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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Legalese(m): 1:20am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Get a girlfriend. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by milon123: 1:22am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Trust in the Lord to keep you. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by OyiboOyibo(m): 1:25am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Rednaxelot:Don't mind the nincompoop 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by jaxxy(m): 1:47am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx: Face ur studies bro! Many of these gals are just distractions looking for where to reap where they did not sow. They bring no value. Just time wasters and emotional bagaage. However if u see a sensible gal equally focused as u are they u may try to get be frnds or get to know her bt this is not mandatory or shud be seen as a must. Generally I wud say maintain good grades 1st b4 maintaining any gal as far as skol is concerned. It also depends on the type of person u are and ur personality. People are different. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 1:50am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Tarabye: 1:55am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by omoiyalayi(m): 2:07am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 2:18am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx:bros abeg stop falling your hand.since when did having TV,GOTV and Gen became a big deal? 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 2:19am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 2:20am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Trutherme: 2:38am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Teejay13(m): 2:42am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by DeriNwamamatene: 2:52am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Gabson001(m): 3:01am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by practicalclass: 3:02am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx: Tell yourself you will not allow what you see control your urges, and carry this around in your consciousness. May the Lord help you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 3:21am On Oct 27, 2019 |
https://www.nairaland.com/5412873/how-get-girl-school-environment https://www.nairaland.com/4985769/guys-here-what-should-condom#75155328 https://www.nairaland.com/4917940/lady-owerri-lets-hang-out https://www.nairaland.com/4983411/please-more-than-relationship-problem this is how we troll yeah, chilling laid back straight trollin yeah we do it like that 1 Like
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by ikemesit4477: 3:30am On Oct 27, 2019 |
These is ridiculous, I have never read these kind of thread in nairaland before, who ask you whether you have gen and gotv! You are so dumb! |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Ken4Christ: 4:04am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx: First, give your life to Christ Second, be busy for the LORD Third, be focused. Fourth, make up your mind not to be distracted by them. Lastly, be very prayerful. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by paparazi1(m): 4:11am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx:Are you a christian or what?, where you not taught discipline at home?, don't trade lusts with your destiny. my advise is in Gal 5:24 CRUCIFY YOUR SEXUAL URGE and stop been mumu. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Dreal1247: 4:27am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx: If you are sincerely sure that this is actually the situation with you, send me a private message. |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 4:31am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx:Na you hold yourself, you don't want to hv a galfnd and mind your business with her or focus on your objections in college. But how u wan read when you hv all ds things you mention in your room? |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by snappyicee: 4:33am On Oct 27, 2019 |
you dont, just avoid lustful imaginations 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Solsix(m): 4:34am On Oct 27, 2019 |
I'm not broke, I got a medium size gen, TV, GOtv and all that... Which is probably why the ladies are showing interest... [/quote] This is your problem, u are bringing unnecessary attention to yourself. If you are serious about focusing, then you must do something about the above 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Sadiqullahi(m): 4:39am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by rexrodrygo2019: 4:39am On Oct 27, 2019 |
See ehn I dey do my work for Law where babes dey wear skirt everyday nai I dey see lap and thighs I no even dey reason am cos I na money i dey fine lemme advice you son. Learn to keep your d*ck in your pocket son 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Nobody: 4:40am On Oct 27, 2019 |
