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Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by OSUigboFlatHead(f): 7:03pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
stevups:ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Eaglefine(f): 7:10pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Writercruze: Solomon sense will not kill you. You mean na only our matter you carry for head. Men nko? Abi them no follow for the matter? Continue!!! |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Kiezodumah(m): 7:13pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
The ish I have with this write up is the bias in it. Op why must u use the word "Nigerian" to qualify the lady ?? Must we always use every opportunity to attack our naija babes. All those points u listed would fit in for any lady in a relationship irrespective of her race, ethnicity and nationality. Some guys go call me sissy now and that I am trying to gather likes.. Its far from it. Let's just tell ourselves the objective truth. Fine, babes get dem issues wey plenty..if we start talk am we no go comot here. Likewise guys also have theirs. However, no be all the time we go just dey try to stylishly paint them black . Good gals still yapa for town. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Dextre(m): 7:17pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Writercruze: Maybe all of us should kuku turn reverend fathers and sisters. Let's end nigeria here and now |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by sigidi5: 7:17pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
[s] OSUigboFlatHead:[/s] |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Kiezodumah(m): 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
The ish I have with this write up is the bias in it. Op why must u use the word "Nigerian" to qualify the lady ?? Must we always use every opportunity to attack our naija babes. All those points u listed would fit in for any lady in a relationship irrespective of her race, ethnicity and nationality. Some guys go call me sissy now and that I am trying to gather likes.. Its far from it. Let's just tell ourselves the objective truth. Fine, babes get dem issues wey plenty..if we start talk am we no go comot here. Likewise guys also have theirs. However, no be all the time we go just dey paint them black.No be only Nigerians dey nairaland I think( stand to be corrected tho ) Good gals still yapa for town. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Humility017(m): 7:23pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Kokaine: bro the unfortunate thing is that guys won't treat your lady the way you've been treating even the ladies close to u or your best friend... some guys have bad intentions... I have been a victim of this bestie issue... my ex... even though I have female friends...never for once take advantage of them but that was not what I got in return. I have resolve I will never date a lady with a male bestie again... 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Ferrous(m): 7:25pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
The same issue I had with my former gal; she's married but she couldn't allow me rest. I even warned her never to call me again. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by franchasng: 7:25pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Don't marry any Nigerian lady or girl that have a male bestie or an ex she still keeps his pictures, its as simple as that. You should be her ex, her bestie and her everything, if not, don't marry her 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Alexaonfleek: 7:53pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Ryan03:the thread talked about what to agree with a Nigerian lady before going into a relationship with her.if there's anything wrong with the points she listed then you can say your mind.not by asking about things to agree on before dating a Nigerian guy. I see your point but then you don't have to derail the thread 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Yes and Pele to you too.. his situation is somewhat like yours... that time when he vehemently told you... but you were not willing to let go. Pele! must have been a sad experience |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by maynation(f): 8:02pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Things I can't do for marriage. I ain't changing my surname and I can't quit my work for any reason. My allowance, promotion and remuneration should be gone because of marriage? If any man can't accept me like this he should please fly off a cliff. Marriage isn't a must. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 8:13pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
maynation: Yeah. Marriage most definitely isn't a most I'm about to be seriously insulted |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by maynation(f): 8:16pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: Anyone could have made that mistake. Trust me no one would insult you. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Awoleesu(m): 8:20pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
stevups:You make the most sense dear! |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
