My daughter is now with me.

The man my wife is living with said he can't father and take care of a child not his so my wife have to release her to me.

She is a cute little child that needs proper care which may not be possible due to my state of joblessness.
Since i was out of prison i have been living of from a good neighbour of mine and putting my child under his care is unwise.
The neighbour is a bachelor in his early thirtys.

I am happy she is with me but sad at the same time on how to take care of her properly.

What is the way forward for me?

cc'' lalasticlala

Do you have relatives that can assist? Can you afford to send her to a boarding school while you sort yourself out?

Truth is before bringing any child into this world there are lots of things to put into consideration.

Find a safe place she can stay probably from your family side or have they rejected you also? Then look for a good job nd start saving,when you have enough savings rent an apartment take back your daughter nd take good care of her!!! Please whoever you wanna give your daughter to for the main time please make sure they are trustworthy so your daughter wnt end up been molested or maltreated!!! Nd i hope you have change for good? Just forget about taking back your wife be more concentrated on how to get back on your feet nd take good care of that little princess!!

What took you to prison Cook up story sha

Ahmed0336:
Do you have relatives that can assist? Can you afford to send her to a boarding school while you sort yourself out?

Truth is before bringing any child into this world there are lots of things to put into consideration.

They abandon when i was in jail so that i don't have a relative.
My only relative is my aged mother in the village.
I can't don't want my child to grow up in such environment.

futurerex:
What took you to prison Cook up story sha

FRAUD took me their.

don't you have relatives? dad mom sisters brothers.. cousins oga shey you Dy whine us ni?

sp749513:
They abandon when i was in jail so that i don't have a relative.
My only relative is my aged mother in the village.
I can't don't want my child to grow up in such environment.

Damn!!!! You must be going through a lot.

Pettyprincess:
Find a safe place she can stay probably from your family side or have they rejected you also? Then look for a good job nd start saving,when you have enough savings rent an apartment take back your daughter nd take good care of her!!! Please whoever you wanna give your daughter to for the main time please make sure they are trustworthy so your daughter wnt end up been molested or maltreated!!! Nd i hope you have change for good? Just forget about taking back your wife be more concentrated on how to get back on your feet nd take good care of that little princess!!

The only trustworthy person is my aged mum in the village.

sp749513:
FRAUD took me their.

If you no get relatives carry am go orphanage na!

Nemesis0147:
don't you have relatives?
dad
mom
sisters
brothers.. cousins
oga shey you Dy whine us ni?

I do but they all abandon me when i was in jail.
The only person that visit occasionally is my runaway wife and that is why i still love her unconditionally.

I just pray she realise her mistake and come back to me.

You have big problem in your head. I guess the prison made you have some sort of mental illness.
Because in your last thread, you were seriously fighting to get back your daughter, and now you have her at last, and then you are asking what to do with her.

Why not throw her in a well?

Why fight for a child when you have no plans for her?

futurerex:






If you no get relatives carry am go orphanage na!

How old are you? Must everything be a joke.? Scroll and move on if you have nothing tangible to contribute.

Op, your sincerity is well appreciated. Someway, somehow, and someday, everything will be fine. Just keep your head up. I can see you're a changed person. There are some organizations that can assist. Make use of goggle to search for PROLAC, I think. Not sure though but I know they assist recidivist.

Don't limit urself to a particular job bro at least for now, for the girl. look 4 a hire purchase motorcycle/tricycle and start from there, find an averagely aged woman who you can trust around and tell her ur situation, enrol ur daughter in a public school around if u cannot afford private then after school she will stay with the woman till u return. you can negotiate pay with the woman and u decide if wage/salary will be easy 4u.

Uh.. Wasn't it just yesterday I read about someone being out of jail and was released and you were looking for how to gain custody of your 5-year old daughter (and heavily pregnant wife)?
Today today, your 5-year old daughter don show even before I finished reading comments on the other thread.
Make I better follow this thread closely because the way e dey go, be like your daughter go get admission to University within the next twelve hours

sp749513:
My daughter is now with me.

The man my wife is living with said he can't father and take care of a child not his so my wife have to release her to me.

She is a cute little child that needs proper care which may not be possible due to my state of joblessness.
Since i was out of prison i have been living of from a good neighbour of mine and putting my child under his care is unwise.
The neighbour is a bachelor in his early thirtys.

I am happy she is with me but sad at the same time on how to take care of her properly.

What is the way forward for me?

cc'' lalasticlala

You wanted your daughter to live with you and your wish has come through so what else is the problem?!
In the other thread you opened, you planned to fight the man who snatched your wife and we told you to leave your cheating wife and get your child back. Now that you have your daughter you should be happy nau.

