Jasen1:
So no safety tips for we guys too

How to keep our things safe while meeting a lady for the first time


Abi woman never steal your money, phone and chains before

this post just got me upset, why are women always playing victim? So men don't fall victim to women abi. Women are worse than men when it comes to ulterior motives. They always look out for what to steal from a man once his drunk

Jasen1:
So no safety tips for we guys too

How to keep our things safe while meeting a lady for the first time


Abi woman never steal your money, phone and chains before

You are right though, a girl don run me street like that o some years now , chai stealing no good o, even though I'm a little careless that day,bitch don know sey I know wetting she did after she left . I just text her that " is that all you can offer ? Change your way before it's late " chai see the way that bitch dey avoid everything about me even online

77up:
You are right though, a girl don run me street like that o some years now , chai stealing no good o, even though I'm a little careless that day,bitch don know sey I know wetting she did after she left . I just text her that " is that all you can offer ? Change your way before it's late " chai see the way that bitch dey avoid everything about me even online

Lolzz one run street for me like that
I contact my guy wey dey into graphic na so he Photoshop the babe pix join for one juju like that as I send am give the babe tell her say I give am @ days to return my chain and wallet. Babe no waste time self she call apologized she return everything sharply come still pass night for my crib again for free banging though I'm a good guy I still wished her well(bar)

We still friends till todsy though

But she's yet to agree it was photo shopped lolz

Duggedised12:
not like that, these women are not aware they are being passed around all in the name of promise of marriage.

Which one is they are not aware? So you dea open your hole give every guy when promise marriage? Only a prostitute can be pass around.

Writercruze:
Online dating is something that has come to stay. But if you ever decide to meet up with any Nigerian guy from the internet, you must be extra careful. Don’t get me wrong; I’m not trying to paint Naija guys evil.

But with things happening around and activities of ritualists, It’s advisable to be careful when meeting somebody you met online. You can find your soulmate online. Yeah, my friend, who recently got married, met her husband on Facebook.

However, you can never be too careful when meeting someone online for the first time. Don’t forget that the person might have an ulterior motive. Also, he could be genuine with his intention. Whatever her purpose is, it’s good to be prepared and stay safe.

In this article, you will learn how to stay safe when meeting a Nigerian Guy from the internet.

Tips To Stay Safe When Meeting A Nigerian Guy You Met From The Internet

#1. Research About Him Before Agreeing To Meet

The first thing you should do when meeting a Nigerian guy from the internet is to research about him. Most often than none, the guy may not give you enough information about himself.

Well, Google makes a whole lot of things easier. You can search his name on Google, trust me a whole lot of information about the person will pop up. You can see more of his pictures and some other relevant information.

From the research, you will have a rough idea of the kind of person you are meeting. And if you think the guy’s lifestyle is the rugged type, then you should decline meeting him physically.

#2. Don’t Give Out Personal Information About Yourself

You don’t give much information about yourself when dating someone online. As a rule, never share personal information that can be used against you.

If I were you, I’d never share information like places I always visit, where my family members live, and my salary, to saw one I just met online. It’s a rookie mistake that could be very dangerous.

#3. Make A Video Call With Him

Most times, people use fake images on their online profiles. So, ensure you make a video call with a Nigerian guy before agreeing to meet. The essence of the video call is to ascertain that the person is who he claims he is.

Also, ensure that the voice on the audio call is the same as that on video calls. If not, then something is fishing. Avoid such a meeting because the guy could be dangerous.

Do you think I’m judging too quickly? Okay, what could make a guy be faking his identity to the woman he claims to love? Well, I will leave that for you to answer.

#4. Plan Your Meeting

Ensure you plan your meeting very well. The first thing you should do is to fix your meeting point in a public place. Somewhere very busy where he can’t try to make some dangerous move.

Never agree to meet with a Nigerian guy from the internet in private or secluded places like a hotel or their houses. Many girls have lost their lives because of this and others have been raped.

Some guys may seem very friendly and genuine online. But behind this niceness could be someone seriously hunting for the next ritual victim. So, be very careful, don’t allow them to use you to buy Lexus gift.

Again, you can share your location with your friends and family using your phone. And if you can go with any of your friends, that won’t be a bad idea. Hey, don’t overdo it. Just because I said, you should carry your friends didn’t mean you should go there with a bevy of ladies.

#5. Tell Someone Else About The Date

Don’t be secretive about meeting someone from the internet. Tell one or two persons about the date, the location, and when you are supposed to be back.

