Hello house
Plz I need ur opinion on dis, av been dating dis guy for over two years now bt few months ago he proposed to me bt I find out he is still seeing another lady........pls Wat shld I do am confused

Unpropose and start seeing someone else too.

That is called GGov 1.5

Hmmn, early signs of unfaithfulness in marriage.

This is how girls miss a great sex partner

Look at it this way


You're his main

He uses his sides to have more experience in sex matters

By the time you guys are married, you will find out why he did this things

go and see your own other people nah!!!!!!
Hian, nawao

lilmax:
This is how girls miss a great sex partner

Look at it this way


You're his main

He uses his sides to have more experience in sex matters

By the time you guys are married, you will find out why he did this things

I actually knew I was going to read a comment like this from a guy. Assuming the table was turned, I would have read a comment like ' You want marry Olosho put for house? Guy, you be mumu'

Why the double standard? What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. Stop giving advise you won't take if you were in her shoes.

For two years? My lady if you know you won't be able to take sharing your man, you'd better walk away because that is inevitable.

Unpropose the proposal and japa.

My dear confront him, what ever his reasons are, forgive him......then end the relationship. If not you are in for lots of cheating in that marriage, avoid that now while you still can!

Knowing fully well that infidelity is not an option, ask him his reasons for seeing someone else and if it's not credible enough, or it's sexually inclined,
Quit his ass and move on... Abeg it's too early for drama

GrabHisBalls:
I actually knew I was going to read a comment like this from a guy. Assuming the table was turned, I would have read a comment like ' You want marry Olosho put for house? Guy, you be mumu'

Why the double standard? What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. Stop giving advise you won't take if you were in her shoes.

it's not a double standard something. that man is going to pay money to marry. in some tribes, a lot of money. you dont pay money for something that's below standard. the table can turn if and only if the woman pays money to marry a man. until then

Keep deluding urself
He proposed too wat do u expect
This b some man utd lvpool rivalry

Unfaithfulness is not one of the ups and downs of a relationship, it is a breach of contract.

Thank God you both are not married, count your gain and move on.

This is for you Blacky001

You may be dating someone for long but the question you should ask yourself is how positively have you been imparting this guy's life? What is one good thing you've brought into this guy's life that he can remember you for? This is me just reasoning out loud.

Now, let me tell you; the guy is simply weighing his options. The thing is that, there are girls that just remain dormant in a guy's life years upon years with nothing to show for it that you've been there for the guy through turbulent times. You are just there waiting for the guy to make things work out while you remain dormant.Ask yourself if you've really shown this guy that you have his true interest at heart.

We guys want to be loved too. That's one thing you girls don't know. We want to feel wanted too cuz guys are human beings like ladies with emotions too. How often do you give positive advice to this guy? How many times have you told him you care about him that you can do anything to be with him? These are things every girls expect from guys but they can't give same in return to same guys they want to be with. That's the selfishness we see that exist in ladies' minds. Relationship is two-way directions.

If you are not doing all of that, we will simply keep you and look for someone else who will make us feel wanted and loved. We won't dish you, we will still keep you and look elsewhere until we find someone that will make us feel wanted, loved and cared for. We want to feel how lovely it feels having a girl that that have your interest at heart.

The problem?You are simply not making this guy feel wanted and loved. He is not getting that true care from you that is why he is seeing someone else. He is seeing another girl so he can have many options to choose from. He will surely go for the one that care about him not the one that always wait for him to call and do all the stuff to make the relationship works. You ain't contributing anything that makes him feel assured of having you as the one to spend the rest of his life with.

Pls ladies should learn from this.

Blacky001:
Hello house
Plz I need ur opinion on dis, av been dating dis guy for over two years now bt few months ago he proposed to me bt I find out he is still seeing another lady........pls Wat shld I do am confused

Don't be confused, if you have accepted his proposal, focus on how to plan the marriage

Leave him let him have his way now

When he starts buying baby items and pampers

He will be indoors to help you baby sit and reduce keeping women out side which helps him to save money

When did nairaland become a place to seek fruitful advise?
At least take this matter to the Family section

lilmax:
This is how girls miss a great sex partner

Look at it this way


You're his main

He uses his sides to have more experience in sex matters

By the time you guys are married, you will find out why he did this things

See men+tality naa, chai.

Mehn, guys are moving mad o. If you’re sure you’re the main chick, no problem. If you’re not sure, better ask him to clarify your position in the pecking order.

We don’t want things to get messy.

lilmax:
This is how girls miss a great sex partner

Look at it this way


You're his main

He uses his sides to have more experience in sex matters

By the time you guys are married, you will find out why he did this things

You have said it all!

GrabHisBalls:
I actually knew I was going to read a comment like this from a guy. Assuming the table was turned, I would have read a comment like ' You want marry Olosho put for house? Guy, you be mumu'

Why the double standard? What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. Stop giving advise you won't take if you were in her shoes.

Double standard? No. Now you’re overreacting. Calm down.

''A lot of people think that there is someone out there that is the right life partner, the person who is made for them. Always chasing after an impossible dream because the ''right partner'' simply does not exist.

There are potential partners who are better than others certainly, but the trouble is that if you are convinced there is a perfect partner you are not going to be looking for a good partner.

The result is either that you never settle down with anyone or youin a permanent state of discontent with the person you do pick. Instead of working with a good partner to make a good life together, you reject what you have because you haven't got the perfect partner.

The perfect partner of course comes with a ready-made perfect life which requires no work from you at all''

Blacky001

Why are you asking us? Dump him now.

That's going to be his lifestyle once he is married to you.

have you discuss this with him before? are you romantic perhaps you can't withstand is high libido


if he's a sex freak and you don't like sex, Abeg find the person you're comfortable with. your future is important than ring


but I'll appreciate if you can discuss this with him but if he didn't stop, you've to stop his relationship and move on. don't allow one guy to put embargo on a proposed purchase product that he won't value


some guys are sick though, no be the same vagina in the middle of ya legs dey the accused side chic legs or maybe the said side chic was his prayer partner

Blacky001:
Hello house
Plz I need ur opinion on dis, av been dating dis guy for over two years now bt few months ago he proposed to me bt I find out he is still seeing another lady........pls Wat shld I do am confused

tell him not us about your findings

To tell you the truth and in simple terms; forget this guy and let him be! he is just using you as a sex machine, he will dump you at the end. the proposal or ring thing is a decoy to hold you down as his intimacy gadget....I have been here also...pls run away now.

U might not be the only one he has proposed to..