DesChyko:
Uh.. Wasn't it just yesterday I read about someone being out of jail and was released and you were looking for how to gain custody of your 5-year old daughter (and heavily pregnant wife)?
Today today, your 5-year old daughter don show even before I finished reading comments on the other thread.
Make I better follow this thread closely because the way e dey go, be like your daughter go get admission to University within the next twelve hours

Lol ... I tire for the man o. His daughter is with him now but he’s still complaining instead of rejoicing.

DesChyko:
Uh.. Wasn't it just yesterday I read about someone being out of jail and was released and you were looking for how to gain custody of your 5-year old daughter (and heavily pregnant wife)?
Today today, your 5-year old daughter don show even before I finished reading comments on the other thread.
Make I better follow this thread closely because the way e dey go, be like your daughter go get admission to University within the next twelve hours

aswear������same here oh, i was shocked

Officialgarri:
You have big problem in your head. I guess the prison made you have some sort of mental illness.
Because in your last thread, you were seriously fighting to get back your daughter, and now you have her at last, and then you are asking what to do with her.

Why not throw her in a well?

Why fight for a child when you have no plans for her?

Lol .. the man is confused. He wanted something and got it but he’s still complaining

Take your daughter to your mother in the village since she's the only trusted ally you have now and work hard to bring her back to the city soon.
There's nothing wrong with staying in the village. Let your daughter taste both sides of the world, it will help her someday.

You are jobless and fighting for custody? I pray God makes a way for you.

J111333:
Take your daughter to your mother in the village since she's the only trusted ally you have now and work hard to bring her back to the city soon.
There's nothing wrong with staying in the village. Let your daughter taste both sides of the world, it will help her someday.

Thank you ma,there is sense in your comment.

sp749513:
Thank you ma,there is sense in your comment.

Sir or bro will be more appropriate.
Goodluck man.

Op.... keep it real.....your daughter is 5.... you were imprisoned for 4 years.... your daughter is a stranger to you... and you are a total stranger to your daughter. You are not in a position to manage yourself.... basically homeless. So why the fight for custody for your daughter? Is this really about your daughter?... or about using her as a means of getting your wife back?... get the daughter and the wife will follow? .... the reason why you now have your daughter and don't know what to do.... because this was never in your plans. You have not changed.... this is a form of blackmail.... and blackmail is a form of fraud. .My advice.... return the child to her mother. Swallow the bitter pill that you have lost your family because of fraud. Move on.

sp749513:
The only trustworthy person is my aged mum in the village.

.. Then take her to Ur mum in the village. Hustle and by God grace you can still stand on your fit and be able to give her a good life.

sp749513:
My daughter is now with me.

The man my wife is living with said he can't father and take care of a child not his so my wife have to release her to me.

She is a cute little child that needs proper care which may not be possible due to my state of joblessness.
Since i was out of prison i have been living of from a good neighbour of mine and putting my child under his care is unwise.
The neighbour is a bachelor in his early thirtys.

I am happy she is with me but sad at the same time on how to take care of her properly.

What is the way forward for me?

cc'' lalasticlala

You better raise her up as a single father

Spot on

Originalsly:
Op.... keep it real.....your daughter is 5.... you were imprisoned for 4 years.... your daughter is a stranger to you... and you are a total stranger to your daughter. You are not in a position to manage yourself.... basically homeless. So why the fight for custody for your daughter? Is this really about your daughter?... or about using her as a means of getting your wife back?... get the daughter and the wife will follow? .... the reason why you now have your daughter and don't know what to do.... because this was never in your plans. You have not changed.... this is a form of blackmail.... and blackmail is a form of fraud. .My advice.... return the child to her mother. Swallow the bitter pill that you have lost your family because of fraud. Move on.

Where do u stay

Within the last 24hours, the man who has had your wife and daughter under his roof has suddenly rejected your daughter?

We all know where this is headed.

..............
The average Nigerian is full of lies, that's why they get so much hate from around the world.

Call the attention of her mum if she can help financially so that you can take her to boarding school.

sp749513:
My daughter is now with me.

The man my wife is living with said he can't father and take care of a child not his so my wife have to release her to me.

She is a cute little child that needs proper care which may not be possible due to my state of joblessness.
Since i was out of prison i have been living of from a good neighbour of mine and putting my child under his care is unwise.
The neighbour is a bachelor in his early thirtys.

I am happy she is with me but sad at the same time on how to take care of her properly.

What is the way forward for me?

cc'' lalasticlala

This was the same question I asked you in your last thread, how are you going to take care of her if you finally get her back?

BiggyB242:


This was the same question I asked you in your last thread, how are you going to take care of her if you finally get her back?

I can take care of her,what i need is job to earn salary.