maynation: You want to be forming calm girl that doesn't fight or reciprocate when attacked or mocked abi? You that you are probably the ' No nonsense' type. Anyways, I can't believe I can find someone who refuses to follow the foolish western culture and change her surname. That tradition is nothing but sh!t that should be condemned. A woman has her own identity and she should not be attributed to someone from whom she did not emanate in her lineage. Secondly, I love your second point too. I believe in empowerment of women although it should be defined. It shouldn't be taken to extreme where she now starts claiming superiority or doesn't want to be submissive to husband. I'm a fan of a society where people will hear of a woman and will discuss beyond her sexual appeal and beauty to positive things she has done in life. lastly, I like your last point. Marriage is indeed not a must provided the person doesn't fvck around like a shameless dog. Why am I telling you all this when you don't even know me? I don't know. I just feel like giving my opinion. lastly, pls don't retaliate what I did to you if you find any error. At least, know that I'm quite younger than you so you should act like a mature person |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 8:32pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Ryan03:I tire o |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Tpresh(f): 8:36pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Nice points. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by maynation(f): 8:46pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: Aren't there time you just don't have strength for argument and rift? So it isn't forming, it's just my current mood. OladimejiRufai: Thanks for sharing same view with me on this. You sounded more like you tryna impress tho. Before you type anything,I could be wrong. OladimejiRufai: Another thanks again but it doesn't need to be defined. A lady deserves all the good things in this life as much as a guy does. Having a rod in between someone's laps shouldn't guarantee an avenue to be more superb. Superiority should be earned and shouldn't be ascribed to a particular sex. If I earn more than my husband and he feels his ego has been battered then he should work out of the door, and if the door is locked he shouldn't hesitate to break down the nearest wall to him. OladimejiRufai: It depends on your definition of the boldened, that I don't have a husband shouldn't stop me from having a horseman. I just hope you got this. I just wouldn't know the level it has to get to before you consider it 'shameless'. OladimejiRufai: I am glad you did , trust me. OladimejiRufai: Looks like someone has my birth certificate. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 9:03pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
maynation: Are you serious about the horseman thing? Sounds somewhat wild and... No, if that's you on your DP, you are definitely older than I am. this is a guy here that is not even in the university yet. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Tonyspecial(m): 9:08pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
I disagreed with ur number 6, if I pay her bride prize, she must answer my surname |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Kokaine:Some are. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nuelonyi: 9:27pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Abeg oh make una no vex, is it a most that everybody must marry |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by forsto(m): 9:45pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Well this is good. but some of this are necessary. By picking it. Phone numbers. Unko? |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 9:50pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Why not just marry him and keep him even closer?, why is he good enough for keeping close but not for marriage?? |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by praz001(m): 9:57pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
[quote author=maynation post=83405092] Aren't there time you just don't have strength for argument and rift? So it isn't forming, it's just my current mood. Thanks for sharing same view with me on this. You sounded more like you tryna impress tho. Before you type anything,I could be wrong. Another thanks again but it doesn't need to be defined. A lady deserves all the good things in this life as much as a guy does. Having a rod in between someone's laps shouldn't guarantee an avenue to be more superb. Superiority should be earned and shouldn't be ascribed to a particular sex. If I earn more than my husband and he feels his ego has been battered then he should work out of the door, and if the door is locked he shouldn't hesitate to break down the nearest wall to him. It depends on your definition of the boldened, that I don't have a husband shouldn't stop me from having a horseman. I just hope you got this. I just wouldn't know the level it has to get to before you consider it 'shameless'. I am glad you did , trust me. Looks like someone has my birth certificate. in say............. 6 years time sha let's see if the shoulder is still above the neck..... |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Joe4real1988(m): 10:19pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Eaglefine:Make i ask u, woman dey engage and marry man for 9ja?? Ur answer na y we dey always analys, update ourselves over una childish behaviour. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Firstorderwizard(m): 10:37pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
phylshan:Serious bro, I even begged her for the bad things I did to her and she accepted. I think I beefed by confessing how much I love her. |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by xendra: 5:34am On Oct 24, 2019 |
yea, and when it's a guy doing all of this; keeping besties and ex, cheat on him and marry another person while he still thinks you are waiting for him |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by sassiemyk: 5:50am On Oct 24, 2019 |
@Op, you just expressed your fears and insecurities. The relationship is doomed for lack of trust and riddled with too much entitled opinions. Problem starts when you expect your wife to be ruled over. She has a right to make decisions and that's dependent on how you treat her. Its marriage not bondage. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by JB4life: 6:29am On Oct 24, 2019 |
Very rich. The summary is all about COMPATIBILITY having certain traits and lifestyle compatibility and being in the same page. |
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