A Nigerian man recently took to social media to share his predicament with his girlfriend of 8 months, who was giving him grief for not taking care of her financial needs like his does for his mother.

In the screenshot of the chat, the girlfriend identified as Tolani, had demanded for N150k and when he stated that he had not being paid and was currently broke, she became upset and accused him of putting his mother’s needs above hers.

According to her, his mother may have taken care of him when he was little but he’s grown now and she (the girlfriend) takes care of his needs and is in a way, his mother as well.
She went on to state that the financial care he gives to his mother should be directed at her as well.

See chat screenshots below;


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The girlfriend is very silly to compare herself to the man's mum, does she know how many years his mum has sacrified to take care of him through the bad and good times, so she thinks giving him sex that is as cheap as water is enough reason for her to be in the same level with his mum.
She is a girlfriend and not a wife.

I think the light in her eyes is draining the battery in her head.

That is to say "Oju e tan ina s'ile".

Not cool at all. Do u know a mother's sacrifices and suffering for her child? Red flag spotted.

There are some things that shouldn't be raised cos it shows bad home training.

Lol see this one is already feeling important
If only she knew he is just using her cure his konji
So nw she thinks she can compete with his mother? She needs to wake up from slumber!!!

Lol,see them. Trying to tonreap where they did not sow ,goan work and dy said no,just dy spread pussy like wildfire.

Lady is funny sha......she can never take the mumsy place abeg.... joke neeh.

Nija girls and their entitlement mentality is amusing

I blame the guy for this. He even gave her the chance to yawn this rubbish. If I tell my girl I am broke, it means I am broke

I can work away or turn a blind eye when someone is beating my girlfriend...

But if it's my mom, I don't even care to know if she's in the wrong or not before I pounce on the person...

motherly love is the only love that exists....


Another scenario is siblings that fight all the time and maybe stingy with personal items like phones, bathing soap, body cream, clothes etc. but will never think twice if the need arises to donate blood for the same sibling...

Those are the only true love known to mankind or at least me.

Smh Bleep I swear I love myself, two most important thing in my life is family and my sanity! Never choose a hoe over family! Look at this broke, mannerless girl! Don’t you have hands to work! Is this a sponsorship or a relationship?? The only thing this hoe brings to the table is just sex nothing else! This guy self na another example of why some boys would never be billionaires! The only way u can actually give her the 150k is till u receive salary! Salary wey you suppose they save, na him you done spend even before e come! Chai

Any lady that compare her position in my life with even my sister's is a gunner, talk more of my Mum.

Wahala dey! She no get work no?

One thing.ladies should know is that, nothing beats having your own money, when you do, no man will do you anyhow,you won't even need to be a servant in one yeye boyfriend's house cos you need money at the end,

Btw, I notice lately that men prefers to screenshot whatever they do as proof of not lying, it is becoming rampant and I'm beginning not to trust the authenticity of it.

Nothing new here.

This is the mentality of most Nigerian women, girlfriends & wives inclusive. Why do you think there are so many issues between wives and mother-in-laws?
If they are not dragging the man's attention, it is money.

crackhaus:
Nothing new here.

This is the mentality of most Nigerian women, girlfriends & wives inclusive. Why do you think there are so many issues between wives and mother-in-laws?
If they are not dragging the man's attention, it is money.

Do u really mean this?

As for me,I can't believe a lady could be this daft to reason this way not to talk of even typing that as a response to her bf




If some humans (ladies) actually reason like this, then evolution is true and we are beginning to evolve back to apes and restart the evolution cycle oncece again

Heroclitus:




Do u really mean this?

As for me,I can't believe a lady could be this daft to reason this way not to talk of even typing that as a response to her bf




If some humans (ladies) actually reason like this, then evolution is true and we are beginning to evolve back to apes and restart the evolution cycle oncece again

She's gutsy, I'll give her that.

A lot of other women like her are only thinking it, but will not put it to words.
They'll probably say something else like, 'You're never supportive', 'You don't support my dreams', 'Why don't you care about my needs?' Etc

Pettyprincess:
Lol see this one is already feeling important
If only she knew he is just using her cure his konji
So nw she thinks she can compete with his mother? She needs to wake up from slumber!!!

You aren't making any point here

Is she mad ni