If you tell someone about the date, he or she can raise the alarm when you didn’t return at the expected time. It gives you confidence once you know that people are aware of your date. And find a way of telling your partner indirectly that people are aware of the date.

#6. Don’t Go With Your Car

Taking public transport is safer when meeting someone from the internet. When things go wrong, you can easily find your way back home using public transport. Even if you decide to go with your car, try to park it in a way that you can quickly move it in case of anything

#7. Don’t Drink Too Much

Most ladies are victims of this. How can you drink too much when meeting a guy from the internet for the first time?

Don’t forget that the guy may have an ulterior motive. If possible, avoid taking alcohol to remain active throughout the date. And once you notice that he’s trying to make you drink too much, end the meeting immediately.

#8. Carry a Pepper Spray

I hope you don’t have to use this, but it’s better to stay safe than sorry. Just be prepared in case the guy is trying to do some hanky panky, use the pepper spray and escape. Ensure you blocked such person from contacting you again.

You can never be too careful when meeting a Nigerian guy from the internet. Always remember that it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/how-to-stay-safe-when-meeting-a-nigerian-guy-you-met-online/

can any girl have such a thought when all she be thinking is to fuckkkk the guy and gets some cash

I hope the ladies will listen and follow all this tips very careful. Best of luck on ur dating glrls

Duggedised12:
not random guys na, there are dating groups on narialand here, some even charge you to hook you up. But it turns out to be a perfect place for these guys to have access to different ladies to warm their beds. Some group admins just dey chop nairaland girls like biscuit for these dating groups for nairaland ,lol.

It seems you are a victim of these Casanovas.

that your #1 wont work in nigeria cos if the guy is not a celeb how do u think his images will just pop up on google ...where?when? how? so you think its everybody that uses his or her real name on facebook? imagine a guy whose real name is Gbenga johnson come dey use the nickname of slimshady for im facebook and instagram account how do u want to search for dat one? and besides most ppl put what they want u to see on the internet.the safest bet for you if u want to meet a guy on the internet is insist you both meet in a public place and take ur time to study him very very well.if on ur first meeting he is insisting you come to his house abeg run ooo.he might just be a ritualist or rapist.

Jasen1:
So no safety tips for we guys too

How to keep our things safe while meeting a lady for the first time


Abi woman never steal your money, phone and chains before

na only ashawo dey do that kine thing.abeg dey move with responsible girls

frugal:
When meeting anyone online. Some ladies set men up to be robbed too. Stop the stereotype abeg.

very true

Vanessa88
pardon my manners, but why are you shinning like the future of Nigeria

Most importantly, Don't Drink too much. Some slizzy guys know they cannot access you when u level headed so they give ya alcohol... Mostly ugly dudes do this.

Osobi32:
this post just got me upset, why are women always playing victim? So men don't fall victim to women abi. Women are worse than men when it comes to ulterior motives. They always look out for what to steal from a man once his drunk

Stop dragging space with the weaker sex biko. Have dignity. We all know that men are stronger than women so they can be victims.

patoski39:
how we go contact u

hahahah you're funny guy

Duggedised12:
Couldn't be more timely with this thread. Op just might have saved a life. The odds of meeting a dangerous man online in Nigeria is so high i still wonder how ladies comfortably up and go visit a man they met on the internet in his comfort zone. If anything happens to you typical Nigerians will say "wetin you go find there?". Serial killer nor dey show for face o. With the amount of ritual killings ,gang raping in the country its safe to say dating online in Nigeria is the most risky ever cos many victims are not even alive to say their stories.

I once met a nairalander here, he was so easy to talk to we soon became chat buddies but i noticed there was no meaningful timeline on his face book ,i didnt take it serious until i also noticed he never posts on his status atleast not that i could see. Before you know it ,he started pestering me to come to lagos to visit him.
I decided to do some digging myself only to find out the Facebook account he gave me wasn't his real one ,the real one has his marriage and all. His wife was even pregnant, yes he is a nairalander,he could have easily been a ritualist oo.maybe na runs girl dem for tag me wen i go missing.

Also there is another strategy they are using now especially on nairaland, dating groups, yes you heard me, dating groups,many guys come together to form dating groups and come to nairaland to haunt for "ready to settle down" ladies cos they know this type of ladies have a bit of desperation in them, so they pass these ladies around in the group all in the name of dating, some of these so called "serious relationships " can last as long as up to a year before they pull the plug on the unsuspecting lady and the next guy in the group comes in to mark his own register.

Becareful ladies, be very careful of these men you meet online,let she that has ear hear o.

