We fall in love and enter into relationships hoping and expecting the best out of it. We want the relationship to give us love, happiness, fulfilment, respect, affection, companionship, satisfaction and peace. No one wants sadness, sorrow, depression or suffering, therefore we create our different fantasies of a perfect life and perfect partner, all we want is to be happy and live happily ever after.

It is a legitimate desire to want a happy and fun filled life, that is the life you should live, but life itself is not perfect and so are humans. You entered the relationship with your own imperfection, your partner is also imperfect, definitely the love will also be imperfect. That is how it will be, no matter how many partners you decide to switch to.

Stop looking for where the grass is greener, happiness will not just come at once, you have to work and build it together. Happy homes takes a lot of sacrifices and work, if things must work, then you need to work it out. Work on yourself, work on your partner, communicate with your partner always and encourage him/her to work on theirself and also help work on you too.

Do not take too many things to heart or bear grudges easily, overlook the unnecessary shortcomings, build the perfect life you want and cultivate your happiness. Plant it, water it, weed it of unwanted plants, apply manure and fertilizers when necessary and watch it blossom and grow to the envy of others. The grass is greener where you water it, not on the other side, besides the other side you are admiring might be another person’s work, work on your own and avoid trespassing.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/12/the-grass-is-greener-where-you-water-it/

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It's funny how some people think there is a perfect partner out there waiting for them. You find these set of people getting angry at their partner without even making attempt to correct them thinking "they should have known" this thinking make them search around for what they have. weldone sir/ma, continue the search the lord is your strength.
The earlier you wake up to this reality (op's title) the better for you