thelastorca: Legionx is busted , lol2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Viktorino: 4:57am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Avoid them oh.Most of them will distract you from your studies.Focus on your books! |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by capitalzero: 4:57am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Legionx:www.jw.org. How Can I Keep My Mind Off ® “Thoughts about sex come from nowhere and completely take over. It’s as if someone else’s brain were in my head.”—Vera. “Controlling thoughts about sex seems impossible. I might as well start flapping my arms and hope to fly.”—John. Are your feelings similar to those of Vera or John? If so, this article can help you. “My uncle told me that God wouldn’t have given me the desire for sex if he didn’t want me to act on it,” says a young man named Alex. Part of what Alex’s uncle said was correct—God did give us sexual desires, and for good reason. The human race exists today as a direct result of procreation. So why should you even be concerned about keeping your mind off sex? Here are two good reasons: The Bible teaches that God’s purpose is that sex should take place only between a man and woman who are married to each other.— Genesis 1:28; 2:24 . If you respect that standard and you’re single, dwelling on sex will only frustrate you. It could even tempt you to give in and have sex—a decision that many have said they later regretted. Keeping your mind off sex is part of a larger issue— self-control. —1 Corinthians 9:25 . That attribute plays a key role in your success, both now and in the future. In fact, one study showed that children with self-control were less likely later in life to have health issues, financial stress, and problems with the law. Why is it so difficult? Hormones—added to the fact that we live in a sex-obsessed world—can make it challenging to keep your mind off sex. “It seems as if every TV show puts a positive spin on premarital sex, without showing any dangers. It’s easy to dwell on improper thoughts when improper sex isn’t shown to have any consequences.”—Ruth. “At work, I overhear a lot of vulgar talk about sex, and my curiosity starts working on me. Immoral sex is made to seem so normal that it’s hard to think of it as wrong.”—Nicole. “It’s easy to let your guard down when you’re scrolling through images on social media. One sexual image can burn into your brain and become the hardest thing to forget!”—Maria. Factors such as these might make you feel the way the apostle Paul did. He wrote: “When I wish to do what is right, what is bad is present with me.”— Romans 7:21 . Don’t allow wrong thoughts to build a nest on your head What you can do Direct your mind elsewhere. Try to focus on things besides sex. This could include a hobby, sports, exercise, or any activity that can redirect your focus. “Reading the Bible helps,” says a young woman named Valerie. “It contains thoughts that are on a higher plane, and when you have that in your mind, you don’t really have much room for anything else.” True, thoughts about sex may enter your mind. But what you do with those thoughts is up to you. If you choose to, you have the power to dismiss them. “When my thoughts start to get away from me, I make myself mentally switch over to something else. I also try to identify the mental opening that I gave myself—whether it’s a song that I should delete from my playlist or a picture that I need to delete.”—Helena. Bible principle: “Whatever things are righteous, whatever things are chaste [or, morally “pure,” footnote], . . . continue considering these things.”— Philippians 4:8 . Choose good associates. If your friends are always talking about sex, it’s going to be difficult to keep your mind clean. “As a teenager, I really struggled with my thoughts, and a large factor was my associates. When you’re around people who encourage wrong desires, you focus on your feelings—and that just adds fuel to the fire.”—Sarah. Bible principle: “The one walking with the wise will become wise, but the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly.”— Proverbs 13:20 . Avoid improper entertainment. It’s no secret that virtually every aspect of the entertainment industry features sexual content. “For me, music is the biggest factor,” says Nicole. “It can fuel desires to the point that they seem overwhelming.” “I started watching movies and TV shows that featured sexual content. Before I knew it, I was thinking a lot about sex. It was easy to trace those thoughts back to their source. Once I cut out those movies and TV shows, I didn’t think so much about sex anymore. Being selective with entertainment makes the battle against improper thoughts so much easier.”—Joanne. Bible principle: “Let sexual immorality and every sort of uncleanness or greediness not even be mentioned among you.”— Ephesians 5:3 . The bottom line: Some people think that their sexual urges are so important that they should not—and cannot—be controlled. But the Bible says otherwise. It dignifies us by stating that we can control our thoughts. Bible principle: “Continue to be made new in your dominant mental attitude.”— Ephesians 4:23 . What your peers say “Entertainment seems designed to induce improper thoughts. To the best of our ability, we should control our environment and be selective about what we view. We should avoid putting ourselves in situations that will fuel wrong desires.”—Tyler. “Self-control is maintained by keeping up a good routine of Bible reading and study along with prayer. Usually when a person has a problem with constant improper thoughts, it’s because that routine is lacking.”—Yad |
| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by Soulsymbol99: 5:03am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by lighternote: 5:10am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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| Re: How Can I Control My Sexual Urges In School Environment? by BSF: 5:23am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Rednaxelot: . ooooh boy Laugh wan kill me. I just kept laughing even when I when moved to the last page of the thread. Anuofia!- that is a resounding knock to his head. |
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