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Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by jezuzboi(m): 3:42pm On Nov 16, 2019
It is more important to desire to be a good spouse than to desire to marry a good spouse. If you only desire to marry a good spouse without making effort to be a good spouse yourself, you might end up meeting a good spouse who doesn’t consider you good enough for him or her. So, as you seek a worthy spouse for yourself, also be a worthy spouse.

Nobody wishes to marry a loser who has nothing to offer. But rather than being so mindful not to marry a ‘loser who has nothing to offer’, be more concerned about not being a ‘loser who has nothing to offer’. Likeminded people will always attract each other, & whatever you give out will always return to you. Be a version of who you wish to marry!

Gone are the days when people married beauty & fine looks. Everyone now wants peace & will only marry someone who can afford them that peace. But rather than being so concerned about marrying someone who can afford you peace, work hard to be a carrier of that peace & you’ll attract a peace carrier. Be a version of who you wish to marry!

If you want someone to accept you as you are, don’t be picky. You can’t desire a tall, fine god or goddess & expect them to take you as you are. They have standards too. If they meet your standards, meet theirs too. If you aren’t ready to meet anyone’s standards, don’t expect anyone to meet your standards. Be a version of who you wish to marry!

If you desire people with good habits, cultivate good habits yourself. If you want a faithful spouse, be faithful. If you don’t want to marry a cheat, don’t be a cheat. If you want the truth, be truthful. If you wouldn’t like to be deceived into marrying someone you wouldn’t ordinarily marry, don’t try to deceive anyone into marrying you.

Quit playing mind games. It is an unattractive trait. It is why relationships fail. Many want to be players, to be in control, to eat their cakes & have it back, to play the other for a fool. If you play someone for a fool, get ready to be played for a fool, cuz that thing they say about Karma is a legit saying. Just be a version of who you wish to marry!

Jezuzboi©

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Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by solz007(m): 3:49pm On Nov 16, 2019
True Talk Be The Right Person!
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by Coachlizzy(f): 8:46pm On Nov 16, 2019
Absolutely correct
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by Starz825(m): 9:09pm On Nov 16, 2019
Flesh and blood hasn't reveal this to you bro....

Keep pushing this message....

You said everything of my standard and mindset..
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:46pm On Nov 16, 2019
Some people are selfish, they want the perfect spouse of their dream who is going to take them as they are, they don't think of being the perfect match for him or her in return, few of them are lucky but most of them spend years being single.

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Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by Nobody: 1:34am On Nov 17, 2019
Tajbol4splend:
Some people are selfish, they want the perfect spouse of their dream who is going to take them as they are, they don't think of being the perfect match for him or her in return, few of them are lucky but most of them spend years being single.

Correct
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by NiCurious: 2:08am On Nov 17, 2019
Amen to the message.
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by mumumugu(m): 2:36am On Nov 17, 2019
I wanna marry mumu
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by jezuzboi(m): 3:51pm On Nov 17, 2019
mumumugu:
I wanna marry mumu
Be careful what you wish for, cuz you might just get it. You wanna marry a mumu? seriously?
Re: Be A Version Of Who You Wish To Marry by jezuzboi(m): 10:29am On Nov 18, 2019
Tajbol4splend:
Some people are selfish, they want the perfect spouse of their dream who is going to take them as they are, they don't think of being the perfect match for him or her in return, few of them are lucky but most of them spend years being single.
As in ehn...

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