If you are a lady reading this and you didn't take anything away from this thread, just read the comments of men on this thread ,it will give you the idea that no man is worth putting your life at risk to meet, these men will readily call you a runs girl for even coming to meet them in their comfort zone anyway so why make it more difficult for yourself if you are not a runs girl to visit a Nigerian man who already sees you as cheap

was really surprised at the dating ring thingy


Guys also fall victims too to what you experienced.

lefulefu:
na only ashawo dey do that kine thing.abeg dey move with responsible girls

You don come again

comshots:
It seems you are a victim of these Casanovas.

nah, i dont have to be a victim to know what's up, even if i was there is no shame in it, vunerability is part of being human and you have to trust that the person you put your trust in will not take advantage of you.

jeff1607:



was really surprised at the dating ring thingy


Guys also fall victims too to what you experienced.

why are you surprised? If they can scam white women scamming their own should be easy .

EmptyCoconutHead:
hahahah you're funny guy

tankiu 4 d compliment,,, but u no ansa d question

I hope you don’t have to use this, but it’s better to stay safe than sorry. Just be prepared in case the guy is trying to do some hanky panky, use the pepper spray and escape.

Escape to where
I will also come with a pistol

Try that sh*t with me and meet your ancestors ontime

Duggedised12:
why are you surprised? If they can scam white women scamming their own should be easy .

it's the creating a dating ring that surprised me

jeff1607:


it's the creating a dating ring that surprised me

Nigerians are capable of anything,nothing should surprise you.

Duggedised12:
nah, i dont have to be a victim to know what's up, even if i was there is no shame in it, vunerability is part of being human and you have to trust that the person you put your trust in will not take advantage of you.

Narrate your experience to us.

Jasen1:



Lolzz one run street for me like that
I contact my guy wey dey into graphic na so he Photoshop the babe pix join for one juju like that as I send am give the babe tell her say I give am @ days to return my chain and wallet. Babe no waste time self she call apologized she return everything sharply come still pass night for my crib again for free banging though I'm a good guy I still wished her well(bar)

We still friends till todsy though

But she's yet to agree it was photo shopped lolz

buhahahaa stealing gone wrong

comshots:
Narrate your experience to us.

the admin wanted to try his luck i told him to announce it in the group he started acting funny that was when i knew something was up and decided to dig further and it lead me to the "dating ring" of guys who were passing girls around for fun on the group. Na so i take jakpa but it continued to bother me cos it seems some of the ladies are not aware of what is going on. Smh, the worse part of it is that this particular group has been on for years even after i left ,it is still in till now.

patoski39:
tankiu 4 d compliment,,, but u no ansa d question

wetin u really want?

EmptyCoconutHead:
wetin u really want?

reply ur mail 1st

AwkaetitiBabe:
Stop dragging space with the weaker sex biko. Have dignity. We all know that men are stronger than women so they can be victims.

really? The word weaker vessel is a scam! Women are more abussive to men ok. They most annoying this is they will still turn back and play victim!

Duggedised12:
the admin wanted to try his luck i told him to announce it in the group he started acting funny that was when i knew something was up and decided to dig further and it lead me to the "dating ring" of guys who were passing girls around for fun on the group. Na so i take jakpa but it continued to bother me cos it seems some of the ladies are not aware of what is going on. Smh, the worse part of it is that this particular group has been on for years even after i left ,it is still in till now.

Sorry,I have been offline.Can you explain further?What is the name of the dating site so that other ladies can learn from you?

comshots:
Sorry,I have been offline.Can you explain further?What is the name of the dating site so that other ladies can learn from you?

its not a site but a group on whatsapp and telegram.

comshots:
Sorry,I have been offline.Can you explain further?What is the name of the dating site so that other ladies can learn from you?

. I hardly login to make comments ever since I registered on nairaland a few weeks back, but I felt I had to respond to this person's comment. " whatsoever you won't eat, don't bother bringing it near your nose to know how it smells". I was a product of boarding school in Ogun state over two decades, and as at then guys do pass ladies around. Hmm I can still remember how the supreme seniors then do come around to describe woman anatomy and physiology after they might have had their ways with them. Then, he tells the next person to make moves. Pls you should learn from that adage I quoted. How I wish I could pour my heart here with my little years of pilgrim on earth and what have seen, but I know even with all ds, " the dog that will be lost will never listen to the whistle of the own".

Duggedised12:
its not a site but a group on whatsapp and telegram.

This gel sef.As you no free name am fashi.