring to the (-) ones here.

Ilekokonit:
Don't date or marry someone you are suspicious about.....

It doesn't matter what your suspicions are about that person but once you start feeling uncomfortably suspicious of that person, don't date or marry that person because 9 times out of 10 your suspicions were founded.

They will think you're joking.

I am so sure that I want to marry the love of my life. That is why I proposed and now I'm so happy that the proposal went through!

theButterfly:
Ditto.

Good point. Suspicions can be (+) or (-).
I'm sure OP is referring to the (-) ones here.

Have you ever thought that someone was really good... and they turned out to be the opposite OR that someone was really bad and you discovered they were actually the nicest?! You have to give LIFE a chance and just to be careful along the way. Don't give up your life for this new guy until you confirm that he is great but in that same sentence, don't close all the doors either. Dating is just an avenue to discover someone properly.